Why is there sadness and why are people sad? Can't we just have fun and not feel sad anymore? Sadness is a negative manifestation of joy or happiness. Seems hot and cold. What is the opposite of an attribute is what emerges. Without fun there is sadness. We feel sad depending on the waiting situations. A loved one or pet may have died. Lost or stolen valuables. Failing to pass the exam, not being answered by the person you are dating, not accepting gender in society or your life is just boring. We have a reason to be sad but for these reasons no one wants to be sad. For me, we are sad, that is because we have no strong reason why we are sad. Or we may be so confused about what we should do when we are happy.
It is possible that a person is sad because he thinks that no one loves him or that his loved one has left. In today's world of modernization, especially among young people, I know that "love" is one of the reasons why they are sad. When you really fall in love you can't help but give everything, your 100%. It's okay even if you have nothing left as long as you can show that your love is real. This is just the problem, you were busted or you were cheated because he already loves someone else. All you can do is cry and sulk because you are 100% bokya, there is nothing left for you to love yourself. Here you can think of forgetting him with his memories. Almost everyone will drown in alcohol until drunk. We are used to being treated when alcohol is treated. So just a few shots of alcohol will only last less than a day. And after you are right, go back to normal, go back to the painful memories, Go back to your mumbling.
According to the study, there are five stages to grief before forgetting and before accepting events. The first stage is ANGRY…
You get angry because you can't accept why that happened. Why do you seem to feel that you are the only one who is hurting. Here you will think that in your extreme sadness you want as well as they are sad. You will be rewarded. You will hurt them too. It just depends on your brain whether you will continue or not. Second stage is DO NOT ADMIT ..
Because of what you learned or what happened that made you sad, you do not want to believe them all. You will think of something else just to make it wrong. You just do not want to be frustrated if you cannot get the right pitch so invest in a good capo. Third stage, PALUSOT
You realized that because of the extreme pain and sorrow you went through you had to make excuses so that they would not know that until now you are still affected by what happened. An example is the one you say "I don't really type you." even if the truth is that it can drip. Depression is the longest at this stage.
Because at this stage the three stages come together .. Anger, Don't like us, Thinking excuses. You are confused, you do not know if what is happening around you is still right. You will drown again in alcohol. You are in so much trouble that your tears will suddenly drip and say "I'm not crying, my eyes are just crying." You are really depressed when you say that because it makes no difference. And finally, you will receive what happened. You will regain your former strength because now you are free.
You just have to remember that people really have to go through the pain of losing someone or something before they forget. Those are the five stages of grief. But in this process, women and men are different. Women, trying to forget by finding another man, beautify the outward appearance. Men, they punish themselves, suffer more grief to forget a woman. (This type of guy can only be counted on the fingers.)
These kinds of studies really help us a lot. Is that the importance of balance in the world. It can't be small, it can't be too much. If we do not experience sadness, we cannot say how happy we are. We are sad so we can measure how far and how happy we are. With the sadness left by people who have gone away or things that have disappeared, it will be replaced by the joy of newcomers who will give more color to our fading life.
