Think Of It..

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In a relationship, sometimes there are both of you who don't feel like it anymore. There are both of you who have no strength, there are both of you just waiting to see who will give up and don't want to. In a relationship, sometimes there are those who will criticize and you will fight because of a mistake. You will repeatedly ask yourself, "Does it really love me ?."

You don’t know if it’s right, you also don’t know if it’s wrong. There seems to be no glitter, nothing flashing between you. The one holding the relationship is tired, the other has no appetite. Where do you now want to choose? To let go or stick to it?

They always say that not all the time the relationship shines, not all the time the romance shines. Sometimes, this brilliance disappears, vanishes, comes back and repeats again. You don’t know what’s important, you don’t know what’s right and proper. If you have the patience to understand and comprehend them, you are on the right path where you are not wrong in your decision to choose to handle them.

The others stay even without the spark, not for the reason that they stay because they have no other choice. So they stay because they love the person so much and that person is very important to them, maybe there are things we don't understand like how we handle them in times when they are so hard to handle. Sometimes we are so demanding in the part that we prioritize our emotions rather than just understanding them, that we prioritize the part that hurts us rather than asking them what the problem is.

It is so very important to ask, it is so very important to be understanding. You know he's or she's like that because he's or she's just tired, all of us when we feel tired we choose to keep quiet and not say anything, right? We try to keep it to ourselves and not to say it. So it is very important that before we say a word to the person we love, we first ask if there is a problem.

It is easy to say that someone no longer loves us because of the actions they show, without knowing that they are just tired and they also want a break. Sometimes we become too numb because our emotions prevail over our love for someone. How can you say that you love him ?, if you can even understand him in simple things, you still can't do it.


Final Thoughts

I feel so tired and Idk what to do, my body feels like of giving uo after my work and I want some refreshment. But for some reason, I can't do anything since I need so save up some money hays. I wish I can be active here again like before after my render days

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Comments

Siguro nararamdaman niyo yan bunso dahil sa hectic ng inyung schedule at wala ng time para sa isat isa kaya na feel niyo na parang wala ng love something like that try ka din mag meditate minsan kasi kailangan natin parang recharge ba ganun.

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2 years ago

Oo ate, 15 days malang ako sa work ko, need ko magrender pwra rin sa health ko

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2 years ago

Take some rest if you have time po, And sa relationship dumadaan po tlaga sa ganyang sitwasyon, but maybe you need to have some time and communicate with each other. I've been in a relationship for 10 years, at maraming beses na naming naramdaman yan, but we still choose each other, and I'm so glad that we never choose to leave no matter how painful and how hard it gets being in a relationship sometimes.

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2 years ago

This is the best comment that I've read, some of people choose to giveup and to look someone again na magfufulfil sakanila nung love na gusto nila without realizing na that one is part of adulting, kami rin ate. Sa 1 year and 5months namin, hiling ko sana walang magbago mahit tumagal kami

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2 years ago

Sa relationship wala talagang perfect langga. May mga times talagang ganyan pero kahit ano mangyari wag mag give stay each other parin, understanding and helping each other.

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2 years ago

Yes ate, yan lang yung way oara mas magkaintindihan at magtagal both 💓

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2 years ago

Oo langga. Dapat ganyan langga.

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2 years ago

Relationships are a complicated thing. Don't lose hope and do your best, that's my motto.

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2 years ago

Unwind ka din bhe ung kahit sa park lng na makakahinga ka naman para marelax ka din

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2 years ago

Ganyan talaga sa relasyon. Dumadating talaga yung Ganyan pero always choose each other

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2 years ago

But as long as both will still choose each other then surely everything will be fine. Every relationship experience the feeling of boring days, seems to have no spark anymore.

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2 years ago

Tamaaaa, kahit halos minsan nakang kayo magusao eh when you both love each other, pipiliin nyo parin isa't-isa.

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2 years ago

Every relationship experience the feeling of boring days, seems to have no spark anymore. But as long as both will still choose each other then surely everything will be fine

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