Life's Observations.
A lot of people think they know it all and that's why they won't even ask another person for help even when their life depends on it due to pride. The first step to humility is knowing that you don't know everything. You have to consider your limitations and admit them before you can understand what you need to learn to get to the point you desire to get to.
We all have our areas of expertise and it's well within your rights to have a bragging right on the things you know. If I need to know what is out of my comfort zone then I need to learn it. There is no gift of knowledge only the discipline of study. If I don't painstakingly subject myself to learn about certain things I would never know it.
I love counselling and talking about relationships come naturally to me but I bought a whole 45 hours course on Udemy to learn more about it because everything changes. We need to update our learning to stay relevant in this world that is constantly evolving.
What you don't know, you don't know, so there is no need to allow pride to stop you from learning even if that learning has to come from someone you are older than. Life teaches us but most people don't learn because they are proud. Whatever you give yourself to learn, it stays with you and no man can take it away from you. Some people are so greedy with the things they have learnt forgetting that they keep learning more when they keep teaching others about it.
Understand that you have limitations and you don't know everything which would then help you to humble yourself and learn. We have different life's experiences just as we understand things differently too depending on the angle we are looking at things. We are different in our area of competence too which is why you don't need to always agree with people before you can learn from them. Learn from what they can teach, add it with your knowledge and then make something worthwhile out of it.
A lot of people wouldn't even ask others for help. There are people you need to associate yourself with who are experts in the field you are curious about. Some might call them mentors or counsellors but they are those who have seen things and known things better than you. There is nothing to be shy about in asking them questions or seek for their opinions especially on matters that have a huge impact on your life.
We see things differently and we all have our blind spots and these people can help you see a clearer picture of things and then proffer better solutions that you haven't even thought about. In selecting these people you want to relate with and ask questions from, make sure they are relatable; people you can have access to not just someone you read their books and through their books, they are mentoring you from afar.
Whoever you have chosen must have a good reputation too because your life depends on it. Study their content before feeding your soul because some people are idea stealers; they steal your ideas, feed off you and yet still won't let you learn from them. They need to have proven themselves and you can ask those close to them more questions. Nothing in life is easy which is why we need to do due diligence even in our thirst for knowledge.
I have observed that most people just want to do what others are doing without understanding the consequences of it. A lot of people jump on the trend without making due diligence. I have read a lot of stories on how people blame each other who asked them to buy particular crypto that ended up folding up. We are all responsible for our actions even though we feed off the ideas or instructions of others. You have to be able to count the costs of your actions and not just immediate actions but future ones too.
A lot of people have gone into a business they haven't done much research on because they heard people make a lot of money from it. Some have even gone to study a particular course because they heard they earn a lot without fully understanding their own strength. We all have our strengths and we have to leverage them by learning more about them just to carve our paths. If you want to achieve the success you have seen others achieve which you want to emulate, you have to be able to learn and do the things they have done if not better.
We live in a world where a lot of people only talk without taking steps. Procrastination has been the order of the day yet they lament that their life isn't moving in the direction they want it to go. There can never be progress if you don't take steps, so you have to write that book, buy that token, launch that store, start that farm, register that business...whatever it is that you have always been putting off, the best time to start is now. The best time to plant a tree was 25 years ago, yes, depending on the tree and the next best time is now. The more you delay, the more time you keep losing. Stop talking and start acting...
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