Forgiveness is sometimes beyond our capacity, and it's very uncommon to see people that actually forgive others immediately. Forgiveness needs a person that is willing to forget what happened to him, and can proceed in life without any problem or ego, this person is so strong to forgive and forget and still manages to smile.

Forgive & forget

Forgiving someone after having a fight with them and forgetting about it is one of the best things that you can do to reward yourself, and not so many people can actually do this rather people most likely hold grudges against each other and then try to fight back and try to revenge by doing bad things to the other person that they argued or fought with, which is only going to make the situation even worst.

Do not underestimate your power

You are strong and you can forgive anyone no matter what they do to you under some exceptional circumstances but to be fair most of our problems are due to overthinking them that puts us in a situation that makes the problem even bigger than it might seem to be, therefore think about it and do the correct thing before it's too late and while you still have time to fix the situation, because having enemies is the worst thing that you can have in this life, and they will end up messing with you or hating on you or maybe ruin your reputation in front of others, so why would you bring the problems to yourself if you can actually solve them? And rather than having enemies just try to speak the problem up and do not underestimate yourself because you are a problem solver if you only don't overthink it and think about it in a positive way and therefore become friends with your so-called enemy so you will gain more friends and have a better established relation between your surroundings and your people and to avoid mental or physical harm.

Have a friend to speak your mind to

Always have someone that has you back, maybe a friend or a family member that you trust, and try to speak what is on your mind and complain to them and like this you can relax and have some peace of mind and try to forgive and forget the other person's behavior or problem that happened between you and him. Talking to someone you trust not only will make you relaxed and have a cool down from the issue but will also give you the opinion of the other person that will probably be to let it go and calm down. Talking to someone that listens to your problems and actually cares will only make the situation better and you will probably feel the same way as the person you are talking to.

Avoid unnecessary arguments

Sometimes we do make mistakes and we start arguing with people, and all we have to do is think about it, if we are actually right, then the person you are arguing with is basically stubborn and have a huge ego that do not want to accept the fact that he is wrong therefor you are arguing for no reason whatsoever, and you will just create more problems in that way and end up with more subjects to argue about, so just drop it and leave it as it is because you know that you are right as its a fact, and if you were actually at the wrong side, then you should probably leave it as it is and agree upon it.

Be the change

If you are constantly getting into arguments and fights try to minimize them and also try being the change, because if people are having a hard time to forgive maybe you can start doing so and by forgiving and forgetting, the other people can learn from your actions and see how strong your will is and how patient you are, making you a great mentor or inspiration.

Happiness

Be happy and do not hold yourself down, rather live your life as nothing actually happened and stay positive. Happiness can be missed by overthinking your problems and wasting your time on people that do not deserve it. Stay positive, strong and smile to the bright side.

I hope you all are doing great and thank you for reading my article.

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