This person chatted me again and I suddenly remember what she did to me years ago HAHAHAHA
Is it easy to understand? Not to judge? Not to think about something? No, understanding is something is what we struggle especially if the story is mess up.
Think about it, why it’s really hard for us to believe someone who shares a life experience? Is it because of the experience or because we all not on the same foot?
The right answer were the last one, right? Because all of us were not on the same foot.
When someone shares their experience, it’s already up to us if we’ll believe it or not. It’s already up to us if we’ll listen to it or not, that’s what the reality is.
because it’s where we try to understand one thing that is far away from the life experiences that we had and it’s making us hard to believe, it’s where we’ll be asking ourself like, “Is her/his story was real? Or it’s just a make-up stories that you can hear everywhere?”
Some life stories were made up, and some are real.
So let me share you one of my life experience where I know someone who struggled making someone believe her story.
I already know her when I was in grade 7, she and me were so close to each other and wherever I go she’s following me. It was already in 3rd grading when I talked to her, I’m not used by talking someone who’s not even part of my family, that’s what I am before heheeh.
So, she always asking me why I love being alone and why I love being in the corner everytime. Actually its pissed me of because I hate it when someone is asking me why I love being alone, I really hate it.
Then one time, she told me a story about her life and I’m not asking for it, after I hear it, I was just like, “Is it real?”, “Why it’s hard to believe?” To myself.
And, that’s where I find out that her story was quite real and none of what said was a lie, that’s where the friendship for the two of us started.
She loves asking me penny during lunch time and I just giving her some because I understand how they were struggling in their everyday life just to have a food in their table. She always telling me that she don’t have any coins/pennies on her wallet and she’ll gonna ask me again so I’ll give her again.
One time, she was crying and I asked her why, she told me that she needs 100php (2$) because she will buy her 1year old brother need like milk, diaper. And ofcourse, because I am a softhearted I gave her 200php (4$) and she smiling so widely.
Months passed nothing change, one of my classmate approached me and said, “Pst, Cherry (not her real name) told everyone that you giving her money even if she had money. She said that she says no whenever you want to give her a money but you insisted. Why are you giving her some when she had that much money?”.
And suddenly I was stunned. I just don’t know how to react, she also asked me why Cherry is crying before and I told them the reason. Then my classmate said, “We asked her why she’s crying and she said that you scolded her because she don’t want to accept your money.”
And that’s where I confront her in front of my classmates about what she did. I’m about to cry but she told me that I deserve it because I am too generous.
But lol, no.
what happened didn’t stop me for being generous. I love being like this so what happened is already a lesson to choose wisely when it comes to friends.
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