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Shocking Ways of Humans, II.

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I shared the first part of this post yesterday and you can catch up with it here: Shocking Ways of Humans.

Not many people are happy with you for the kind of relationship you have, try to be careful with the kind of advice you take and the kind of people you keep close to you. When you know people for who they are, you can learn to keep certain people at arm’s length so they won’t mess things up for you because in the real sense, you never really know if they are secretly eyeing what you have, and the moment you let it go, they are ready to take it from there. Be wise.

I chatted with an old-time friend many years ago and I shared with her what I read on the WhatsApp status that I shared yesterday in the first part of the post and she opened up a can of worms about the things she has experienced in the hands of so-called friends. I was shocked beyond words.

She told me she had a boyfriend in school and this guy is spending on her and her friend sees that. I am sure at some point she must have told this lady how wonderful the boyfriend is, based on her friendship with her and she didn’t know this lady was secretly loving up on the young man too. As they say, everything is attractive to a lazy person.

She took the guy’s number from her friend’s phone and would be chatting and calling the guy without disclosing who she is. The boyfriend suspected and then told his girlfriend. She dialled the number that always chats with the boyfriend on her phone and alas! It was her friend. They kept quiet about it and they were watching how things will unfold.

One afternoon, the friend said she was going out to get some things not knowing she already planned a meeting with her friend’s boyfriend. The boyfriend kept her girlfriend in the know regarding everything. They met, they talked and the boyfriend left to go and meet his girlfriend. This lady stays with this betraying friend and housed her to help her yet she got betrayed like this by her. So, she allowed her friend's boyfriend to leave first and after a few minutes, she also left. She walked in while the boyfriend was talking to her friend; the girlfriend and she acted like that was the first time in a long while she has seen the guy, not knowing the friend already knew they met just a few minutes ago.

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There are a lot of people that would smile at you but they are just waiting for you to fail. Once you have recognized them, don’t empower them by fighting with them. Don’t drag things with them or go down to their level. You were able to know who they are for a reason, so just be careful about the things you tell them. Keep them at arm’s length and wish them well.

They would want you to confront them so they can have the liberty to go all out and hurt you the more. Keep them wondering while you keep laughing them to sleep. Not everyone is happy with your relationship, so be guided and be smart. Always stay one step ahead. I don't know how some people have the conscience to sleep at night with such a level of betrayal.

Learn to give your all in any kind of relationship and be honest as much as you can. When you have an understanding partner then it makes it easier to filter away the dirt people might want to throw at you. You and your partner will just keep laughing at them and they wouldn’t even know. Thank God for such a boyfriend who can be honest and open about it else he would have been doing that on the sideline without the girlfriend knowing and it's a matter of time before the betraying friend harms the other one just to get her out of the way.

And for the mischief makers, if you spend the same energy on nailing a partner down as you spend trying to bring others down, you might as well have had a successful relationship too. You should be better and stop being bitter when things are going other people’s ways and it isn’t going your way, yet. Life is in seasons and your time will come; if you don’t ruin it by making everyone see how miserable and desperate you are.

Do something better with your life and leave others with their happiness. Yours will come too if you learn to mind your business. Being older than others doesn’t give you the right to poke your nose into their affairs. Act your age for once, except if you are younger, then I say, act mature. Age is not a sign of maturity just as fame doesn’t confer relevance. You might be cute but that doesn't make you funny. You might speak Latin but that doesn't mean you know how to speak. Spend time being a better person instead.

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Our world is full of toxic traits where they love seeing people fail, where they seems to be a good friend in front of you, the one who fond of complementing yet wishing for you to fail in everything

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2 months ago

It's so sad that we can't split open people's hearts to see the intentions. A lot would be laid bare.

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2 months ago

That's why I found smiles in people's faces ironic, I don't fall for those smiles becauae I know people will always be people, they maybe smiling and looking so happy for what you've achieved right now but there's this side of them that's waiting for your downfall, and I hate to break it but that's one of the reason I'm having a hard time trusting people, you're lucky enough if you find those genuine people.

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2 months ago

Humans can be so deceptive. It's hard to know what goes on in their head or heart. We just have to thread with caution.

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2 months ago

The world is full of lies and fakeness can't trust anybody so better choose friends wisely because a friend might be an energy tomorrow and yeah no one can bear your progress, they might be encouraging you to move ahead but inside they are waiting for your fall, so better be careful while choosing friends and remember that one true friend is better than thousand fake friends

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2 months ago

This is beautiful, Kate...you nailed it on the head. It calls for caution and being sensitive.

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2 months ago

As they say, everything is attractive to a lazy person.

Lazy people who wants the best but do not work for it..... I talked about how my then roommate would always share my secret to her school father. The day I got to know, I stopped telling her anything about me till today.

Many people aren't happy with your happiness and they find means to bring you down. But when you do not tell them anything about us, but keep leaving them to be confused all the time, they can't harm us.

I like the boyfriend... He is a honest guy to have even carried along his girlfriend with what the friend was acting up. That is life.

We shouldn't share our personal details to anyone because we don't know who is who. Na clothes cover everyone's mind oo.

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2 months ago

Thank you so much, KP. You absolutely touched every aspect of this post and I agree with every of your contribution. We surely need to be careful and study people...once we know who they are, we should evaluate.

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2 months ago

Exactly 💯. Evaluation is important.

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2 months ago

Absolutely, my darling KP. Thank you.

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2 months ago

People are not smiling with you especially when you are progressing they will only respect you because they want to be good, nobody is happy when you are in a special relationship, or good one, when they themselves are not in oke they will be jealous and will surly find a way to bring it down, let just be careful

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2 months ago

You have nailed it on the head. That's who they are and we have to be careful...be at alert and keep them at arm's length.

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2 months ago

Agree

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2 months ago

🙌

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2 months ago

"there's alot of people that would smile at you, but just waiting for you to fail".... We call them green snakes under green grasses

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2 months ago

That's exactly what they are...sneaky and dangerous. We have to be careful.

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2 months ago

And this is why I have trust issues Mr. Ola 😂

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2 months ago

I can imagine. Some humans will shock you.

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2 months ago

Be wiser on choosing a friend ,traitor is everywhere even your closest can possibly stab you at the back if they have a chance to destroy you.I tend to live without lots of friends I am content living at home only with my family that I trusted the most.

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2 months ago

That's the truth. They are everywhere masked in sheep clothings but they are wolves.

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2 months ago

Loyalty is like gold, worth keeping, and trust could be a multiple worth of gold worth to keep but when it's broken, we can never blame ourselves not to trust again

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2 months ago

Trust these days can be likened to gold as you have rightly said; really scarce and hard to come by.

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2 months ago

It is hard to know who to trust. Being careful and watchful around everyone and try to be better to everyone around you

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2 months ago

It's really hard to know who to trust and that's why we need to study those around us very well.

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2 months ago

We need to avoid ourself from such people's these are like a Snake but its depend on us also which type of people we are choosing in our friend zone

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2 months ago

We have to avoid human like snakes. They are deceptive and dangerous.

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2 months ago

It's so unfortunate to have those people around. We must learn who to keep and who t avoid.

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2 months ago

We have to decide who we want close and who we have to keep at arm's length.

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2 months ago

Nawaoo. How mood changes real quick. I just read a beautiful story by @bloghound about how an act of love by strangers to a man restored her faith in humanity, now I am reading the shocking ways of humans part 2 sef😂😂. There are good and bad people. It's up to us to choose which part we wanna belong to. I choose to be good.

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2 months ago

😂😂🤣🤣😂 I read that article too. Humans have both good and bad sides. We should just hope for the best. Maybe we meet some few bad people in life so that when we meet the good ones we can appreciate them.

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2 months ago

That is so sad...why does loyalty is so hard for others?

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2 months ago

It's so hard for so many. They enjoy throwing caution to the wind.

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