Spoil Yourself

... every once in a while, that is.

.. and only according to how you can do it without getting yourself loaded and burdened with lots of payables after.

The gameplay still holds a good strategy : live within your means.

Take note the part where it says : "your means" and not someone else's. In this reels and Y.O.L.O and "I deserve this" culture and trend, it is hard not to be blinded by how someone else's capability influences us to think that that is the standard of living a full life. And not being able to come near to that line of glam or luxury is less of "fun" and "acceptable".

Another gameplay that holds a good strategy, too is : Never compare yourself with someone else.

Cliche may be. But still and will always be the best advise you can give yourself. Now unless the comparison was used for canvassing the best deal in doing or acquiring something, comparing and trying to hold that OTHER THING as your goal without assessing the cost on you, is not actually a wise self-love move.

You would need and have to come to terms with the reality of your spending and habits. Sometimes we do need to adjust some activities or alter the norm to get that one time spoiling.

If for this month, it is impossible then save a dollar.

It is not the price. There are a lot of things I would want to spoil myself with and most of them costs a kidney (or both, include the spleen, too) so I'd have to assess and recalibrate my desires for alternatives. Then I'd find other things to enjoy. Similar but would not cost me my sanity.

There are times we would feel guilty about spoiling ourselves and would want to share it with loved ones. Not bad, too. Spoiling yourself can also include spoiling loved ones. But never feel guilty for wanting to spend on yourself, too.

Again it does not have to be grand.

It just needs to be something you can call a "treat" for yourself.

Food?

Time?

Go get it.

Spoil yourself every once in a while.

No one else will do it for you.

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I guess another thing that I should mention is to : tell your plans to God.

I kid you not.

He who knows your next needs needs to be asked, too for blessing your spending and making it a fruitful one - to bless the recipient of the spending (merchants, business, etcetera) and the spender (your well-being).