The Dominance And How To Understand It

The whole international communication today is at the level, where people are competing over, who should dominate who, because it's not good if, say, the man doesn't dominate the woman. Somebody has to dominate.

In this article, I want to talk about dominance and, above all, about the fact, that dominance has to be assumed. Regardless of what you have heard so far. This is what everyone is running away from, because they misunderstand it. The world would be a better place if you took dominance. How, in what way? Let's Find out.

What Does Dominance Mean?

Until now dominance has been declared war on, thought to be a bad thing. People thought it was a man's thing and if it was a man's thing, it was a terrible thing.

Dominance means dominating something, but it does not mean dominating someone. Dominate means to have something under your control. You can get the measure exactly right. By that I mean, using just enough of something to achieve a goal. You dose, that particular thing yourself, you control every bit of it.

When you control someone, you don't completely overpower and intimidate them. When you dominate a dog, for example, you don't dominate them by forcing them to sit down and hitting them until they obey you. When you dominate a dog, when you tell them to sit, they will sit nicely and admire you.

To use another example. It is written in the Bible to "subdue the land" the problem is that many people misunderstand this and want to rule over every situation, like a landlord over their slave. This is not the case.

The lord is God and pure perfection and this perfection tells you to strive to act in his name as if you were God yourself. To have that purity and moral perfectionism towards the earth. That is, act like God, but do not rule as one, who can do all things above another, but to rule in the representation of absolute purity, as comes out of you most purely.

We Do Not Rule People

Dominance was never originally about people dominating people, about one person dominating over another. Dominance means dominating the solution to a problem. When a problem arises, I can handle it by telling everyone, with my input, what to do, how to proceed in order to solve the problem.

Animals dominate by pushing each other down. The stronger one asserts dominance. Unfortunately, this is what most people follow, because they think dominance is about taking everything for themselves and oppressing the other.

Dominance can be earned, but you cannot be dominant at the expense of the other person. You have to become worthy to dominate and to be accepted by others as dominant.

For humans, assuming dominance is about the degree to which we can solve problems, it is about the degree to which we assume responsibility, it is about competence. You won't be accepted if you try to find solutions to something by not knowing how to do it yourself, but expecting others to do it and forcing them to solve problems by keeping them in fear.

If, on the other hand, you earn the right to be in charge and others ask you for help, you will be able to control situations well and thus gain dominance. People will get behind you and be under your leadership, but by doing so, they will shift all the responsibility to you. You will also have to take criticism. A good leader has to take it. Leadership has always been needed and will always be needed in humanity.

Dominance Between Men And Women

Why is dominance important in a man-woman relationship? Because in the last century and ever since feminism began, the relationship between man and woman has been treated as a relationship of dominance, and in such a primitive way, that who dominates who. The point is that male domination must be broken at all costs. Competition is about the woman dominating the man and not the man dominating the woman.

That is why people think, that domination is a terrible thing and that is why, male society is weakened. A dominant man must have knowledge, they must have good problem-solving skills, they must be ready to take action and they must take responsibility if they fail. This is what many people want to avoid.

Before, the dominance between men and women was not even an issue. They dominated the situation, the problem, through each other's help and not each other. A huge difference. It was not a male or female issue. It was a question of who was the key to solving the problem.

Summary

Let us not declare war on dominance. Let's understand how to dominate. Dominate the situation and not other people. Be the key to solving the problem and dominate in a way, that makes others feel they need us, thus earning total dominance.

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