Instead Of Insulting Someone's Mistakes, Correct Them.

Perfectionism, that's what they called to the people who loves noticing the mistakes of others. They also love To judge someone because they do something wrong that doesn't approve them.

What's the example of the Perfectionism person?

• Well, I hope this article can't trigger someone.

  If I triggered you then tell me, because I don't give a care if you're affected or not.

I actually don't know why there's a people who love judging someone or worst, they will gonna embarrassed you in the front of others.

Friendly Reminder: This is a realtalk article, if this makes you feel guilty then I'm sorry. I'll just stating the fact in this article because I know everybody can relate.

Did you get something? If you keep judging or insulting, is there any prize? I hope there's any.

Okay so let's go back, what is the example of perfectionism person? Or people?

• Some of your neighborhood, sometimes we have a neighborhood who is active and always have an idea about what's happening. We have a neighbor who knows that we make some mistake and they will gonna insult us.

One of my example, is my Ex's Oldest sister:

• Yes, you read it right. She always insulting me even if I'm not doing anything, she's an OFW and I have so much respect to her but onetime when I'm calling my ex phone number she answered it and she said that I'm the one who Ruined her sisters life. Lol, she didn't know that I'm the one who was ruined because of her sister lmao.

I know that I make a mistake by choosing her yet it's not right that she insulted me because of what happened. I'm just a child back then! I'm still a kid and I'm still immature, during those time I'm just lacking into something that's why I'm looking for someone who's gonna makes me feel complete...but then it's failed and that thing became a lesson to me.

The Second one is my Auntie

• Some of you knows about my life story because I already said it into my Previous article. So my auntie was very proud of me before, because I'm taking CSS (Computer System Servicing). But actually, I'm not happy because of what I have, I'm not happy because of the things that I have. So instead, I change my course. Into CSS when I'm in SHS, I choose Polsci when I was in 1st year college, after that I dropped out and then choose Busined Ad again. But this time, I totally feel different.

So, I know that I have a mistake by choosing the course that will never make them happy (even my parents), so she insulted me. She told me that I'll get nothing in the future, and I accept it.

So enough into my life story.

We have too many flaws, mistakes that nobody can even explain or tell us why we did choose that, this.

But there's one thing that the people missing always, we make so many mistakes so why you love judging and insulting someone or someone's life when we're just fair? Lol.

I have mistakes, you have mistakes, we have mistakes...so intead of correcting us and instead of cheering someone, why you love bringing them down into their own shoe?

I mean is, yes no people or human is perfect. Me too, I'm not perfect. But even if I'm not perfect, I didn't judge someone and I didn't judge others because of what I see, and what I heard.

If she's having a mistakes to her grammar, then correct her and encourage her to practice more..not to insult them and burst out into laughter.

If someone is pregnant at the young age, then instead of insulting them, correct them. Not at all time you'll gonna say that, "You're too young to be pregnant" (lmao, you too. It's not too late for you to notice yourself first, before others)

If someone is having a hard time into their class, then help them and teach them about what is right. And correct their wrongs so that they can understand more.

Stop bragging out about your medals, or any honor certificate or anything that you gain from the school, not everyone is like you, not everyone can do what you can.

If he/she is having a hard time to understand everything and still do a lot of mistakes, understand them.

Why? Are you only born to Judge and to insult them? Not until there's a reward.

If someone made a mistake, stop telling them to others, stop making up stories, stop making a scene or whatever. Learn to understand everything since you're not perfect also.

I've been in a place where there's too many people that surrounds me but they werr judging me, and I hate it when they do that others. I have so many neighborhood who has the almost same attitude that I'm dealing everyday.

I know that it's not fair enough for others, there's a people who will be shy to go out because they are afraid to encounter every person who loves to judge someone and then insult them afterwards.

So mind your own business and stop minding others 🤧

So instead of insulting someone because of their mistakes, correct them.

Correct them so that they know what are their mistakes are.

Correct them so that they are away of the things that it can lead to the same mistakes again.

Correct them so that they have any idea of what they need to do next.

Correcting someone will not cost anything, but if someone corrected you because of your mistakes, accept it.

9-17-21
By: OfficialGamboaLikeUs