Bitter truth about Marriage!
***Marriage seems to be something we all have urge for, and willing to have this particular thing so called "Marriage" But it's not as cheap as we call it.***
While I was about coming up with my article, I came across @Olasquare 's article...... The article seems to be coincidental about what I actually have in mind to write on, not really exactly the same, but it's a bit close. He wrote about Wrong motive, where he highlighted some things which people thought, it's as easy we think about it, but deep down it's not as easy as we have imagined.
There are lot of bitter truth about marriage, I have an opportunity to have Experiences about marriage because I was brought up in a polygamous family. A family where, a Particular Man get married to two or more wives. But mine was just two wives. Nothing seems to be new to me when it comes to Marriage because I have experienced about it.There are lot of Challenges that Prevails, when it comes to Marriage. And there are lot of bitter truth which people don't always like to hear about it, but they are reality. Among them we have;
****Marriage is unpredictable!****
We can't predict how your family will look like before going into it. If you decide to tell your fiance or fiancee that this is how the both of you will make the family to look like, that's a good planning, but believe me, on the long run, most things you have planned before the getting into that your new family, everything might not work out again. You might not even remember what you have both planned because married is more and more than that. There are certain occurrences that come across in marriage which you don't even expect to come in which will take all your attention.
****Enemy in Disguise!****
As a partner in a particular relationship, when a relationship is about becoming interesting, there is always an enemy in disguise that will always want to come in between a relationship. The same thing is applicable to marriage, not all Marriage carry out wedding ceremony or introduction. Some marriage that did wedding ceremony, they end up having enemies right from the wedding ceremony event. The enemy might be the friend of the either of the partner. And if either of the partners friends come to the ceremony and they realise that the wedding ceremony is more interesting than when he/she did his/ her own wedding ceremony. Then hatred start to come in towards the marriage. Such person start to act like real friend but deep down he/she is not!
****The initial love began to wear away****.
The second point above set a stage for this, those who aren't willing to make your marriage successful, then they come to tell you some bad things about your partner. If you're a female, they can tell you, that they say your husband with another girl. And if you're a male, they can probably say that, they met your wife with another man in the bear parlor. You know all sort of things like that.
And this will actually make your love to start wearing away. Those that are in marriage now, you should be answer this Questions in your mind. "***Is the initial love towards your husband or your wife, is it still the same as before when you just became wedded couple???"*** It's a question you should try to answer within you. The answer is NO because, some Challenges has prevail which has made the love to wear away, even if it's not much, at least a bit.
****Hatred started prevailing****
I have seen a couple that divorced because of just common "***Toothpaste***" you should be asking me how. This was how it went "***the husband wanted to go and brush his teeth, then he applied the Toothpaste on his brush by pressing the Toothpaste from the top of the Toothpaste. And the wife walked up to him and said, next time, toothpaste are press from the bottom and then allowed to flow out to be introduced in the brush***". Then the husband disagreed and they started severe disagreement that led to divorce. The Toothpaste caused the divorce because they already have grudges towards themselves before.
Final thought
I think there should be more of orientation program or enlightenment program about marriage, which will help people's Marriage. Those who are yet to get married, can as well pertake in the program, so as to have little experience about setting up their own family. I'm yet to be married as well, I'm not left out lol🙈
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The College Laboratory!
***All drugs manufactured are literally produced from a particular industrial Laboratory. So many industries out there certainly have their own manufacturing Laboratory.***
Industrial companies like ***Emzor*** must have constructed their own industrial Laboratory for manufacturing of Paracetamol. The paracetamol we take in is actually produced from an industrial Laboratory. Y'all can see how important the laboratories are. They are actually established to produce some of the things we take in today . There are lot of edible things that was made from laboratories, the likes of junk foods are as well from industrial chemical laboratories. Some drugs as well, are from laboratories.
Focusing on today's article, I will be specializing on my School laboratory. The school laboratory is a good one. Since, we have resumed, we haven't stepped into that Lab, but today brings an end to that. There's a course known as "***CHM 101***" it's basically for 100 level students which just resumed. It's a 4 unit course, that's signifies how exceptional or outstanding that course is. Over 5 weeks now, we have been attending this class, it basically more about Organic and applied Chemistry. On the other hand, we have a practical aspect of that Course. Today was the first class and first day of that course. So I did well in attending the class.
Laboratory rules!
Exactly 10:00 am prompt today, we started the class. And we discussed Alot of things starting from the Laboratory rules, which some of them are written below here.
***Use of laboratory coat***, is mandatory for all chemistry students. All I was thinking about the laboratory coat was that, it's used just to know that, this particular person is working in a Laboratory. But my orientation changed today, because it's actually beyond that, Another reason why the laboratory coat is mandatory is that, when the practical is going on, and then mistakenly, there's a splash or pour of concentrated acids, the splash won't go directly to your body or clothes, that's why the use of Laboratory coats is mandatory
***Use of Hand gloves*** is another essential thing they didn't forget to mention, the Lecturer was Making a good and solid stance on the point about using gloves, because there are many Concentrated acids and bases in the lab, that can eat up the flesh of the hand if care isn't taken. That's why they made mention of usage of hand gloves.
***Use of covered shoes*** are only accepted because, when a droplet of acid falls down, it can probably fall on one of the toes, which can cause itching of the toes, that's why covered shoes are necessary. The Lecturer only spare us today, because today was the first time of having the class, henceforth, we must endeavors to come with gloves 🧤
**Identification of Lab Apparatus**!
It's painful I wasn't able to snap the apparatus we have, but the little we were given in our group was the one I snapped below. A whole lot of Apparatus was listed for us, and they were literally identifying them, with their uses. Each apparatus has a significant function which it has to carry out during a chemical process. I can't just finish mentioning them, because we have a whole lot of them, with different sizes. Here are the names of little of them.
***Conical flask***
***Round bottom flask***
***Flat bottom flask***
***Volumetric/standard flask***
***Measuring cylinder***
***Crucible***
***Wire gauze***
***Beaker***
***Testube***
***Boiling tube***
We have so many of them, which I can't finish mentioning.
Today's class was actually, more of fun and lot of knowledge. I gathered some Experiences which I haven't had had before
Conclusion
Here bring it to a close, on how far we went in our Chemistry practical for today. Next week will be another exciting day, because I'm always willing to learn as each day passes by.
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It been A while here, it issue arises due to some reasons about my involvement about school. Most of my classes are 8:00 am to 5:00 pm. I have no other choice that to be there that prompt time.
Coming up with an article soon, just wait for it!!
GW1 My FPL Team Report!!
***Here's my perfect FPL Squad! FPL (Fantasy Premium League). It has begun, and here's the report of GW 1 ( Game week one).***
Exactly around this time last week, was when I set my squad. Though this is my first time of playing this EPL of a thing. The time they started last season, and I was thinking I will do my own, but I postponed it till they started,and when this has underway, there's no more setting of new squad and besides, anything you will be doing there will attract deduction of point. And this point is the main thing we are aiming. The person with the squad of highest points has a place in London. And some randsom of money will be awarded to the top 10 position.
Before this FPL started, I set my squad and I check thoroughly that, do I need to change some people in the Squad. Then I realised I have no player to replace. Then we started. The Game week one, wasn't an advantage to some of team, but we gotta go. ***Luke shaw*** was a Man United player whom I thought he could add to my point. But I have to realise that he's an inexperience footballer, due to his addiction to collecting of cards. I bought him in the first place because, He's among the first eleven of man United and that could earn me some points, because playing full time brings in point. My second reason for considering him, was the fact that, Right backs and left backs are good to give points because they have higher chance of crossing ball from the wings, and then they can actually provide assists. But footballers like ***Luke Shaw*** isn't ready to offer me any good than to spoil my squad with Yellow cards and red cards.
GW1 (Game week one)
GW1 is gone, last week match results wasn't to favourable to my squad. I regretted not signing ***Erling Haland*** to my squad. What actually made me neglected him was the fact that, he was just signed to Manchester City, so probably he might not have known the pattern of playing style of the team very well. But I have forgotten ***Kelvin Debryne*** is there to feed him with lot of assists, which will make Haland a goal machine.
It's Alot of pity that Man United lose to Brighton, playing two goals to one. Man United only carve out having just only a goal directed to the goal posted again Brighton, where ***Rashford*** missed Alot of chances.
My Cumulative point!
Here's my Cumulative point for this game Week one so far. I did alot of mistake which was very painful. I went to use my "Triple Captain" at the beginning of the game Week. Had it been I have waited for the middle of the season, I would have seen more points that what I saw. I Only had 36 points in triple captaining "***Mohammed Salah***" He even tried that he didn't waste it for me.
Photo : All photos is mine
Club 1 BCH!
@PVMihalache sent the group link here, so that all participants of FPL can actually join. I joined, and then here's my position in club 1 BCH FPL league, looking forward to not coming down, because I don't wish so.
Looking forward for another free transfer to sign Erling Haland, because the race is literally right as we speak. Next fixture is hell, hoping it comes to my squad favour. ***FPL All the way!!***
***Photo: All photo is a screenshot of my FPL Squad***
Conclusion
FPL (Fantasy Premium League) is Good. ***Zinchenko*** Arsenal defender has been an option to me in Signing because Luke Shaw isn't helping my squad.
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Struggles and Merit of Early Motherhood!
7th August, 2022
Sunday 7:00 am WAT
***Motherhood is just a stage for matured ladies where they need to get married to that particular person they love wholeheartedly***.
*Being a mother of one isn't an easy task,* we all know how our mom strived about us while we are still at tender age. Talking about parenting, Mothers take a huge percentage out of it. Let assume Parenting is ***100%***, we have mother role to be ***70%***. Mothers struggles for us. Before we become grown up to this stage, we can count the number of food we have actually eaten. The amount of food prepared my our various mum in a year is uncountable. I won't be going into that today, that would be discussed some other time. The topic before us is "***Early Motherhood"*** I had little experience about early motherhood until I read an article from @emily2u . She wrote basically on Early Motherhood. After Going through her write up, she stated the ups and downs in early Motherhood. She made mention of an old friend of hers, which they have departed right from when they went in school. She said and I quote that this her particular friend had her first pregnancy at the age of 16, and that it's not new to them because this particular girl has been surrounded with so lot of male friend since 12 years. And we all know what that basically mean.
Struggles of Early Motherhood
We had a particular tenant back then, though they are gone now, as in they already have their own house now. But when they were still with us, they had a particular girl named "***Florence***" Florence was just 17 years old that particular year. And it's about some years from now. Florence didn't attend school. She stopped at Basic 6, and then her parent's told her to find a trade to learn, and she did, by learning "***Fashion designer"*** since she has started this work, she has been very serious. But all of a sudden, she became a girl that comes home with boys in the afternoon. They cook and then eat together, they both leave together to their working shop. On the long run, she became ***pregnant*** and then she delivered in peace.
The day when she was in the labor room, was the day we saw the husband, and since then, we haven't seen him till we speak. Her parents were supporting her in some food stuffs which the baby will need, and they all are doing well without seeing the father of the baby. After some months Florence begin to attend shop again, but while going to shop, she do leave the baby for her Mom, so that, grandma will take care of the baby for her. And that's how it keep going peacefully.
But Behold, the baby was a male and he was named "***Daniel***" Daniel has started school and he's doing well. But Florence is really struggling to meet the needs of that her baby because she had no husband, the husband ran Away. She has been striving, and God has been helping her. She became a boss on her own, and then she started gaining her balance back, without the father of the baby.
Merits of Early Motherhood
All that have disadvantages must have slight advantages. According to what i said above, I said they were our tenants, and that they are already in their own house. So Florence, and her son "***Daniel***" including their grandparents, they left for their own house.
As we speak now, according to my dad's last conversation with them, Daniel is in ***300level*** in the university and he's about to finish as a graduate............... Here's where the advantage come in, if that boy end up becoming a graduate and have a good job afterward. The father of the son will then find a way to get close to the son. Meanwhile,he has rejected the boy long ago. The mother "***Florence***" will eventually eat the fruit of her labour because she really struggled for that particular son, without no father.
Conclusion
As a male, don't go into early marriage, and then as a lady, don't fall in love with a guy that you think he's not capable. Just imagine in this case, where the lady was left alone to cater the needs of the boy.
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Don't be a victim of Fear!!!
***I will start by asking us In form of a question. What's your Greatest Fear? I'm pretty sure that immediately you saw this question, you would have probably been having your answers in Your mind.***
Some of us have this particular thing called "***Phobia***" Fear is something that is close to us, just as skin is close to our clothes. Fear is something I have been trying to get rid of, long ago I'm someone who have Alot of fear when it comes to speaking in the public. This particular thing has been part and parcel of me Right from a long time. I keep on asking people how I can actually send this particular thing off my Life, all answers I get is to be self confidence. Self confidence is as well an antidote to be free from any form of fear. Some people boldness or confidence are withheld Using different ways. Here's an instance that could be self explanatory to us regarding to "***Fear***"
I was in the college yesterday, and then we all are sited expecting the Lecturer to come in and deliver whatever he/ she has for us. Those of us that have actually passed out from University, you can relate how you do strive or struggle for sit when you were in 100level. So the same thing happened as well. We are meant to have a class by 8:00 am WAT, but I was opportuned to leave my hostel quickly and then hurry up for the class, coz we all know that class is a four(4) hours class, so can't wish to stand for a whole 4 hours. I entered the class as at 7:45 am, so as to secure a sit somewhere in the front and then to pay optimum attention.
Not to beat around the bush, the Lecturer came late, he came around 8:20 am but before then, three (3) tall huge guys walked up to me saying "***Stand up***" They said I should stand up, so that they can sit where I was sitting, but I was refused. I was actually thinking probably they forget their bag there, and they wanted to take their bags. So I look around my sit, I can't find any bag there. Then I began to have slight fear for them because of their tallness and how huge they are.
The three guys continue saying the same thing, telling me to "***Stand up***" simultaneously. As I wanted to stand up, one of them responded me saying " ***You don't even Know if we are cultist***" I then now process the word Within me. I don't even know where the boldness came from. I don't even know when I responded them back saying " ***If you're member of cult group, you will certainly ruin your life not me***" I don't even know when I said that.
And immediately I said that, they all posted into laughter, including those sitting beside me, and then I asked them why were they laughing, they said my response was funny. And then the three guys left by saying "***Nobody is willing to stand up for them***" which means, they have already planned together to come and scare me, and then if I loseguard, they will have my sit. That boldness actually made me conquer them.
***This has actually been a lesson to me, that self confidence at all times is the best we should try to have.***
Conclusion
Had it been I had fear them, I will continue fearing them wherever or anytime I sees them. At times they will intentionally come late and then come to class and search for me and then tell me to stand up. Because they know I will, coz I have fear for them. ***Don't be a victim of fear!!***
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Read! But don't overread!
4th August, 2022
Thursdays 6:00 am WAT
Third Article of the month
***Reading is more and all about gaining and gathering lot of knowledge, which will be a power for us in the nearest future, because no knowledge is wasted!***
Back then in those days,in my secondary school days, so many students thought ***"I'm intelligent, but deep down, I'm not."*** I know y'all will be eager to know why I said that, I said that because I'm not someone who is divinely intelligent, all I do is to Read. In fact, in most cases, I do crame what I have read, it's not as if, I really understand all i have read. When it's comes to exam time, from the beginning of the term, I don't read my books at all, I only pick them up when we are having exams. That's how I have been operating. But I felt this is not the best way to be an intelligent being. One has to gather a lot of knowledge so that this uniqueness will be in you among other school. Though this was a realization after graduating from a secondary School. Long term studying is the best.
*When I talk about Long-term studying, I mean when we read, and we made those readings sink in our long-term memory, that's when long term Reading will be achieved.*
Don't Overread!
I really what to explain this, according to what I have experienced. There is this attitude of mine, that I like making friends with those who I Know they are actually more intelligent than I am, most times sef, most of my friends are my seniors.
*Here is a brief or little story or experience, which I have had about Overreading. There's a girl I do walk with then in my school, she's very brilliant though, many times, if i tell her to explain some things to me, or telling her to shed more light on a particular topics which seems so complicated for me, the next response from her will be, " I have almost finished the textbook, so what don't you understand"*
*So that statement always made feel like, for this girl to have said this, that means, she would have gathered a lot of knowledge. So I will also pull the trigger, by borrowing her textbook home, so I will start reading hard, then I started this reading of a thing. A particular topic is almost 15 pages, and then we were in week 9 by that time, and I was still Reading just One topic by then, of almost 15 pages, but we have few weeks left for exam. I will read and read, I won't still understand, as I'm using her textbook, I will use mine as well, In conjunction with the class note, but I only grasp few things there. I didn't get myself, because all I was reading wasn't entering my memory the way I want them*.
When this process wasn't helping me, I returned her textbook, then started using my class note to Read, and Alot of attention to the teacher while teaching. I noticed something about her, since she has started reading her textbook, she's hasn't be listening anymore, coz she felt she has read it. But she doesn't know that paying maximum attention in class helps Alot. And this really helped me in my exam. Behold, when the result of our examination came out, she couldn't tell me her result because she knows she didn't do well. Total attention and little reading of my class note scaped me through.
How people Read
The way we assimilate things is quite different from each other. The way I read and understand might be different from yours. The way I answer questions might be different from yours.
*Some people read, if and only if they are hearing music*
*Some read, if and only if the place is quiet*
*Some people also read by waking up at midnights to read*
*Some read, even though there's noise*
**And that's me, if I'm determined to read, even though there's noise, that doesn't mean I wouldn't read.**
A little piece of advice
*What this place is actually telling us all is that, "Don't read because your friend is reading"*
*Read at the best moment you feel like reading*
*Read at your convenience time, without anyone telling you to put that into action*
*Don't disguise as if you're reading, but deep down you aren't reading anything*
*Don't read because you saw others reading.*
*All these won't come in your favour*
*Just read, without being forced*
Conclusion
I will call it a day here, I hope y'all grasp what I'm actually talking about in this article, and that you can use them to amend your ways in terms of reading aspects.
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Orientation for Newly admitted students!
2nd of August, 2022.
Tuesday 6:30 WAT
***In some journeys of life, we have to do orientation, so that people getting involved in that particular thing can actually know the reason why he/she is really there! In each levels of life, we need "ORIENTATION"***
At the college today, Orientation was hosted basically because of the Newly admitted students so that they can actually know why they are in the school. We were all told to gather at the school Auditorium today for the orientation program for students. The auditorium is is a big place but still, it doesn't contain us all, some students have to stay back outside. Those who came were not opportuned to have a sit in the auditorium so the school made a tent⛺ for them, inform of a shed, just to cover them and you know, so that they won't be under sun while the program is ongoing.
We started the orientation program so lively and interesting, we were firstly enticed by the donation of airtime. They started calling airtime of various Network, irrespective of your network, you will actually see your network, but the fastest finger will end up recharging the card. It came as a Bonanza to us all, we did work for it actually, I was actually opportuned to win a "***GLO card***" worth of ***NGN500*** I was so happy wining this. My friends was happy for me as well, I did well for them because after the orientation program I gifted some of my friends airtime of ***NGN100*** each, and they were up to almost three(3) in number.
National Anthem and the school Anthem!
We all stood up to say the national anthem as well as the school Anthem, though I don't know the school Anthem but I can now say little out of it now because it was projected on a projector screen using a projector, so that we can as well read as they sing all along. The school Anthem was actually good. The aspect of the school Anthem that I keep remembering is the chorus aspect that says;
***Great citadel of learning, all together!***
***We are LASU, and we are Great!!!***
*That's the two verses that I've been singing since I have visited the orientation program. Incase, we don't know the meaning of LASU, the abbreviation signifies "Lagos State University" it's literally the best State University in my country.* ***That's magnificent!!***
I was very surprised, when I saw a student coming up to name each countries in the whole world. I was very impressed seeing her, she mentioned 194 countries in the world, and she actually said it in an alphabetical order. Before she started, she told us to Google search the countries in the whole world and then we did, she told her she's gonna say all the whole country offhand. I could've believe that until she shock me by doing so. It was Absolutely Sensational!! I was very excited about that. That my school is producing best students
Almost Getting Knackered!
As we were sited there, we are tired when their talkings is too much for some people, they started leaving the auditorium bit by bit. When they realise that they are becoming scanty, so they brought us Gala and soft drink, we all take that and digested. So people who were outside before, they came back inside not because of what they are saying but because of the soft drink and Gala.
A piece of advice
When it's getting towards the end of the program. The last speaker emphasized on "***Cultism***" I would have talked about this now, but it's another topic on it own .
***" Don't be a victim of Cultism"***
Conclusion
My pen talks as I bring this article to a remarkable close, I really enjoyed today's orientation program. ***I purposely took some photos for reference purpose, for Future purpose and prolly for*** @Read.Cash ***members and subscribers to have a glimpse of those photographs.*** @TheRandomRewarder ***will actually see something so nice today. It's as if rusty hasn't been a friend to me, but I'm pretty rest assured that, this article will bridge the gap between*** @Offset ***and*** @Rusty
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How I've been since Resumption
***I'm actually doing well as you expected, but there have been some particular changes which I'm not actually coping with, Are you eager to know this? Then let see in the content below.***
As days goes by, life becomes more complicated and difficult, ***only those to leave everything to God, will actually have everything***, that's just how the nature is right now. Probably, some of you were aware that I was just admitted to the college about a month now, though it's not actually up to a month, but it's going to a month. And now I'm in the College as I speak, Going to the college early hasn't been easy for me, because my hostel is distant from the college itself, so I do enter taxi 🚕 just to be able to meet up the lectures we are having, since we have resumed now, we have been having Saturday classes, and we aren't Per-time students. Though it's for our own good, we gat no option that to concur to whatever the Lecturer says, or whatever the school says.
Home is always better than away
There are so lot of reasons why I have come to realize that when one is living within the vicinity of ones parents, we won't know the value, unless we go out to live elsewhere far from the home.
*I was eager to leave the home, when my college has resumed and lectures has started, I was very eager to leave the home, just because I was willing to change the environment and to know lot of things that are outside the environment. I was as well forming a big boy, that at least I'm an undergraduate. But now things are..........*
*Here are the benefits which I have come to realize that one can't get, when we are Away*
*****Decision about food!*****
When we are at home, it's kinda easy to tell our parents that this is what we are willing to eat, and they can prepare it for us, if they have the money at the moment. But when it come to away, we can only eat what we see, because there's lack of funds to prepare food.
*Moreso, even though we are opportuned to have the money, what if person like that don't know how to cook, how will I cope, I don't even know how to cook Noddles 🙈 Lol, it's an hyperbole though, why won't I be able to cook that common Noddles, I could remember a day I cooked two Noddles and I ended up pouring it away, because, I went to out salt. So painful, I later took Garri, this particular day, but such day won't ever repeat itself.*
*****Getting the exact food, at convenient time*****
This is another benefit arising when we are at home, we can eat what we want at a convenient time, but we when we are Away from the home, junk food becomes part and parcel of us. As I speak Now, biscuits has become my friend because I have no option, taking Alot of pure Water Ayer taking the biscuits, because it will boast me a bit. "***You Gerrit, if you don't Gerrit forget about it."*** This has made to eat some food which I haven't even eaten before. Here's one, I ate this two days ago, it was sold in the school. They do call it "***Wanke Rice***"
Conclusion
I'm gonna be it to a close at this point, as the first article of this month, I have been doing fine as I said earlier,but I have missed my mom here, because I had it been she was here, I would have been eating good food back to back. Lol!
***"In everything you do, be Good!"***
*Thanks for reading my article♥️, welcoming y'all to this wonderful month of August, Welcome to the month of August,I wish you success, good health and better financial standing than previous months*
@Offset 😍
Playing Ground
***I'm gonna lead this article by saying " All work no play, makes jack a dull boy" you playing doesn't mean you don't know what you're actually doing!***
It has been a while since I have engaged in sport like this, since I passed out from SSS 3 class, I'm used to going to my dad's shop and there's no time for any sports, even Sundays that suppose to be sports and other life activities, myself and my family are prone to always stay indoor, because I dad don't allow us to go out any how, our movement are restricted, my friend can't call me for a ceremony, Because they know I can't come. Without deviating from the normal topic, what I'm saying is that, I love sports but I don't always have time for it, due to some restriction from parents and what have you.
Football is my Hobby
My favorite Hobby is "***Playing football***" y'all should take note of that because someday I'm gonna host questions and answers, which will be more about giving out of some funds, in article form.
I love any form of sport, be it Football, basketball, volleyball, cricket and any other form of sports. But among all, football is my favorite, I found huge fun when people are Playing football, or especially when I'm the one playing it, Even though though I'm not too good in Playing, I'm an amateur @Nickflash is my boss when it comes to football, back then in our school days. I hate playing football with left footed people, especially when the person is now short or small.
If you notice those who are left footed they are found to be very skillful when it comes to football aspects. I'm very scared of A short left footed person when I'm Playing because they can easily enter between your legs, aside that, you can predict their skills. What I'm trying to say there is that, when a right footed person is playing, you can easily predict or guess how the person will play the ball or the direction where the person will forward the football to, but when you become and opponent to a left footed person, you can't be decisive about where he's directing the ball, hope what I'm actually saying here is clear.
I love sport!
Have you ever seen me playing football? I'm not sure y'all have! There's an exception, that should be @Nickflash we were great footballers then, when we were in school, we were always playing together in the same team. Though he's left footed, I can as well play more than I'm, he's a boss, I'm still under his training.
About some years back, I haven't played football at all, due to the reason I stated above, among it is, me staying indoor most of the time, and my dad not granting us the permission of not always Going outside.
After playing a little football today I started gasping because it been a while I participated in sport like this. The both teams were timed to come cut if any team could score before ***20mins***, when it was about ***17 mins***, I started to breathe heavily because I'm getting tired, and exhausted, but di you know that, I made a the decisive goal for them, when it was roughly ***19+mins*** we were all striving to make a difference by directing the ball in the goal post, though I was a midfielder, but I love to be stricker, but we have those who can play better than I am over there, then I played as a midfielder, so fortunately for me, I ended up scoring a wrong goal, though I don't know it will end up to be goal. My aim is to be an assist, but it ended up being a goal ***"Off the woodwork"***
***A piece of advice***
Trying Engaging in sport activities, once a week or once daily, and don't be like me, that's always graving for sport but don't always have the time.
Conclusion
I'm gonna bring to a close over here, stay tuned for my next post, it's gonna be hot
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Lagos and Hustle!
***Those who have lived inside Lagos can only relate to this saying, Lagos is a state that accommodate Alot of people regardless of your tribe.***
For the sake of those who doesn't have description about "***Lagos***" Lagos is one of states in the country named Nigeria 🇳🇬. Lagos was one of the formal capital of Nigeria, before it was finally moved down to "***To the federal Territory Abuja"*** Lagos is also one of the most populous known state in Nigeria, Because people from other villages are always found coming down to Lagos State for survival, because they know they can actually earn money here for living!
Since I have been given birth to, I have used most of my life in Lagos, I went to Ogun state just three times, and since then I haven't been to anywhere than this my favorite state of mine.
Lagos & Hustle
"***Lagos & Hustle***" I purposely use this as the topic because, it's the best title that befit this article. Life of most lagosians has end up being "***A Pure Hustlers***" There some aspect in Lagos State that most of their children don't even attend schools because, even the youths in the such communities didn't even go to school as well, most of them are illiterate, though it's not their fault but, it has been ordained in some community like that, they are found of not attending schools.
Here bring us to why most lagosian youths are Hustlers, they will continue being an Hustler if they didn't amend their ways about going to school, had it been they have been going to school, we won't have lot of conductors among them, something even came to my hearing yesterday that, conductors now have uniform, I thought it was a joke, not until I sighted two among them, putting on the same uniform.
They aren't even willing to learn a trade, this made me remember one of my Article back then, tilted "Learn a Trade now or never" I wrote it, because so many youths aren't willing to learn a particular trade, that will later be of help to sustaining their life.
There are some parts in my state that, only Hausas are the one dominating the place, one a normal ground, Lagos State are meant to be for ***Yorubas***, but now the population of ***Hausas*** and ***Igbos*** are even becoming more than that of the Yoruba. Hence making things complicated for us all.
Only the fittest ones will survive
The smartest soul will end up gaining in this m state, because they one person doesn't even have time for the other, so you play it your ***self intelligence***, you do things with your self intelligence. Parents don't have time for theirs kids, and even kids don't have time for their parent, they all are ***hustling and striving*** by themselves, no one is one a watch on the other. "The fittest one" in this case, is those, who are fit mentally that can do things with their own disgression.
Conclusion
My pen bleeds as I bring to a close here, Make sure you stay tuned for Article every time, I'm always coming with the best, trust me! Something good is coming soon.
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Happy 20th Anniversary El-Bossaa
*When a school like this attain twenty years of age, it really calls for a big celebration, this school has really changed so many life and helping some person's in their career, mine is just a typical example!*
It's a joyful thing to be precise, when a school called ***"El-Bossaa Model College"*** attain it twenty years of age, I had wanted to write this into an article since yesterday, though the event came up on Friday, so I wanted to put it inform of an article yesterday, but some issues actually hindered from doing that, so I have a little opportunity now to come up with something now, I should have even posted it since that same day(Friday) but I haven't gathered Alot of information to tell y'all.
***"The Famco Event Centre, located at Epe, Lagos State"*** actually hosted the ceremony, though the school paid, there was the ceremony ground, those who know how beautiful the place is, can only relate to this, like that of @Nickflash and many more. I wasn't that Happy the day the ceremony was done because, I wasn't there, and my absence was due to the fact that, I have resumed Universal City, my set wasn't the graduating set though, my set was the one who graduated last year, so ought to be there, because the all the students who passed out from the school since twenty years ago, they all were invitees, which are to attend the program. This school is private school, which don't tolerate trash with students, you practice illegal act, you are been expelled straight away, they don't take nonsense.
One thing that made me cherish this school named ***"El-Bossaa college",*** is their annual ***"Prize giving day"*** I Know y'all must have known what Prize giving day is all about, it's a program set aside to reward some certain students which have actually done well in their Academics or in their attitude. There are attitudinal prizes and there are Academics prizes,
Attitudinal prizes
These are the prizes delibrately given to some students just to reward them, on how good and how cultured they have been through a particular session, students are always eager to collect prizes here.
Teachers, vice principal and principal himself are always on a close watch out to observe students who are well behaved, and cultured in the school, so they can actually attain prizes in the end. In this case, the student won't know he/she would be called upon since you won't be told. This make this things a special one, which students don't always want to miss this, even parent's are always eager to find their children name mentioned!! For attitudinal prizes, there are lot of prizes such as;
***The out spoken student***
***The neatest student***
***Well behaved student***
***Most generous students***
***Most friendly students***
***The most challenging student***
***The most punctual student***
Academical Awards
These awards are based on the Academical performance of students from first term, second term, and third term. The award is given based on each subjects, the most Academics performing student in each subjects will end up attaining prizes, this is where I don't miss in a prize giving day. Even though I have other things doing, when it comes to that particular period, I don't miss it. I can't afford missing it. There's this particular thing I do say here, for those who stay tuned to some of my Article. I said when I was still in school my set was the best Challenging set right from junior classes till we graduated, because we all want to collect prizes, at least we can collect back small out of my school fees from the school. The prizes are as follows;
*The first position In a particular subject will collect NGN 1,000*
*The Second position in a particular subject will attain NGN 750 while,*
*The third position in a particular subject will take NGN 500*
***There's award for the overall best student as well. And we Are offering almost 13 subject then, the way your names will be called is enough to make your parents proud if they were in attendance.***
Conclusion
My pens bleed as I put it to stop here, stay tuned for the next part of this article, coming soon, it will be same topic though. I'm saying all these not to make you jealous, but some schools should actually learn from this doings. Coming soon!!
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Myself, when it comes to Food.
*No one can actually do or live without taking food, can that be? It can't! Myself and food gonna be till thy kingdom come!🙈 To be sincere I love Food, How about you?*
There's a meme I saw saying, apart from food, which other things bring happiness to you? Some were saying theirs, but I responded saying "Food and little happiness from the little savings of mine" then, everybody was like, this boy called offset too like food, then I said, that's just me, I don't hide my feelings or something. I saw my mind, then some other persons start Mentioning Food as their answer, after I had said mine. Then we all departed.
***To be candid with y'all, I love Food, the happiness that comes from eating foods is like, our saliva should be in form of food or juice, that's the extent of how I have imagine how food should be!***
There's this thought of mine, about food, anytime I have food in front of me, or anytime found out that, the food is almost done, if I finally start eating the food, ***I do think that, as I'm eating the food, another one should be replacing it immediately, but it can't be possible***. If it was possible, people won't be dieing of hunger, no one will even be begging for food. God has a perfect plan.
Morning Food!
I had class in school today, so I have to go school, then get to kitchen myself, getting some kick cooked. I have a little uncooked spaghetti in the kitchen, then I decided to put that on fire, because I have no other thing to eat. Though my best food is rice, but no money at hand to go buy that this morning, then I just cooked what I have in the kitchen. I tried my best in cooking the Rice, and it was Delicious 😋. Cooking the spaghetti is not the issue but the stew is the problem, because I'm not too good in making stew, but I have to cook because no other person to cook for me. I gat no girlfriend that can be of help mate to me.
***I used Grater, to like grind my tomatoes and other spices together, to make the food look better in the sight and stomach lol🙈. To be candid, the food was good but, the salt was much a bit, I gat no option than to take the food like that. But the spaghetti is too small for me, because I eat Alot***.
Afternoon Food!
Boom!!! The food I actually want to eat is now ready to eat, I cooked this myself too, I have alot of ingredients with me, but how to apply them when cooking is that problem. But I still dey gallant. I cooked this immediately arriving from school. Though, I was knackered when I got home, but I just to do the cooking, before I become more tired.
***Here's is my own version of Jollof rice, which most people do call concoction. Mine it's obviously jollof Rice. Didn't I try, abeg I try small na. At least I tried, even though I'm a male. Though, there are male chef, but I tried!***
Last night food!
Last night food was Rice and.......i don't want to say stew, because that my stew, didn't stew at all, Lol, as I said in the first place, making stew is where I'm actually defaulting, I'm gonna fix that soon, I will go to YouTube to check how to prepare a simple stew.
In conclusion;
I have a bring it to close here, it's been a while here though, I promise to be here fully, don't mind me, the pressure of stress on me is too much. Bear with me for the main time. I have this great opportunity to thank all my Sponsors, I cannot but give appreciation to the likes of @Princessbusayo for the renewal of sponsorship.
Thanks for reading my article, stay tune and wait for it, y'all gonna know me from my article 🙈 . It's @Offset from Nigeria 🇳🇬 BCH lover and @Readcash.support supporter. Happy weekend!!
Boom!!!!
I'm almost back from some activities that are taking my mind away from this wonderful home of mine. Don't you know this platform is like a home to me, because, we all do things in common here. Love y'all.
Wait for it!!!!!!
A New Environment!!
*It has always been part and parcel of human to always stay in a particular place for long period of time. This contribute to a major thing that gives us a restricted knowledge about some particular things and some particular places.*
From my thought, I believe changing of environment can help increase our knowledge about life. I wish to travel many times but, my cravings for traveling wasn't granted, then I have no option than to sit and then look.
*I'm found of not always living my area for years. I live in Epe, but I Only leave Epe, just once a year, which is very bad. And that doesn't happen every year. Y'all will be wondering how that could be possible, it is! Here's what made me leave Epe just once a year; In the Church I'm attending, we have a church patron, and this particular man all the way from Sangotedo Eti-Osa, he will drive down to our church to come and workshop, not as if, there were no other churches he could attend, but he just decided to make our Church, the only church he wants to be attending. He's house to the church is about Forty-six kilometres. Just imagine a man driving himself, to this church almost every Sundays.*
*For this man to have been doing this, then our pastor decided to set aside a Sunday in every month of February, to always worship in his house. So all of us do go make service in his own house in every first Sunday of February, though the man worth this. I can't say it all. So this make it the only day I do leave my town to other places or local government. All I have been doing is; Go to school early in the morning for sec school days, and then return in the evening, after closing hour, I'm heading straight to my dad's workshop to help him in some aspect of work, because he's becoming old and weak in that particular work. After leaving his workshop, we get home at night again, that's what I have been doing for 365days in a year. There are even some places which I don't even Know even in my own Town. It sounds funny, but it's a fact!*
New Environment
After resuming university, I realize they are so many things they are good outside my town, I don't know, my town (Epe) has been a darkness to me, Because I realized, there are so many good life to live outside. Me staying in a particular place all the time has made me not to even know there are better enjoyment out there.
**A University will continue being a University**
We were receiving lectures on Friday, then I see how beautiful the university, I imagine the interior of the university, and I was just happy within myself. I took a shot of all the student sitting in the MBA hall for tutorials. They are all ears to what the Lecturer was saying.
**Sport Ground**
Their sport Ground were just to nice. After Friday Lecture for about 2 hours, 9-11 am, when the lecture came to a close, we all gathered at the sport Ground.
The sport director took us round, and he was trying to show us each playing court, he showed us football court, lawn tennis court, volleyball court, and then basket ball Court.
***The courts were as follows;***
***Two (2) basketball courts***
***Two (2) volley ball Courts***
***Lawn tennis court***
***A standard football pitch and,***
***Two other football playing ground***
Conclusion!!!
My pen bleeds! And then I'm gonna call it a wrap. Just trying to share this with y'all to Know the joy of changing an environment, ***though I'm gonna be back to where I actually came from, but the little time I will be spending will be of joy to me!!***
Thanks for reading my article! I'm no one but the little son and brethren of yours. Without y'all, I'm NO where to be found. ***Great thanks to my Sponsors especially*** @Princessbusayo ***for renewal of sponsorship payment. I'm as well using this time to wish one of my honorary sponsor*** @Ellawrites ***Belated Happy Birthday dear, May people glory God for knowing you.***
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Still not active fully because, I have been stuck with school activities, for gat no option than to source things out by my first priority. For now, schooling is still the first priority for me. I pray attaining success at school come at ease for me. Seeing y'all sonner!
Traveling Experiences!!!
"***Traveling is part of Education" this is a quote which has become so rampant to people to put in their talkings.***
When we experience traveling over longer distance, then we will know that short distance traveling is nothing. When engage on going for a tour of interstates. Intercommunity traveling is of less experience to interstates traveling, while interstates traveling is of less experience to international traveling.
*I found myself seeking for an admission into a University, then I was opportuned to have been among the admitted student for the particular course I'm craving for! That's just an happiness on it own. Happiness comes Within us, when things comes with ease for us, without even going through much stress as expected. While other have been ranting they weren't given their desired course. I was just mercifully opportuned to seek for an admission the first time, and then the admission was granted cheaply to me! Wow! It's just an opportunity!*
My Experience of today's traveling!
Since I'm matured Enough to know the difference between "Good and Bad" I haven't go on a traveling using almost the whole day on the journey. The Journey of today was just too stressful which i can't tell all. Had it been I'm in two persons, I would I have love to snap or video myself, trying to maintain balance in carrying of my traveling bags. In my state "Lagos" one don't have to loseguard because anything can happen at an unexpected moment. Taxi drivers aren't even showing mercy on passengers. We can't come down to ease oneself. Here are the Main thing I wanna discuss with y'all, though it's been a while, lol🙈
***Traffic Congestion!!***
This is the problem most travellers have on the road. There were lot of traffic, arising from big portholes on the main express way. Porthole has been the most cause of the congestion we faced today when trying to have a safe trip to my new college. When there were many Congestion, I don't even know what to do at the moment. I just have to be my real self. Many were even ranting in the bus that they wanted to urinate, but the driver turn a deaf hears to them. I actually part of those who wanted to urinate, but I just didn't speak up, because I was actually scared, because I haven't experienced such traveling for once.
***Flooding***
@Tomi-Ajax made mentioned of this flooding some days ago. Immediately I saw today's flood, I just remembered that he actually wrote something about those who became victim of this flooding. I heard in the news this evening that, some travelers kicked up the ghost, the death arises from the flooding act, where the flood becomes too much and then it has covered almost half of the car, and then vehicle can't even move any longer. Some who knows l how to swim escaped by jumping in the flood to swim to their nearest destination. But the driver itself, and some who doesn't have the skill of swimming, they die off. This flooding is another great experience I had today. *We almost fell victim of accident today, because our driver was trying to move the vehicle from the flood.*
***Smoking!!***
In some particular areas, smoking isn't even a crime. Today's traffic made me experience a white man smoking his Indian hemp, and he wasn't even hiding it for anyone. He was smoking other travelers are even seeing him. I couldn't believe a white man can come to a black country and be smoking.
Conclusion
That's just gonna be all for today. I have gain and added more to my knowledge today, because I learnt and know Alot of things today, which I felt it's bad, but deep down they are normal things for other people
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24th Church Anniversary
***It really calls for a great celebration, when we realize our church is Twenty-four (24) years old. It has only be God all along for the years of the Church.***
Journey of thousands miles start with a step. The earlier we get it started, the earlier we get suceeded at the end of the it. It's just like a joke when the church started, but now it's now something people come to worship in, and even call upon God to answer their prayers.
*Anniversaries mostly comes ones a year, with a great celebration. Doings an anniversary is a good and essential thing, because it's a means of Thanksgiving for how far that particular one thing has gone and how well, it has been all along. See my Church attaining 24 years of age, it's not a easy thing at all, if not for the mercy and Grace God has showered on us all.*
Brief church History
I have been talking about my church, but I haven't made mention about the name of my church so y'all can try to attend someday! This awesome church is named "***Christ Apostolic church (C.A.C) God of sustainant"*** I know some individuals can eventually shock me and attend my church to confirm how beautiful it is. Those members which are first timers don't even want to taste another church anymore because my church is the best, lol😁. Having said all these! Below are how the church came up and how it became known to the populace of the community and the state at large.
*The Church was established and commissioned by one of the late executive of CAC church worldwide named "****Pastor Ibitoye****" This pastor was the one who launched the church after being established, with powerful prayers, that the church should have a solid stance in the community and that it can be recognized.*
*The church was established on "****7th of July 1998" just like a joke it's now 24 years of age,*** *though time waits for no man, time have no moment to waste, it keep going on, even though you aren't ready.*
*The church was lifted from a mere "****District****" to an "****Assembly****" a great joy comes in when the church is progressing and getting well known by people. This took effect as far back "11th February 2010".*
*The church progressed again to attain the post of being a "****Zone****" Zone in this sense, means governing over other churches in different areas. When a church us regarded as a "****Zone****" that means the church can control both District churches and Assembly churches. That's signifies the power of being a Zone. The beauty of the church is, seeing the church progressing each day. That's just the joy of the church. And also winning more souls into the church.*
*After collecting the Zone, the Church then built another church to accommodate enormous multitude for easy worship of church members. The old former building was then renovated to be used by the children of the Church. What a wonderful church I have, with lot of planning*.
Church Anniversary in Proper!
Boom!!! Here comes the anniversary in proper. We attended Church today being the second Sunday of the month of July. The church announcer has already announced the date which the church Anniversary is coming up, which is today. We give thanks to God for, the day has come in peace. Since I have been attending my church, today was the day we waited more than we have being waiting.
Appointment of New Deaconesses
The pastor of the church decided to appoint the church Deaconesses today. Though we have church Deaconesses before, which they are up to 15 in number, but the pastor and the curate pastor has come together to appoint additional Deaconesses In the church. They are planned to be in white colour
Here's the photo on how they were inaugurated.
Church choir
Here are the church choristers signing in chorus, I snap them from my sitting stance. Each member of the choir group wore the same cloth. Though I'm a chorister but I haven't been roping long ago for some reason which aren't too genuine. Laziness and lack of dedication 🙈
Towards the Benediction!
Towards sharing the Benediction, we all stood up singing from our gospel hymn book "***Various 26" "Higher I go"*** our love for this song ehnn, it's a very interesting song. We all love to sing it, because but young and old knows the song offhand.
Conclusion
When a particular thing is getting old, it really calls for a great celebration. The celebration of our church has began and has eventually come to a close
***Thanks for reading my article. My love for this platform and y'all is unmeasurable***
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Beauty of my Community
***It's a great luck being in a good and well civilized community, I was only opportuned to have a good dwelling home in a good dwelling Community, which is more of like a "City"***
I used the language " ***I was only opportuned***" because some dwelling Community aren't in good state, especially when there's heavy downpour, the community won't be good to see, even movement of individuals will be restricted. People's Personal car got damaged because flood has covered the whole community due to lack of good drainage system, hence Making the car drunk in flood, affecting some mechanical aspect of the vehicle. When a motor engine has been soaked with huge water, there's high risk of NOT being able to repair the vehicle, because it's completely illegal or improper when water enters the "***Injector, or Carburator of a vehicle"***
@Tomi-Ajax ***made mention of this flooding lately in his article. Community with awful drainage system won't stop seeing such problem on flooding.***
Beauty of Offset's Community 🙈
There are so many other communities out there, which are even more beautiful than ours over here. But I appreciate being in a good and simple community too. It's just about being "Opportuned" . Below is one of the newly renovated building in my community. It was just renovated by just three Month as said by the construction Contractor. Those days I do go to school, after closing hour, that's our main route back home, we cannot but pass this main route because that's the only easy home back home. While the construction was on going, no one could believe this building can be as fine as this, because we never knew the extent the owner is taking it to. So rapidly, they began and they continue doing the work steadily. The building wasn't that cute in sight, but the power of "Painting" come upon it, we couldn't even recognize it's the same building we do see when heading home. ***I wish a 🏠 better than this, How about you? Won't you claim yours? Lol***
An Hotel
Here's another building situated in my community. It's not an ordinary building but "***An Hotel"*** named according to the name of the owner called "***Adenuga***" The owner decided to name the hotel as "***Nuga Hotel***". Everyone loves visiting this hotel because their sales are very low and it very affordable.
But here's an awful news about the Hotel, which makes Alot of people feel bad.
As said earlier the hotel was Named according to the name of the owner, called "***Adenuga***" The bad news come in here "Right from the onset of the construction of the hotel, the owner has been spending massively, and we all saw it that, Alot of funds were raise for the success of this great hotel, after the hotel was totally done, it was commissioned and launched by the owner in relation to his name. After launching the hotel, the third day, the news went viral that the owner of the hotel is ***dead***. This was very disheartening, they all ranted on what could cause the death of the Man, but they couldn't get it. When he was rushed to the hospital, the doctor said he died by poisoning him. But they went on investigating who can do that bad act,as we speak Now, we haven't heard anything concerning the death
Construction in Progress
From the photos above, y'all will notice we don't have good tarred roads. Road construction is on going too, to make everything go smoothly, so people can use our community has a tourist attraction for visitation
Conclusion
My community is so endowed with good and quality houses, so many beautiful buildings are there in
***Happy Eid-il-Mubarak to all Muslim members on this platform***
Grandpa's Birthday
**Birthdays are usually special day in the life of the celebrant, it's rare you see a celebrant forgetting his/her birthday. That's uncertain, and if there is, that means the person isn't leaving a peaceful life style. The person must have prolly been overshadowed with "*****Worries*****"**
My Grandpa is very good friend of mine, he is as well a dad to me, also playing s role of Grandfather as well. He does most things with a clean and pure heart. He has a pure heart towards almost every family members and relatives.
Grandpa's Lifestyle
My Grandfather was a good father to me, he's one of my role model which I look up to. His smile is kinda an happiness to me, whenever he smiles, I'm very overwhelmed, because he surrounds us with his good caring attitude. Every children of the family love to be with him most times, because he knows many history. When my dad has forgotten some things that have happened in the past. His only alternative of remembering is to go ask Grandpa. Because he's 100% sure that grandpa remember things more than he himself.
**Here's a brief description of my Grandpa**;
*A tall Aged Man*
*A handsome Man*
*Man which is a bit fair in Complexion*
*Man with a simple lifestyle*
*Man of incredible funny jokes*
*Man with cunning words*
Little Achievement of Grandpa
My Grandpa has been endowed with some little records back then, when he was still Young and craving. This Man of integrity has been able to achieve Alot;
During his primary school days in the school. ***He was emerge has the best overall graduating student of his set in the school, he's loved by most of his teachers in school.***
My grandpa was also voted IN as an "***Head of class" (HOC)*** in his department. It's an achievement as well. I also crave for being an HOC but the desire wasn't granted.
He went to an NDA school "Nigeria Defense Academy" where he finally retired as a captain Army
While still in service of NDA, he went in conjunction with his wife to build "***An Hospital" named "Safeway Hospital" along "Sangotedo, Eti-Osa"***
He was opportuned to be an ***Elder*** in his church, he's attending. Named "***Christ Apostolic church"***
***Here are the few achievement, or record of Grandpa, that I know..***
My Birthday wish to Grandpa
**Early this morning, I woke to realize it's a birthday of my awesome Grandpa. First thing I did is to send him birthday wishes. Here's my birthday wish to him;**
*When a Worthy and a man with lot of care approaches the milestone of 70 years of age,it definitely calls for a big celebration.We have never met a person as kind humble and down to earth as you, you are the best role model whom we could look up to. However,it can sometimes be quite challenging crafting very meaningful wishes befit such a grand occasion*
*As you look back on your 70 years well lived may you remember all of joy and laughter you have shown. wishing a day filled with blessings and joy, as you celebrate your birthday,may feel loved by all those around you. All the good words in this world wouldn't be sufficient if I were to express the love I have towards you, wishes you all what your heart desires IJN Amen.*
*Happy 7th decade Birthday sir,long life is assured*
*FROM: Adio Samson*
Conclusion
Here signifies the end of this article titled "Grandpa's birthday" I'm very overwhelmed when I realize it a birthday of my grandpa.
***Hope y'all are preparing are preparing for your upcoming Festive?***
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Appreciation Based Article
*I cannot but give appreciation to those who appreciation are due to. I use this medium to say a big Appreciation to all my entire readers on this supportive platform*
I wrote an article yesterday relating to the current situation of Market price of BCH, and how the bot has limited it tip. Though it's not the bot, but what BCH is saying at this present time, is nothing to write home about. That was why I decided to title my recent article as "***Still Hopeful"*** Because indeed I'm still hopeful to see the bot showing me love and support.
I could remember the last conversation I made with one of my affiliate, which he was trying to complain about what's going on with the tipping system of this platform. All he was ranting about was that the bot hasn't been visiting him. Then I told him to chillax, that the bot is coming to make it stance on his post, we both joked and then leave peacefully. I saw his post under the notification box, and then I decided click on it, to see how far the article has went. Then the bot has really done well him. He blushed and then send it to me on Whatsapp because the both has done well to him.
@Rusty *did well today, though I haven't been seeing tips, but the bot has made a reunion with my article with the recent article I posted.*
@TheRandomRewarder
My appreciation goes to the bot Because it has been in my favor lately, still hopeful to continue the good work of tipping . Since I have been engaged in earning platforms. read.cash has always been the best of all, though noise.cash has also gone a long way in supporting me financially. These two platforms has no replacement. They are actually doing their ultimate and optimum best to make the platform favour every member of the platform
My Sponsors
***I cannot but give appreciation to whom appreciation is due to be given.***
@Talecharm
It was a Monday morning, when I woke up and then pick my smart phone and then check what's going on read cash, then I entered the notification box, and found "A sponsor" then I began to wonder who have decided to sponsor my article, Because I don't see something special in my Article where an unknown Being can sponsor it. Though she was the last person who sponsored me. I use this medium to say a big Appreciation to you. GRACIAS!! Talecharm
@Princessbusayo
She was a nice sponsor, which has being very supportive, she decided to sponsor me as well. I can't stop appreciating you
@Gaftekloriginal
My ultimate brother, I could name him a brother from another parent because of his effort in making me progressive
@FashTioluwa
This is an humble brother of mine, which he has just graduated from universal City, he tried putting be through when I was still a newbie
@Ellawrites
This article wouldn't complete if I skip her name, she has been a great tutor as well, no question I ask, she gives a perfect response. GRACIAS as well
Conclusion
***This is an appreciation Based Article. I say big appreciation to y'all Because you reading this article, I'm no where to be found. If y'all aren't here, this platform would be bored and even wouldn't have existed. GRACIAS!! Everyone.***
Thanks for reading my article, I cannot mention all names, but y'all have been so supportive to my article🙇👏🙌
Still Hopeful!!
*Hopefulness is the anticipation of arrival of a particular thing which is yet to come*!
There have been flunctuation in market price of different crypto currencies, many of them have appreciation and depreciation in the market price, but we have nothing to do than to keep watching and hoping it will come back to it normal state.
Hopeful about Bitcoin Cash (BCH)
Many people have come to my DM asking me about what's actually going about the flunctuation in market price of BCH. I have NO perfect answer to give because I can only say less about the current situation of BCH. I have been wondering about one thing, since when the dip has started. I wonder people who have BCH in stock last year, I wonder how they will be feeling right away. As I have said earlier, they have no other choice than to keep watching and hoping, that BCH should return to it original state.
*I could remember vividly on noise.cash. I posted something about BCH. That was when the dip just begun, so people were ranting then, o decided to write a short post about it and then throw the post to the audience of noise.cash. I could remember the response* @Sajibb *gave to that write up. He said BCH has entered $50 before and I was like, is that true. So what he was trying to say then was that, BCH can still go back to $50. Immediately BCH dropped to $98 last well or this week, the conversation made with* @Sajibb *came to my skull.*
Still Hopeful on Read.cash
The earnings of most people including mine have been very little since a week now. @TheRandomRewarder hasn't been visiting people's post unlike Before when the dip is not much. Since when the dip has become great, bot hasn't been visiting unlike before. This point remembered me about the last conversation I made with one of affiliate, where he was telling that "Read cash will crash or will be wiped out" And I told him "it can't" I response to him was that " imagine how dip BCH is now! And read cash including the top tippers hasn't stopped tipping* that signifies that read cash can't even be wiped.
*My wonderful bot in this platform hasn't been visiting my articles, and I hope it will be done on this article. My reunion with* @Rusty *will be done using this article. Few days ago, the bot hasn't visited me, I thought it would been because of the great and severe dip of BCH. Bitcoin cash has depreciated twice it original state of market price. Though, no one could give a reason for the depreciation of BCH.*
Still Hopeful for the upcoming festive!
The salah ceremony is fast approaching and it's about coming in already. The Northerners are already bringing their Rams for us all to purchase and kill for salah festive. Though I'm not a Muslim, that's why I don't know the full name of the salah festive
***Many have started purchasing their Rams from the Northerners, while others are still hopeful in getting money in just buying small ram.***
Another big Van of RAM has landed again for those who are still interested in purchasing one. People who are yet to buy theirs still have more than enough to select
Conclusion
I will round it up here and call it a day, it can call it a wrap by now. Y'all have somethings you are thinking about this platform. People might be thinking it wanna crash. But I don't think so!!!
Thanks for reading my article. It's very delighting seeing y'all engaging in my Article. It's @Offset from Nigeria 🇳🇬
When there's Carelessness, Accident is inevitable!!
July 4th 2022
Monday 9:30am WAT
***Carelessness gives rise to most Accident cases, total carefulness ought to be taken to practice to be Accident free!***
***When there's Carelessness, Accident is inevitable***
****Carelessness****
Carelessness has been a more attitude which has been so common to Many Individual of this days. I can just summarize the whole title of this article "When there's Carelessness, Accident is inevitable" using an illustration of "A Rat" You can NEVER see a Rat careless, most times you see rat, they are always careful and at alert, Because they know something that could terminate their life can come from no where. Even though, you don't pursue a rat, if it sees you, it will run as if, you are after it. You can't see a rat eating food carelessly, they know there aren't safe and that danger can come from anywhere. Using this illustration of a Rat should be able to explain more on this article. This should be an illustration for us about how Careful we must be most times.
****Accident****
Accident is just something we don't expect, the highest time range an accident can happen is probably "a minute" I don't even think an accident can last for a whole a minute without coming to an end.
Accident is an unplanned event, that eventually takes place which isn't usually reversible, when accident is ordained to occur, there's nothing we can do to it. There are "Minor and Major Accident" The minor ones are the accident we get little injury from, such as; Piercing of nail on ones leg, While Major Accident is that which, the body is greatly affected, such as; hard clashing of two different vehicles
How Our carelessness got us into Accident
Accident is achieved when there's total Carelessness. We are very Carelessness in doing most things because we don't know the bad effect of that actual thing. A mere Pen can cause an accident if we are very Carelessness about it. There are so many things that can cause harm or Accident To us, in different places as well.
**Home Accident**
While I was commenting on someone's article this afternoon, I saw a particular Article regarding to Accident. *From* @JenThoughts *article, she was trying to explain an accident which came up in her own house and in a place where his son is continuously passing each day. And despite the place is their home, her son had an accident there. I wouldn't say her son was careless, I will rather say it was unintentional. The son was eating and after eating, he went to wash and clean is hand after the meal. Then, Unfortunately, he little boy had an injury on his leg, one metallic stuff in their house, pierced his leg, the accident was so vital though, it was in the house. The boy wasn't careless at this point, but he didn't plan it*
Road Accident
Road Accident is one of the major accident occuring this days which we cannot but make mention of, because nearly everyday, we hear cases about road Accident from reckless drivers, which are drunk, some might have even smoked, thereby making them feel high mentally. Most cause of this accident is because they are highly drunk, which makes them see portholes on the road as mere rat, that's just the level of how they are drunk at that moment. Some do drive due to their inexperience. "Don't Drink while Driving"
Summary
I could call it a wrap by now and call it a day. But here's a Little advice for us all, Don't be careless, and check well before boarding a bike, or a taxi when going to a place, some are drunk before going on a ride, hence involving you an unplanned Accident.
Thanks for reading my article, thank y'all ♥️
Top Reasons for Depression!
*Depression has now Become so rampant, which has been affected by so many individual, which has claim so many lives of some innocent souls.*
According to my dictionary over here, it gave a vivid description of the Word "Depression" as " ***A state of mind producing serious, long-term lowering enjoyment of life"*** This sentence has a "***Deep"***meaning in the actual sense of Man. When I think about this statement vividly, I know something is really embedded in it, and that particular statement is pregnant.
I want to emphasize more on that statement, "***A State of mind producing serious, long-term lowering enjoyment of life"*** when there's lower enjoyment of life, that can lead to depression, especially when " ***the enjoyment of ones life is lowered for a very long-term" I call that a very "Concentrated depression***"
My own description about Depression
Depression based on my thought, is when an individual is always sad, and not been able to mingle with other fellow. I summerized my thought about Depression as " ***Inability to visualize a happy future"*** People who always find victim of depression are people that don't always find happiness within their reach, all they get and see is Sadness and Loneliness most of the time.
At times we get sad, but when the Sadness is becoming a long-term one, that has eventually lead to Depression. When a person walk up to you, and only he/she could say is to alter bad words of sadness. When the person keep coming and saying things to you, but only, point you could pick from the person's statement is "***Sadness***" that Domo strated how Depression has gradually began in the person's Life.
Here are some reasons for Depression!!!
Abuse
Most people who are often affected by Depression are those are always abused or "***MOCKED***" People who are affected are those who have physical challenges, so many people tend to abuse or mock them, with their physical challenges. For instance; an individual with one eye born blind, will be eventually be mocked by his/her co friends, and this can quickly lure some people to commit suicide because they won't speak up and then, they will feel no one is attending to their personal issue of live. A disabled person who doesn't have strong mind, will quickly fall victim of Depression, at a point, the abuse and mocking will be too much to the extent that, one will be ashamed in the community. "***Don't be a victim of Depression***"
Death or loss of lives
According to my own thought, Death can make an innocent being fall victim of depression. One can easily be depressed from loss of life of an innocent relatives, family members, or even close friends. When there's premature exit of a close friend, one can quickly get depressed because the departure of the innocent friend will keep ringing in our memories.
*At times, there are some families that, they die gradually, for instance; in a single family of a father and a mother including four (4) children. If probably the first born died, few months later the second child kick the ghost. The third child will be very depressed, Because he/she will believe that, the next death will arrive very soon, and it's coming automatically on him/her. The child life will be at risk because he/ she won't be safe at all, and from there, Depression will be achieved and gradually it will seize the victim happiness and then negative thoughts comes in gradually.*
Conflict
Conflict could be another top Reason for depression .Some fell victim of depression because they had **NO** settle home, some homes has been scattered and destroyed by crisis, disagreement between the couple. Husband and wife fighting now and then, has made the house to be an unsafe place for each partner to live. Children in such family will eventually fall victim of Depression because they children knows if they get home, they gonna sleep with Sadness, because seeing our two parents fighting isn't a good thing at all. The happiness of those children in such family will be seized because they don't have a settle home, parents fighting every now and then. In fact, those children will be tired of calling neighbors to help them settle the conflict between them.
Conclusion
In summary, I had just three(3) thoughts of this top Reasons for depression. Y'all should be free from anything that can seize your happiness. Happiness is free for us all. Don't be a sadist!!
"Don't be a victim of Depression!!!"
Thanks for reading my article everyone, thank y'all♥️
Learn a Trade Now! (Panel Beating)
Learn a trade Now at your early age before it's too late! When you learn this now, it will be a source of income afterward!!
Panel Beating
You all might Just be looking the word "***Panel Beating***" as a local word. Some don't even have vivid description of what Panel Beating really means, I'm here to shed more light on that. There is just a Brief description of the word "***Panel Beating"***
Panel Beating is in relation to the body work of a vehicle. An accident vehicle is done by a "***Panel Beater***" and NOT "***Mechanic***" Panel Beating deals with the exterior body work of a motor. When there's a little scratch on a car, it should be taken to a Panel Beating workshop because they are responsible for getting it done. A person who repair the exterior work of a vehicle is called "***A Panel Beater"*** On a normal day, hearing the word " ***Panel Beater***" is self explanatory, which quickly ring our Brain that, it's someone who beats the body of motor into shapes.
In other countries, over the world, they have another name, which is called. Countries like America, Canada, London call them "***Auto body mechanic***" other country like that of Australia, they call them " ***Auto body Technician"*** Panel Beating is a popularly known Work. With a great income. Taking about country which panel beating is mostly recognized, we should give regards to "***Canada***" All they do in Canada is mostly practical works.
Brief Hint which you might not know forever
Most people aside those who are already involved in this panel beating always misinterpret "***Panel Beating"*** for "***Mechanic***"
*When there's exterior damage, it has nothing to do with "****Mechanic****" There are some person's that, if their vehicle should have Accident, all they will say is; "****Take it to the Mechanic"*** *The statement is not correct because mechanic only repair anything which is in relation to the* ***Mechanical aspect like, the engine of a vehicle, shock absorber, low arm, oil filter, fuel pump, injectors, carburator, etc.*** *All these I have listed cannot be attended by a Panel Beater because it not in correlation to their job.*
How Panel Beating can be of Huge Income?
Panel Beating is just when we pull out the damaged body of vehicle. Panel Beater also do more of welding where they use more their Tong to join two or more metals. They can as well do the general "***Dent***" of a vehicle. The term "***Dent***" is used in panel Beating which refers to Rust body part of a vehicle. Welding two metals can be done with the use of "***Tong***"
***Doing this on a daily basis can be of great income to you***
Conclusion
I have been learning this trade for over 7 years to this time. During the time I was still in primary school days. I do follow my dad to work, and it has been of great income to me. That's why you see me writing most of my article at night after getting back from work.
Thanks for reading my article, it's @Offset from Nigeria 🇳🇬
How Painting has modernized the World
***As Technology has modernized the world this days, Art has also gone a long way to help and civilized the world, in more creative ways.***
***Painting!!!***
Regarding to Art, I just want to emphasize more on "***Painting***" than other aspects of Art, being more creative talks more about Art. Science just have little knowledge with the concept of Art. Though I'm a science student, but I get to wonder the usefulness of Art in our environment, community and the nation at large. Painting has become something that looks more creative in our sight, in fact, there are some things that have been done by "***Science***" which they really need the help of Art to make it prosper. "***A Car***" can be a case study, we all know that Cars was established and invented by Science and Technology, through the help of technology, we can be conveyed from one place to the other conveniently and comfortably. A car was made to convey people and goods. Do you know that some individuals bought their own vehicle based on the color the vehicle is painted. After science has finished it work on creating a vehicle, Art then, did the last work on it by doing the painting. If vehicles are not painted! Do you think they can be purchased? They will be purchased, but most people won't have. Interest in it, that's why we will always need the help of Art in the world nowadays, because Art makes things lucrative.
How painting has helped in our various homes
After bricklaying of the our house has been done, plastering of the house is also required before the Painting of the house is done. Interior Painting ought to be done which will attract visitors when they come for visitation in our respective houses.
Exterior painting is as well needed, so that people can easily describe our house. Once your house is painted with full and brightened color, it be easy to identify it, in the community. In fact, people will want to be eager in entering your house.
***How do you think the sales in an hotel will go, when the hotel is left unpainted or untiled? The sales won't increase, the hotel will make little or no sales, Because customers who ought to come there for refreshment, they won't even bother going to the unpainted hotel, because the building isn't enticing the customers. Painting has really helped us so much***
The Beauty of Cars (Painting)
The only beauty something gives to you, is based on how the color of that particular thing seems to be. A well painted car, will want to be used by everyone. People who have cars will always have high huge for other cars that have good colors than theirs. That's how far painting has brought us.
How painting can fetch you Money
There are so many things that are attached to painting.we have so many painting aspect; Painting of houses, painting of cars. We have so many machines that has been invented used to paint cars easily. The use of some materials are needed before painting can be done on a vehicle. We have ***sharp sandpaper, Smooth Sandpaper, light or body filler, Hardener, Tinner, slow Tinner, lacker, writing Brush,*** they all have their uses. If all these are used properly on a vehicle, ***Painting is done!***
*We can actually make money from painting when we have the skill of painting, we can decide to go for house painting, or car painting, others. They all fetch people money*
*When we learn to be creative, and have painting skill, we should work towards making money on it. Those who make designs , and those who draws on the wall fence of a school, they all are making their money low-key*
***Painting has really helped in the community, giving beauty to many things***
Conclusion
To wrap it up, painting has really helped in the economy, leaving the community in beautiful condition.
Thanks for reading my article. BCH lover, BCH to the Moon, it's @Offset from Nigeria 🇳🇬
Discipleship is the Key to Quality Growth (II)
***Discipleship talks more about total subdue and total submission. To be indeed a good Disciple, you must leave your old ways and then affirm with the current thing, you're aiming. Focus, Is as well associated with Discipleship***
***Discipleship in the Institution!***
***Discipleship in a Trade work***
***Spiritual Discipleship***
When we aim and have agreed to be a good disciple, you have to leave your old ways and then affirm with the particular person you are looking up to, I made an instance about two very popular footballers of this days. Where I made mention of *Kylian Mbappe and Cristiano Ronaldo,* and how one was a good disciple to the other, and that has improved the ways and play pattern, or play style of the emulator. The French Man made strick follow-up on Ronaldo. Some as well have Lionel Messi has their own mentor, and has we speak now,they are doing very great and fine, the level at which good discipleship act will bring you, depends on how you will apply it to your own ways. When an apprentice is taking heed to whatever the boss is doing in the workshop, if the boss is doing well, the apprentice will know, and when it's the other way round, the apprentice won't try and make such mistake, because the apprentice will be aware when the boss made the same mistake, so such apprentice won't even give chance to any mistake of that kind to come in.
**Discipleship in the Institution**
When students in the institution, have good conducts and affirm to whatever has been said in the lecture rooms or classes, Discipleship is involved. Note that, in every classes or department, there are always Three(3) best friends. Among those best friends, one must be intelligent or brilliant than the other two, and if probably your are found to be among the other two, you need to possess good discipleship act towards that brilliant one. Regardless, of your age or Gender, try to inculcate, the habit of subduing to other people's feet. If that has been done, the brilliancy will be passed to you.
*I could remember vividly, how good Discipleship act favored my time in secondary School days. We have Four(4) best friends which I'm included to be one out of them. But I'm not the most brilliant, though we all brilliant, but in different subjects. Among the four, we have this wonderful boy named "Nehemiah" Very brilliant he is! He's very brilliant in every aspect, in respect to any subject. Among the four friends, I chose him as my great friend, because I want to gain something from him. Whenever I'm not clear with the explanation of the teacher in class, I will go extra mile, in waking up to him to shed more light on that particular topic were been taught. I totally submitted to his feet, despite was older than he is, in age. And gradually, we came to my favour*
**Discipleship in a Trade work**
When I talk about Discipleship in a Trade work, it only means total subdue or submission. When the apprentice have total submission to the boss in control in workshop. When a boss tells the apprentice to come early to workshop, and the apprentice take heed to the instructions made by his/her boss, then the apprentice will definitely gain somethings afterward, total submission is always needed in anything we do. I might NOT be needed for those who don't look up to someone, like the presidents, they may possess this discipleship act Because they don't have anyone they are looking forward to. But very I say onto you, they must possess it, because, no matter the hierarchy you are in life, you must surely have someone you're looking up to. Some presidents have to possess it, because they are looking forward to other presidents for help, or Imports of goods.
**Spiritual Discipleship**
Spiritual growth can be made, when have vivid description of the Bible. Jesus had so many disciples, and he told all his disciples to Forsake their old ways and follow him. Discipleship in Jesus was very genuine, because the disciples were in good accordance with Jesus. Spiritual Discipleship was first practicalised by Jesus, when he washed the feet of his disciples.
***Peter was a good Disciple of Christ, which always take good adherence to whatever has been said by his Mentor. Christ was walking on water, Peter also wanted to do likewise, which he did, but on the long run, he failed because his faith wasn't enough.***
Conclusion
When I speak about discipleship, i talk about total subdue and total submission to the person your are looking forward to, as well as strick follow-up
*Thanks for reading my article. I'm always delighted when I see more upvotes and comments, it's* @Offset *from Nigeria*🇳🇬
Discipleship is the key to Quality growth
***Discipleship is an antidote to a Quality and vigorous growth in our various lives. Learn to possess good discipleship act because it fosters quality and matured growth.***
***Discipleship in your place of work (Office)***
***Discipleship in your various homes***
***Discipleship in your respective place of worship***
Y'all should know more about this French striker playing for "*Paris Saint German*" as a team in France, named "*Kylian Mbappe"* He's an indigene of France as a country, he inculcated good discipleship act by following the footstep of his Royal Mentor "*Cristiano Ronaldo*" He chose him as his Mentor, because he saw something great and some certain things in him, which made him love him. Kylian Mbappe inculcated good discipleship act, he looked forward to his Mentor for somethings he doesn't know right. He watched his footstep to serve as good lesson to him, so that he can as well use his mistakes to correct his own ways. Mbappe was a good disciple to Roanldo through making him his Mentor, and thereafter, he made it under him, because he posses good discipleship act. That's just the typical description of the title of this article. When we have good discipleship act, we will therefore, make quality growth. This give rise to the main topic.
**Discipleship in your place of work**
In every offices or working place, there must always be the Boss, or the head of that particular place, because everywhere will look disorganized if there's no one controlling the place. For you to attain quality growth in your place of work. You must possess good discipleship act. Absolute loyalty involved, when you take heed to whatever the boss says, and being in a lowly manner always, Being a good disciple to your boss, will make the boss consider you. Note this; always remember that," if you want to be promoted, it will be done in your absence" So that's why you must be a good disciple to your boss (es) . There the boss you are serving is two or more, be a good disciple to them all. Coz if you are good to one and bad to the other, when it's time for your upliftment or promotion in your work, the one you're good to, might intend to lift you up while the second may bring you down, because you didn't possess good discipleship act to the both of them. Good discipleship act really help in the place of work Alot.
Moreso, you need to take note and watch the footstep of your boss, because knowingly or unknowingly you might become the Boss afterward, so people can talk well about you. Take note of your boss step because it will help you NOT to make some mistakes which your boss has done before.
**Discipleship in your various Homes**
When each partners of a family knows the Dos and Donts of the other gender. Disagreement or Divorce won't be allowed in such home. Discipleship in the home just talk about endurance and toleration, where the wife need to ignore the foolishness of the husband, and the husband to ignore the stupidity of the wife. That's Just the beauty of a happy home, what do you think lead to have a happy home? It's all about being a good disciple to each other.
When children of the house knows their parents are in cordial relationship,then the kids will take heed to whatever the two parents says. When the husband tells the wife to do something, and the wife get this stuff done immediately the husband made mention of it. Discipleship in the home is not far fetched, when the husband knows what the wife don't want, and also the wife knowing what the husband frown at! The children will also abide by what the parents says!
Conclusion
Discipleship is when you neglect all things and face what you are after vividly, and taking notes the steps of who you are actually looking up to. Individually, there are some people we are looking up to, and some are looking up to us. Take note of those you are looking up to, and also live a good examplary life to the others looking forward to you!
Thanks for reading my article @Offset you all are making this happy for me, when I realize I'm having much upvotes and comments. It's new week already, unlimited blessings
A Joyous Wedding ceremony!
***It's another remarkable and joyous day in our family, Yesterday was a day we keep remembering that, one of the daughter of the house, has really found a partner to be with, till the rest of her years on planet Earth***
Huge preparation has been made to see the success of this marriage ceremony. Supports has come from various relatives just to make a day special in her life. The bride and the groom has been on a race just to make a celebration about their new journey of marriage.
Marriage!
Marriage is a new beginning of a "***legal relationship"***. There's a clause there, which is the "***Legal relationship***" Legal relationship is when the both Partners are legally okay to get married as husband and wife. Just imagine A man who doesn't have a paying source of income or online investment, in such marriage, "***Divorce***" isn't far from such marriage, because they won't be financially okay or stable. The fact that people are going into marriage, doesn't mean, we should also be haste to go into relationship which, will later be toxic to us, because we haven't prepared adequately. Marriage is just another life lesson which we ought to know the basic rules and regulations of it, before going into it. As a proverb do say "***You can only rush into Marriage, but you cannot rush out"*** That proverb should have said it all. Hence, don't be in haste to go into Marriage. Hence, it will be toxic for you!
Wedding plan!
We bought some drinks which are to distribute for the invitees. Things are very costly now, so we just bought some drinks so that, they can use it to step down the prepared Jollof rice. After buying All these package, we still have some invitees that left without drinking and eating, we say very Big Sorry to them all.
Bride!👰
We all are sited in the church where the Wedding ceremony is going on. The Bride👰 was called upon, which was our own daughter. The program keep going on with lot of laughter. Bride and bride family members went out with her, rejoicing with her, because this day is actually a remarkable one in her life. The best Lady is as well there, keep rejoicing. The best Lady did a lot to the bride. She helped her out on some aspects because, the best have been attending many wedding ceremony, and she knows more better than the bride herself. In some questions where the bride herself can't even give answers to. The best Lady was there for her, hinting her on the right response to give.
I could remember vividly, a question the pastor asked the bride, which she didn't get correctly. The pastor said to the bride, "***What's your Name?***" The bride responded saying her name with the surname of the groom, that is; "***Mrs Jonathan***" Because the name of the groom is Jonathan. The pastor asked her the same question for the second time, she responded with the same Answer. Saying ***Mrs Jonathan***. The pastor then asked the same question for the third time. The best Lady then hinted her to mention her own real name. As in, she should say her own Normal name. Then, she did, then the pastor told her she's correct with the third answer.
*The pastor then explained that, if the groom hasn't inserted the wedding ring into the bride's hand, that means they aren't married yet. But if it was inserted and then, the same question was asked. She can now answer in relation to the surname of the groom. This is a lesson to some ladies here who are yet to get married* @Princessbusayo *,* @Bisolammy *and* @Ellawrites
Bridegroom!
As we were all sited, we are very curious to see the groom. We have been anticipating to see the groom, just to his face, and to know the real man behind our Sis. Boom!!! Here's the Groom. The bride and the groom came out together. That's the beauty of marriage.
***The joy of marriage, is to be fruitful. Baring child brings everlasting joy into the marriage, in conjunction with Love and tolerance***
Conclusion
That's just how the wedding went, and we all are glad, we see the success of the wedding ceremony. All we plead to God is to grant them good fruit of the womb, and make them fruitful.
Thank you all for reading my article. I'm so delighted as you comment and engage
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