GBV gender based violence, the root is a violent desire.
This is such a sensitive topic to talk about and growing up in a chaotic home surrounded by a violent community it felt as though we were raised to join the Spartans in due time.
**Just thinking**
Looking through the window of the passenger side and staring at the other driver screaming because the traffic light turned red. Slamming against the steering wheel, do you think they fist anything else at home? or how about the customer who thinks they are always right and starts shouting at the service consultant, do you think they shout at home just as bad?
**Whose encouraging it**
So many organizations are speaking up against gender based violence, more in particular men abusing women and children. Is it not the mentally that matters, for example, pre-teen boy and girl fights, the boy says “girl hit me first”, mom of boy says “good hit her back don’t be bullied”. Many years later the boy beats up his girlfriend and says “she cheated on me” mom of the boy says “I’ll kill you for beating her”. Is it just me or was there a problem from the beginning with influence on perspective?
The way we think is what we teach through lifestyle. It’s wrong to be abusive but it’s okay to be aggressive, rude and hateful with hate speech. Once they arrest the abuser the victim with mental stains of pain in the house takes on the role of abuser. Meanwhile, the abuser is being fed an aggressive nature by their captives. Is it just me or is there no solution at this point but a vicious cycle?
**Are we easily influenced**?
Society subconsciously feeds the abuse into our minds all the way from the top and powerful, our guardians and then filtered done. The wealthy and rich feel they have the right to be rude publicly because their lawyers will handle and control the desired outcome so too criminals disrespect their community and make people feel worthless because their weapons resolve their problems and so society copies what seems to be the stronger side of life and the domino effect encourages aggression.
Let’s stop gender based violence by whatever means because the issue is our mentality. Let’s change our mentality and the way we influence our society. Let’s stop violence by incorporating ethics and good values in our daily movements through life. Stopping the current pain is a momentary solution while a true resolution is the conscious acceptance of mental and verbal change, saying “let’s be better people” is answered through character.
**We have become our past**
Growing up in my community scolding and shouting was common, I walked by a house where a boy was beaten for stealing and it was a normal occurrence for the folks. Fighting was embedded into our culture. We don't accept wrongdoing and we resolved it by doing wrong.
I was insulted for not taking part with the other boys in bullying a girl so I got bullied in return and that same girl turned on me just to be accepted in society as strong.
I met men and women today doing the same thing, encouraging and pressurizing each other to do it, do it with him, do it to her, don’t be good, beat the living breath out of them. Those same adults advise the youth to go out there and take no rubbish from anyone. Translated in the mind of an abused youth is “pain for pain”. Those youngest grow to be the same adults I avoid today because the cycle keeps continuing over and over again.
**Let's find a way to stop it**
We want to stop violence we need to stop ourselves. We lack the knowledge on how to change, how to do things like handle *confrontation*. We hear the voices of our past screaming at us “go show them who you are” translated means go be violent. How do we resolve a violent situation after trying to calm it down? Wisdom, there is always a way but we need universal participation for a long-lasting remedy.
This is just a man venting, blowing off steam because he fears that even though he changes will it be enough to inspire the boy who meets his daughter at a party to respect her and when he hears her screaming comes to her rescue even though his peers fight him he will do the right thing the way I did the right thing and was bullied by the girl I rescued.
This time around society will be different I hope.
Noise.cash, why, you get so little and now I have a lot.
Ya. Noise.cash has something so interesting and unique that I need to explain how I *found* this attractive, simple yet captivating site.
**But first**
I’ve searched for many online prospects to keep me busy and most of all create a steady income. Teaching online was the icing on the cake that I found to be my niche. **iTutorAbc** was open to any native English speaker to teach their students online but started implementing a new procedure of hiring degree related employees who are currently studying or obtained one.
***DadaABC*** *was the next best English learning platform I work for after my last employment ended and If it wasn’t for the cable theft in my community I would still be teaching English online for them but I failed to log into classes on time resulting in my account being deactivated.*
**What does this have to do with Noise.cash? I’m getting there.**
So the search for an online income continues and I came across “online book club” where you get paid for your review but chose the wrong book and totally regretted it and lost interest.
*Meanwhile,* *****Remotask***** *paid out cents weekly for annotation tasks and the better you become at the tasks the higher your pay rate which built up my Paypal account gradually. Keep in mind I was working an 8–5 job at the same time after losing the sweet online teaching gig.* https://www.remotasks.com/r/XNM8BGZE
I lost that job due to the lockdown but my breakthrough came when I was introduced to ****FXSUCCESS****, see how bold the name is because it changed my life. I invested a set amount and got 7% interest paid out weekly. ***During the time of a horrible pandemic***, I was making my *monthly salary*. I invested in Finalmente as well with the same system but they traded bitcoin and was a subsidiary of ***MTI*** which crashed in December 2020. As for ****Fxsucces**** which trades the market and is still standing strong. https://fxsuccess.co/register?link=81432596
**Where does this free bitcoin cash site called noise.cash comes in.**
While after the disappointment of *Finalmente* I needed another source of revenue and stumble across ****Cashfx**** but they’re a long-term investment group with a weekly 7% payout that can be withdrawn after the waiting period. But I invested a small amount so I chose to wait longer and take a bulk amount when times are tough. https://parkins.cashfxgroup.com/
I decided to try my hand at **writing** and *publish0x* that pays you in cryptocurrency for reading but still not the one. I learned about M**edium** which got me motivated to really start writing something. Following more research met up with ****read.cash**** who introduced me to **Noise.cash**. https://read.cash/@Parkins/noisecash-i-think-im-addicted-86ffe6c1
**_Why?**
**Noise.cash** works with Bitcoin Cash and they give you a small amount provided by sponsors to tip posts and receive a portion of that tip. Similar concept to Twitter with less complication. There’s a lot of features I’ll leave to my experience post on ****read.cash**** ****(****Noise.cash, I think I’m addicted) , but overall it has been captivating and motivating. https://read.cash/@Parkins/noisecash-i-think-im-addicted-86ffe6c1
Find me at noise.cash/u/Parkins
https://read.cash/@Parkins/noisecash-i-think-im-addicted-86ffe6c1
Noise.cash, I think I’m addicted
Some posts read like fortune cookies “Your luck lotto number is …” but you get paid to tip so yea I feel lucky that I discovered this very very interesting site.
I’ve seen Twitter and maybe used it but never really spent time on it so I don’t really know it through experience and from what most of my noisy peers (noise.cash/u/Parkins) compare Noise.cash to is Twitter with benefits.
Spend the night and make some Bitcoin cash. Now I find myself waking up to check my page for hearts and subscriptions and comments and the platform is so comfortable and the users on it currently are very positive with energy, while the ones I met.
You can post your thoughts and there is a variety of assertive motivational individuals while others give thought-provoking messages. Cryptocurrency is one of the current topics that stand out and given the right moment you might get good pointers.
*Hence the similarity to Twitter with a tone down scenery and the simplicity is what attracts me.*
**There are some uncomfortable aspects**
There is no notification when someone follows you or a way to at least see the list of who is following you. Access to the subscribers you are following would be nice.
No word limit for a post, while some just write 10 character post, not even proper words others leave a long outpouring. No search button to pick up where you left off and the final most important thing, the distinguished support system for the platform is missing.
**So what makes this site the shite (get it site mix with shi..it)**
Bitcoin cash and the donations provided by sponsors. You are given a small amount to tip on posts you find interesting and you get a portion for yourself, cool right. You get rewarded by readers for your thoughts and the majority seems to love the motivational inputs while others enjoy the cryptocurrency chats. That’s more my personal interest.
The payout is the same day straight to your Bitcoin Cash wallet. No waiting for a build-up of funds first and having to withdraw on a certain date. The instant reward for providing food for thought to a grateful reader is dynamic in my books.
**Do you make money? Yes.**
Do you make a lot of money? No **depending** on the flow of the crypto markets and the number of tips. It's the company that seems to engulf me into replying and posting and if they like your content they offer hearts and tips and the cycle keeps going on and on, soon you find yourself craving a meal at lunchtime because you haven’t eaten breakfast.
After a long day of reading and chatting and you decide to check your **Luno** wallet (that’s the bitcoin wallet I use) and “Wow!” will be your reaction. There is an accumulation of micro wealth that wasn’t there the day before. https://www.luno.com/invite/W479K
****Finally****
There is no affiliate marketing reward for talking about Noise.cash. No referral link. I was so influenced by the dynamics that I had to write down my personal perception and post it to hear from other users out there.
What do you think about the site?
Find me on noise.cash/u/Parkins
learn about my journey "Noise.cash, why, you get so little and now I have a lot."
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