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Night life .. dinner I don’t even know what to eat honestly… help!!!!!!!
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It’s a good day for football.. Chelsea lost .. Ronaldo scored some days back .. man United won .. I feel good about football .. and oh we are playing tomorrow
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Nothing to see here .. just a group of young men discussing business.
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Happy 18th birthday to the youngest in my house.. finally Legal.. he is probably taller than I am now .. lol .
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I saw a post about a lecturer that gave out $100 to all his students that came to his class .. I wish lecturer in my school would do the same 😢
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About to get diner .. I am so hungry …
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School has officially resumed.. about to start doing school work..I might not be as active as I want to on here.
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I was too tired to post yesterday.. because of how excited I was.. my team won by 3 and my Ronaldo scored the final goal… it was such an incredible night for me .. Thank you RONALDO.. thank you man United GGmU
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Illuminations I love light .. I love when a place is bright. It’s brings out so much beauty.. i love the idea of heaven. A place filled with light and bright begins…
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Thursday night football man United playing today.. I can’t wait for Ronaldo to score two goals today.
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The football world is a very funny place… it’s so grate to see teams like Barcelona loose triumphantly without excuses… I am super excited 😂😂😂
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Back to school .. urrrghhh I hope this semester is not a dreadful as it’s looking ..😢
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Struggling to come up with a topic for read. Cash but I am sure I will come up with something soon. How is everyone feeling today ? Is this queen’s affecting you in anyway ? Discuss
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Hi everyone I am Levi. I am glad to be here. So thankful that NOISE is back it’s been a while. I want to get to know everyone and connect with everyone. Thank you for the love peace.
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What is insecurity? Everyone feels a little unsure at times. As human beings we constantly think, and some of our thoughts can be over crowded with doubt which can lead to thoughts of insecurity. For relationships however wether plutonic or sexual there are ways we can work through these insecure thought and enjoy a more comfortable relationship or life. What is insecurity or being insecure ? Insecurity is a feeling of inadequacy and uncertainty. It produces anxiety about your goals, relationships, and ability to handle certain situations. Everybody deals with insecurity from time to time. It can appear in all areas of life and come from a variety of causes. It might stem from a traumatic event, patterns of previous experience, social conditioning or local environments such as school, work, or home. **Some common Types of Insecurity** 1.Relationship insecurity This kind of insecurity has to do with relationships or “attachment “- this originated as result of the need to connect to people- the attachment pattern of early childhood and later to relationships in adulthood. Relationship or attachment insecurities don’t need to begin in early childhood. They can arise wherever previous experience or personal insecurity undermines someone’s security in their closest relations, also when one party of the relationship cares less compared to the other part of the relationship. Relationship insecurity can lead to depression,overthinking and lack of trust . 2.Body Image Insecurity One of the most common source of insecurity is body image. Many people feel insecure about the way they look and question whether they measure up to an ideal body which is as result of social pressure or mockery from people around them .There is really no necessary connection between the actual body health or appearance and body insecurity. People of all body types, color,ethnicity or background can experience this type of insecurity. Body insecurity can start from early childhood or early adulthood - this is where social media comes to play, adolescent focus more energy on what they think is the ideal appearance because of what they see on social media there by devaluing themselves and wanting to change a lot about their natural appearance. 3.Job Insecurity Job insecurity happens when you are anxious about your continued employment.It can be triggered by anxiety over your own job performance or anxiety over factors beyond your control. High rate of unemployment in a geographical area can lead to anxiety which will in turn lead to insecurity. Most people feel insecure due to things other people say to them daily or even what they tell theirselves when they look into the mirror,these might include -you are fat -you are stupid -you don’t measure up -you are unattractive -nobody wants you -you will never get anything right -you are such a loser -nothing good will come to you -you don’t know what you are doing -are you sure this would work -you are under too much pressure just quit it’s easier -this is too hard you don’t have to do it just say no -when are you going to fix your life ? And so on ..these are negative thoughts and words and nobody deserves to be told these or to feel this way about themselves. SIGNS OF DEPRESSION Perfectionism This is a term used to describe the ones inability to be satisfied with progress and need to control every factor about a certain thing until they are perfectly perfect. Most perfectionist argue and say they aren’t perfectionist,this is because they don’t realize that they are being perfectionist and when they don’t meet up their aspirations on certain projects they begin to feel inferior and insecure. Low self-esteem One predominant sign of insecurity is low self-esteem, people with low self esteem usually feel like they don’t measure-up and so they often the first ones to talk theirselves down when it comes to doing things or showing up for something that might involve another person’s opinion. cause the measurement of self-esteem generally relies on self-report,People with insecurity often want to appear secure, and their explicit comments may be at odds with their automatic responses to certain stimuli.Deliberate self-misrepresentation on social media can also be a sign of social anxiety. Self-isolation Social insecurity can lead people to isolate themselves to avoid human interaction. Most times these people prefer virtual interactions like online chat applications or calls. Depression Depression is probably the most obvious sign of insecurity. Victims of depression usually feel insecure about everything. It should be noted that all types of insecurity can lead to mental illness and ultimately depression or death. How to try and overcome insecurity 1.Affirm your own values Take record of everything you are doing right ..take inventory of your chances and opportunities,remember the little things you have done for someone else that made them smile and encourage your self chances are you are doing more good and making more progress i life than you actually realize. 2.Take care of your needs Put your body, your mind, your soul and your spirit at top of your list of importance . Nourish your body make sure your mental health is safe. Make sure your body soul and mind is in perfect sync .. a lot of people would recommend yoga and exercise. Do some of that and eat good food, basically just make sure your needs are met before you consider any other person. 3.Embrace your fears and move on from them A wise man once said “ courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to act in the presence of fear “ This just means fear and doubt would always come because we are humans but the only way to champion our thoughts and move away from a place of insecurity is to build up courage and keep moving forward. Trust the process and trust that you are moving in the right direction. Last but not the least 4.Embrace awkwardness There are going to be times when you fumble just try and move on from it. It would make you become comfortable in your own skin maybe slowly but surely If you are ever feeling insecure please say these words of affirmation to your self -I am great -I would do great things -I am not a failure -I would find everything I need -my life would turn out great -I would succeed no matter what comes my way -my success is certain -I am a child of grace -I am attractive -I am beautiful -I am not fat I am built big and bold -I am a spec Thank you for reading and please check up on your friends always I hope this article was helpful ✌🏼
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The Uchenna story - what true determination means So back when I was in basic 3 I had a friend called Uchenna chukuemeka Daniel ..dark tall igbo boy from abia state, real smart, humble and cool .. Uchenna was in basic 3B I was in 3A and we were quite close friends. Apart from the fact that we were kids and from the same ethic tribe, we were both top of our class so we had that in common ..we would would always meet during recess and just talk about tests or class drills or cartoons or toys . It was always fun and we were friends till I graduated basic school. You see Uchenna was my close friend because I admired his determination.. why ? You might want to ask I would share this short story with you So we were in basic 3 when this incident occur .. my school usually gives us a week to prepare our mind and do some revisions with our teachers for better performance during exams . Uchenna and I had already agreed we weren’t going to play football that week. We were going to wait till exams were over before we could play our most loved sport and so we agreed to keep tabs on each other during school hours. Unknown to me that Uchenna was playing football when he got home and kept on doing that till that faithful Sunday afternoon which would be the last day we had to revise as exams were to begin on Monday .. Uchenna’s Mum had left for august meeting and had told him no to step outside or play football but because he felt he had already read to his satisfaction he ignored her warnings and went to play soccer around the street close to his house .. of course they quickly chose him to one of the best team he was quite a skillful player but some minutes into the game he was fouled by an opposing teammates he felt on the concrete block close to the where people sat to watch the match and broke his right arm .. like real life broke .. in fact people were to frightened by how the arm turned that they ran only one elderly man from the area quickly got to uche and just tried to straighten the arm before they rushed him to the hospital. He was in so much pain but they even said he passed out a couple of times but above all he was scared and not just because his mother had warned him but also he knew exams was starting tomorrow What hand was he going to use to write the exams ? Besides he was already in so much pain and discomfort, how was he going to take an exam in that **state.** Anyways uchenna’s Mum called the school on Monday morning to inform them of what had happened . We were all shocked but more than that we felt sorry for him . Me in particular he was my closest friend and I thought for sure his grades were going to drop .. anyways after the day’s exam ended I went to visit him at the hospital not far from our school .. he seemed fine we spoke at length and I tried to encourage him, we laughed and just joked generally I left him feeling better sha and I was sure he was okay .. by Wednesday he was back to school and with the help of our teachers he was able to complete the exams - see he would tell the teacher the answer he wanted to pick and she would pick them for him - uche was grateful that he could finish the exams and above that his mum was proud of him because she said he was always trying to read as much as he could even on his sick bed. He asked that all his note was brought to the hospital so he could revise what we had done in school and I also helped him with some past questions. Truly uche was really determined even tho he was in pain that never stopped him he kept on working hard with me. Sometimes I would fall asleep while we were revising and wake up seeing him still trying to understand some of the maths drill we did in class .. long story short our results came out And yours faithfully was top of class 3A and uchenna surprisingly top of class 3B . His father was so surprised as to how he came through and did his best he bought him a new watch and a bicycle.. at the end of the day it was all good. His determination and hard work paid. You know the popular saying “hard work and determination beats talent “ it is true .. anyways thanks for reading stay safe wear a mask stay determined work hard and pray ✌🏼 peace
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Male grooming tips part 2 **This is just some tips to help the male gender look and feel more attractive - ps wait till tip 5 for the 11th guy story** Hey guys I hope you enjoyed my first article on some helpful male grooming tips . .due to popular demand here is a second part I hope this is helpful too Well let’s get started Wear nice cologne Now most men don’t realize this but nothing is more attractive than a man that smells really nice and wears nice cologne women seriously find that attractive..why?? Because that is the second thing they notice after your physical appearance. Some women even say they prefer a guy that smells nice to a handsome guy because in a way it just goes to show that you take care of you body and that you are a clean man or clean person in General. Wear nice foot wears This might sound cheesy 😂 I know but often times than non women tend to pay attention to what a guy wears on his feet . Generally some neat pair of slides is okay for like an hangout or just a stroll but for dates you might want to bring out the “BIG GUNS” nice shoes black or brown and for gym or regular jugs you might want to get some neat white air force or air Jordan . It really doesn’t matter if the footwear is costly just know how to mix it up like “cocktails “ 😂 Conversations Okay Guys guys we all know these ladies don’t really have much to talk about when they aren’t attracted to you .. how to beat that ? Be that guy that knows how to switch conversations..and when you find it hard to keep up conversations with her compliment her shirt or shoes or something of course confidently -you don’t want her to think you are a simp..which is fine by the way but just don’t be a “simp “.. trust me .. Be sensitive Women tend tend to fall for guys that are just generally sensitive or seem sensitive to them .. I don’t know why I used the word “seem” in that sentence forgive me 😂.. all I am saying is because women are naturally sensitive creatures they tend to move towards guys who understands them and can easily pick up what they are dropping 😂 . I hope you get it !! And for the last tip for today Be a little mysterious You might want to ask what has mystery got to do with any thing . I would give a scenario.. -so they were 10 guys and a lady in a bar and these 10 guys were strongly attracted to this lady of course not just because she was the only opposite gender in the bar but also because she was really attractive.. and so they kept on telling her how attractive they though she was and how they would love to take her out buying her drinks and just admiring her and stuff .. then walked in the 11th guy .. the 11th guy just said hi to her walked away and just went on doing his business or Whatever brought him to the bar .. all of a sudden she just wanted that 11th because why won’t he notice her? Why won’t he tell her how pretty she is ? Like how these other 10 guys have been doing all day .. what’s different about him ? Why is he so mysterious??- And trust me women can go on and on ..anyways I hope this has been helpful ..ladies hit me up in the comment section tell me if There is something I am missing .. thank you all for reading 😎✌🏼 Now most men don’t realize this but nothing is more attractive than a man that smells really nice and wears nice cologne women seriously find that attractive..why?? Because that is the second thing they notice after your physical appearance. Some women even say they prefer a guy that smells nice to a handsome guy because in a way it just goes to show that you take care of you body and that you are a clean man or clean person in General. And trust me women can go on and on ..anyways I hope this has been helpful ..ladies hit me up in the comment section tell me if There is something I am missing .. thank you all for reading 😎✌🏼 special shout-out to @Gaftek @HappyBoy for inspiring me
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What do you think ? **Random thought** Do you ever feel like you aren’t doing enough ? Do you ever feel like everybody has got their life figured out but you ? Do you ever feel like you are yet to find where you belong ? Do you ever wonder what your purpose for being alive might be ? These questions I ask my self all the time What is life really about ? What is the essence of living ? What is the end game ?? When we die where do we go ? Those that have died where are they ? Do they feel pain? Is recantation really a thing?? Is there an after life ?? And so many of us have found satisfying answers or rather answers to certain questions in religion .. which is quite okay but .. okay no “buts” Further more, what is life ? Do we need to find life partners ? Is marriage a must ? Why is it so hard for youths or young people to build honest relationships? Is money everything? Money might just be What do women really want ? How do we hope to raise the future generation? I could go on and on but I really don’t need questions I need answers ..or am I just the only one that think of these things ?? Anyways I just felt the need to put so of these down here . Let’s see what you think ..hit me in the comment sections Arigato ✌🏼
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Male grooming tips **Tips on how to become instantly attractive as a man** Hey there you must have wondered how come certain male figures around you or your friends get a lot of female attention and even though it seem like luck there are ways in which one can improve the way females and even every other person view them .. here are some tips to help you out 1.SPEAK LESS Statistics over the years have shown that females are likely to be more attractive to a man that talks less. This is because he is seen as mysterious and naturally draws their attention. This is a very important tip because more people are likely to listen to you when you speak seeing as you seldom do so 2.BE GOAL DRIVEN If you are goal driven you would have less time to spend with people or women and so if they see that you even give them a minute of your time they would take it seriously .Also women are naturally drawn to goal- driven men because this gives them a sense of responsibility and they would generally view such men as strong , reliable and confident.. 3.WORK OUT AT LEAST 3 TIMES A WEEK Now most people on body empowerment stories or testimonies have come to the conclusion that body positivity doesn’t just affect the physical but also the mental ..this means if you feed your body with positivity energy there by eating healthy or working out or doing both there is a 99% chance that the way you view yourself and other people view you would change .Also working out is also a great way to boost self confidence and physical body positivity along with health and general fitness. 4.FIND YOUR STYLE/ FIND YOURSELF This is probably the most important tip of all . Find out what type of 1.haircut suits you 2.clothes suits your body type 3.energy you want to give off or receive 4.things you are good at A lot of people spend so much time looking at other people trying to copy them wanting to be like them that shouldn’t even be the case , try to study yourself know what works for you for example I am an introvert I know it hard to make new friends so sometimes I just look for something that interests the person I am trying to talk to and just go with the flow . This is the same with my style of clothes I love to wear colorful clothes because they compliment my skin you know .. personally I think everybody should take their time to find out who they really are and just try to become better with what they have . 5.READ SELF IMPROVEMENT BOOKS Women are mostly attracted to a man who is vast in knowledge or who can teach them something new , who is not boring in conversation or who is just generally fun .. gents to build yourself everyday by reading books maybe 1 book every week .. self empowerment books , cash flow books , leadership books or just any book in general that is educative ..you would find that this will improve your spoken and written English And for the most important..drum roll please 😂😂 6.BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT There is a popular saying in the western part of Africa ,Nigeria to be precise “ Omo in this life ,have money unless you go suffer “ which means whatever you do in this life just make sure you are financially independent or else you would experience hardship . It goes without saying that women are 100% attracted to a financially stable man because money equals Power and power equals fame .. so for the most of all try to be financially buoyant this is set you on the path to getting that crush you have or any woman you desire .. thanks for reading peace ✌🏼 stay safe
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Let me introduce myself ❤️ Eisago̱gí̱- Which means introduction in Greek The truth is I have not exactly being a popular person way back from basic school .. through out elementary and even now in tertiary. I am what people might call “the silent person” The name is Levi .. light-skin typical Igbo boy .. lived all my life in Lagos ..I love music , art , movies , and of course I love to make money 😂.. I love to play football too ..my favorite player is Ronaldo ..I love to watch basketball too sometimes ..the idea of projecting a round object like a ball into a net from both far and near distance fascinates me .. You see I am a simple guy ..who loves simple things .. like watching an interesting movie or series in my room with favorite beverage and chips or just going down the street to watch those street guys play 5-aside soccer ..or even hanging out with friends on the weekends and just playing videos games .. I really just look out for the simple pleasures of life Just like every youth my age I am still trying to figure out life .. I am yet to anyways but I am making progress at least ..I believe I am ..so stick with me on this journey let’s make magic !!! Peace ✌🏼
