@Ostina1 17 October 2020 more from that month

Receipt

Receipt Everyone should read the story at 8 o'clock I got married at the age of 20. Dad forced me to get married! Anyway, at least I didn't go down without explaining myself first. On the first and last night of the marriage, I was awakened by my wife's call. He used to say with a kind of command, "He is giving the call to prayer, come to the prayer." My father is a teacher in a madrasa. He has been leading the mosque for 30 years. The day you don't see me in the mosque for Fajr prayers, I don't have food on my forehead half the day. Dad is a very strict person. Except for the grandmother, not a single person in the house has the courage to fight without her order. As a child, if the Fajr prayers were missed, it was limited to a few messages. These are strict rules since growing up. Mother, of course, would secretly eat. But my father got me married and there was another problem. My father's name is Afia. Father's student. His main job is to complain to my father about what I don't do all day. When the Fajr prayers were suddenly missed for some reason, he would giggle and say, "Stop eating today." Really, after marriage, if I miss prayers, I stop eating till noon. Now you must understand how I grew up in a family. The father, of course, had an argument behind this strict rule. He used to say, "He who is deprived of eternal sleep for the sake of a momentary restful sleep is a fool. And the eyes and ears have to be opened with the punishment of fools." We are four brothers and sisters. Pithapithi's two elder brothers are in the department of 'Al-Quran and Islamic Education' at Kushtia Islamic University Reading and writing. They are also married. Hafez is the elder sister of Quran. He also got married a year ago. I am the youngest in the family. My father wanted me to study in a madrasa and become a great Maulana. I was there until I was 6 years old. One day my father came home in the evening. Grandma sent word to me to call my father. Baba saluted and sat next to his grandmother. Grandmother looked at her father in silence for a while and said, "Khalil, do you remember what illness your father was dying of?" Hearing this, my father started eating. He probably didn't expect that. Because the grandmother always told her father various things to rule over her grandchildren. She may have thought that such a thing would happen. Dad said in an unprepared voice, "Yes, I remember Mom. Dad had cholera, died without any treatment." Grandmother winked and said, "There was no doctor in the seven gerams. If there was, your father might still be alive." "Yeah. Mom. Maybe God could have survived." Saying this, the father wiped his eyes with the Punjabi sleeve. I was standing at the door. Grandma brought me to the side and sat me down. He turned his hand on my head and said to my father, "I want to be a family doctor. He should serve the people." Grandma paused and looked into her father's eyes. "You should not teach Abdullah in a madrasa but in a school." The next day my father admitted me to the school at the word of my grandmother. My lifestyle changed radically! I left my white Punjabi hat, put on my pants and shirt and started going to school. . . After SSC, I fell in the company of friends and came home clean shaven. Dad did not allow me to enter the house. Holding a statue of fire, he said in a loud voice, "A Jew-Christian who turns around can't be my son. You go out." I'm head over heels. I could not utter a word. I was thinking, the hostel is closed, where should I go and what should I do. Dad suddenly picked up my bag lying on the ground and handed it to me. He showed me the way out and said, "On the day when the beard grows on the face, I will come home with full circumcision, not before." Grandmother came out when she heard the noise. Said in a sharp voice, "Khalil, what happened, Ray? Why don't you take Thaikya out of the house?" " Mommy why did you get out of this body? Go inside." "I don't see your courage. You will take my grandson out. At this age, you have not grown a beard properly." Grandma looked at me. Thurthur came forward and took my hand inside the room. Even so, I rarely talked to my father. He would call me if there was any need. That night my father came to my room himself. I was trembling with fear of the unknown. I was mentally preparing to digest his words. He said softly, "Have you eaten rice, father?" I was a little shocked by his sincerity. I nodded and said in a weak voice, "Yes." "Do you know why I rule you so much?" I'm silent. Not answering. The father said again, "Fathers never want the child to be bad. I rule so much so that you don't fall into the trap of bad companions." "Dad, I'm sorry, I made a mistake." "Look, people will make mistakes. But it's not right to make mistakes knowingly; cheating on yourself, cheating on yourself, these mistakes are very serious. Do you know which period men will take directly to the grave?" "No, Dad." Dad smiled and replied, "Beard is the only circumcision that can go to the grave with a man." I wanted to say something, my father stopped and said, "Clean shave means smart. Smartness of ideal Muslims means to grow a beard from a young age. ? " . . I was not bad as a student. After HSC, I was admitted to medical school on one chance. When I came home on the first holiday, I saw a kind of smile on everyone's face. Siblings can never get together without Eid. But everyone is at home now. I was a little surprised, I thought I got a chance in medical, so everyone came to hear the news of coming home first. But he broke the mistake on my night. As he was talking to his grandmother, he suddenly said, "Your mother came and saw that the girl is very beautiful." "Which girl? What are you talking about!" "Your marriage is fine. Let your father go home. I can know everything through his face." Listening to my grandmother's words, I fell from the sky. I understand that the water of marriage may have spilled a lot. Anyway, this time the father has to stop. The stage of going crazy while studying medicine, getting married again as a student? Meeting with father after Fajr prayers in the morning. The two elder brothers smiled and left me alone in front of my father and started walking towards home. Dad smiled and said, "What's the matter, your prayer is read correctly?" "Yes, read on." "You must have heard the news, your wedding is on Friday." I stared, "No, Dad, I'm not getting married now." Dad smiled loudly. He said in an apologetic voice, "Why don't you get married?" I said, "Does anyone get married as a student? And I still don't earn a single penny. Besides ... " Suddenly my father stopped me and started walking barefoot. I am also following him. After a while he looked at me and asked, "How old are you now?" I replied, "This is Baba Bis." "Hmm, that means you're old enough. You're old enough to get married." I said helplessly, "That doesn't mean you have to get married now." Hearing that, the father stood motionless. He pointed to the phone in my Punjabi pocket and said, "I have a smart phone with me. You must get all the news before the paper." I looked at my father and said nothing. Dad said, "This is the forbidden relationship, adultery, rape, more unknown and many more bad deeds we see when we open the magazine. What would happen if every young man's character was right, if he got moral ideals and family education in the right way? I'm not saying you will do these bad things. But my responsibility as a father is to protect you from many unknown sins. If you say that you do not earn money, what will you eat after getting married? Hey, the owner of feeding is superior. Can anyone eat someone's rizik. He can eat as much as he wants. There is no one in the world without food. If necessary, you should eat less than three meals a day. " I had no reason to say anything more on my father's face that day. The marriage is mine. After the marriage, the father asked her to take Afia with her. I explained and said, it is not possible to take it suddenly. I will come and take it next time. Many of my friends laughed when they heard the news of my marriage. Someone said fearfully, "Yes, you did exactly what you did." I sit alone on campus after class. Many of my friends go around talking about girlfriends, talking and chilling. Then the father's words came to mind, 'Haram relationship'. I keep thinking, if you look at it with colored glasses, maybe it looks good. But if you think coldly as a Muslim, these things are really very sensitive ... At one time, due to lack of knowledge and inability to understand, it seemed that my father was taking care of me or abusing me. Nowadays I think everything that my father did was right. Next time, bring Afia with you. In a small house, our family freezes very well. When I come home after class, I see him standing by the window. This is how he waits for me every day. Today, when he saw me getting off the rickshaw, he was shocked. I know what he is doing now. First he would run to the washroom to fetch the water, fetch my clothes, then quietly stand by the door with a glass of cold water in his hand, and open the door at the sound of my footsteps before the bell rang. Even today he is no exception. After bathing and eating, I said, "You do so much for me every day, I can't do anything for you in return." He smiled and said, "Who can't say that? You come back at the right time every day after class. Don't talk nonsense. I wait in the empty house all day and when I see your face, then everything is mine." My eyes get wet when I hear Afia's words. I think it's just as important for men to get married at the right time. Just as important is to have a virtuous wife. : : In fact, due to the bad culture of our society, the youth society is reaching the peak of decline day by day. When a boy grows up slowly, a word is put inside his head, and that word is to be established, to take the helm of the world. He forgets his goal. He has only one thought in his head, family On the other hand, the mother and father of the daughter of our society are looking for money. A girl can't be married without money, if she doesn't have money, she won't be happy, what else can life do with love? ☹️ And because of these thoughts, 95% of their daughters are not good at gullai. Take it, there is no one to see that his mind is constantly filled with sadness, maybe some people are pretending not to see him. Money is all that is wrong. Some people will say it doesn't matter if the girls have money, I will say you are wrong ,,, there are some girls who are like that. But not all of them He talks to all of us with full smiles, fulfills all our desires, But no one saw his mind full of sadness, neither did we So I said not all girls are crazy about money. There are some who are poor in love, they go crazy for love in one go. Their husband can come home and hug her from the pitchfork and tell her that once he loves her, he can spend the whole day with this little love piece, Or go for a walk with him, that's how they can spend the whole life "Our parents are not allowed to marry their own son unless he is established, and girls are not allowed to marry unless they are rich boys. Now, our mother, Von, is constantly being raped." People are turning into beasts day by day, the beasts are spreading all over the world. According to Islam, if all suitable boys and girls had been given in marriage, we would not have reached this stage today, our mothers and sisters would not have had this misery. And we did not reach the age of bestiality. So my request to all parents is to change your mindset and make the appropriate boys and girls think about social bad culture Don't sit still. If you don't play one day, society will not come to feed you. If your daughter is a victim of rape, no one will look at you with the opposite eye without showing sympathy, and you will always have to listen to bad things. And the boy's father will not marry the boy without being established, wondering what society will say. Later, when that boy comes to rape, your society will point fingers at you and talk. It will harass you all the time. So I am requesting all the fathers and mothers to get out of this social evil and improve themselves, your son and daughter can survive and get better. Those who do not like the words will avoid it, I am just my attitude, and the bad culture of the society is trying to highlight the deterioration.