Do you feel Alone?

Things happen in life that prevent us from looking at a true perspective. The reality we see is not the same as the reality that is. In times of trouble, many people turn inward. They start to reflect and isolate themselves from the rest of society, their friends and family. Pushing away the ones you love is not all that uncommon too. Many people suffer from this isolation. You are not the only one. But the people around you are there to provide you with love and support. I’ve talked about it before and it is a common and grave mistake to think that you are an island. There are many ways to help get through your problems and most of them involve people. Other people. Not just yourself.

yes you are right, another way you can overcome it is by letting your friends know how you feel about it and ask the reason why you were left out or if you are hurt and can't approach the friend, don't bombard him in chat, just move on and reevaluate the friendship for better

for it is better to walk through the darkness with a friend than walk alone through light

I’m always constantly lonely. I don’t really have anyone I can talk to about anything. I find myself wanting to talk to myself just to try and get things off my chest. Not many people seem to want to mix with me and I really don’t know why. I’m never nasty to people and I’m always loyal and caring. I dress smartly and shower and take care of myself. People have mentioned I’ve done well for myself so I’m not a scrounger. I don’t know. I try and make myself a more interesting person and more approachable. I do find a lot of people I meet very boring I must say. Maybe I show that I’m bored? I always ask people questions and listen and talk when I think I need too. Maybe I’m boring. Whatever it is it’s made me one lonely man an I wish I could sort it.

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Sometimes being lonely helps us to become more stronger.If sometimes we think that people doesn't want our presence just ignore it.We have our family who will always be there for us.They will never leave us alone no matter what happen.💓

When you are just a teenager you can just simply ride with your shyness. You can stay at your room whole day without worying on anything. As a grown up man this is impossible and not apropriate.

I experiencedt hat when I am still working and my officemate talking about the GC and I am not belong to that. I feel out of place. Deep inside it hurts, why they didnt add me but I keep on acting like I am not hurt at all 😄 One day they tell me what's that GC is all about without asking it 😄 Maybe they knew that I am hurt? I dont know.

And now, I am stay at home mom. I can feel that I am always alone. There's always a thought in my mind that no one cares for me.

We come to this world alone, and we also leave it alone. The irony of life is that we were created as social beings. We have been focused on other people all our lives, both at work and at home. We are simply not self-sufficient to be complete. On the other hand, rushing into socialization at any cost can bring us great harm. Therefore, although it is very difficult, we must also learn that sometimes it is better to be lonely for a while.

Loneliness is one kind of broken in inside. If cut somewhere of body then blebleeding...and some day stay pain. But for lonliness suffers a persons..day by day..year by year or more....so always love myself..yourself. And always try to do something better and focus a goal that we will pass busy time. Its need to us. Thats i mean loneliness remove.

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Very helpful post. I also think that we should make a personal comfort zone.

I know from personal experience that loneliness can be hard to bear. Feeling alone can happen anywhere. It is not the same as physically being alone. Each of us is capable of spending time alone with ourselves and not feel lonely. The feeling of loneliness comes from inside ourselves, our thoughts, and our emotions. Good thing music finds me when I feel sad and lonely. Good day!

I sometimes felt this. Everytime my squad choose to go without me. I felt sad cause of course I can't understand the topic cause I am not there. But instead of keeping the sadness in me, I always choose to think the opposite. I will feel happy cause they got happy, they enjoyed each others company. Sometimes we do not need to choose to feel that feeling. Cause it is always depends on us on what we wanted to feel. 😊💕

I do feel alone. And there's nothing wrong with that. Because sometimes, people just want to be alone. Have their own time, and personal space. They can do their own things and move with their own pace. But it still depends on the person. If they feel alone but want to be with others, then yes, they should start putting an effort in making friends with others thru communicating and the like.

This article is for me i have a shy personality and low self-esteem but I will share my thoughts thru writing. But for me being alone can have a positive way, you learn how to be independent and develop yourself by not asking help for others.

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I am shy. When they invite me I do not go. Even though I wanted to go, I was immediately embarrassed. My shyness is too annoying.

I think maybe it's my manners

some prefer to be alone not because they don't belong to a group or because they have differences. they just want personal space to know theirselves first before letting others know them. As for my experience I was called being tactless and frank during college days because I speak whats on my mind not knowing others feelings that's why my friends before sometimes left me and some correct me on my behavior. but i've changed as time and maturity hits me

It's okay to be alone sometimes. It gives us time to reflect and just commune with the personal space that we have. But, loneliness plus baggages of depression, resentments, doubt, fear and frustrations is a different thing.

yes yiu are syaung right..if we try ourself to prove in front of everyone that we will be a good then it worst for us....keep doing good with everyone...and do not expect from others that they will do same with you..at your needy time.

So nice. Thank you so much for sharing this article😍😍😍

Well-done

You are not alone. God is with you

actually prefer cup alone. than living in a chaotic world .. but it is also inevitable to find someone to be with sometimes because it is boring when you are alone. but I prefer that cup, I don't have a bother anymore.

Sometimes i feel alone. I think every person sometimes feel alone. It is very disappointing for us. No one live without friend, family, love etc. Thank you for share this article.

Being alone is also good especially when you're finding your true self. But there are instances that we must meet people in order for us to grow. I also feels shy and insecure especially when meeting some good looking/friendly (so active) individuals. But as you said, we must really look at our other positive points. We all have it. Being here in RC really helps me in boosting my confidence. Also your last statement is so so true. We can't expect everyone to like us since we're not the ones holding their feelings. We have different perceptions and what's important is being a true and good individual.

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