The joy of being able to do something motivates him to be able to do more, to push, to push forward a little further.
The pain of not being able to do anything, hurts the one who can't, hurts him, makes him feel humiliated. To yourself. And this injury, pain and humiliation numbs him, pulls him backwards. Pushes him back.
This is because of the way we are accustomed to society.
Every man in this society loves himself. He can't stand to see himself lost somewhere or anything to himself. He died in an unspeakable pain. She often wants to escape the pain.
Someone is ashamed to lose.
No one is afraid to lose.
The one who is ashamed to lose, practices more and more so that he loses, so he prepares himself to win.
The one who is afraid of losing, leaves the field and runs away to lose.
In this game of loss-win and in his love for himself, he seeks out and eliminates the cause of his own inability and failure, he is the one who survives and wins on the field.
And he explains his own inadequacies and failures with arrogance instead of the cause, in every game in life, in any work, he loses again and again, he deceives himself again and again.
If you want to study, if you want to go far with education, you have to understand this, first of all.
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It is not a shame or an insult to not be able to do something or to make a mistake once or twice or repeatedly while trying to do something.
Netaji Subhash Chandra Bose said, it is our birthright to make mistakes!
But, the real reason for not being able to or making a mistake is if you don't look for it in the right place or don't find it and correct it, you will make mistakes again and again, you will fail again and again.
And the real reason for not being able to make a mistake is that if you can find the right place and fix it once, you can free yourself from that disability, that mistake, that failure for the rest of your life.
He will never be able to trap you again.
For the rest of your life, you will be able to fly freely in the blue and open sky of that world as you wish, whenever you want.
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Only if you know the answers to two questions can you lift yourself up from your inability.
And, there are two questions:
[1] What is the real reason I can't do this?
[2] Where is the real reason for my inability to do so?
The answer to these two questions is very simple and straightforward.
There are two answers
1] What is the real reason I can't do what I can't do?
- Something of my own "information" or "not-knowing" - what can be done, in fact I do not know.
[2] Where is the real reason for my inability to do so?
- In me, not to mention anything of my own.
That is, the inability to do something that is not known is standing in front of you, you can free yourself from your inadequacies only if you can grasp it and know the unknown.
Or you can do what you want to do, the obstacles to doing it can be overcome.
That's the logic.
That's what math says.
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Let's try to understand this point more clearly with an example here.
Suppose I can't translate into English, I'm trying, I'm fighting, but I'm making a mistake.
Our first question was:
1] What is the real reason I can't do this?
The answer is: I don't know.
But, what is that I don't know?
The answer is - not knowing the method or rules of translation.
But the answer is twofold.
The one who is ashamed to lose will answer - not knowing the method of translation.
The answer to the fear of losing will be - not knowing how to do the translation.
Both will talk about the method, but one will talk about the method of becoming, and the other will talk about the method of doing.
There are two words in English - being, meaning to be, and doing, meaning to do.
You may think in your eyes, what is the difference again?
If you look for translation, the rule of translation becomes bigger and bigger, the rule is translation, you and I don't do it as we wish, we just follow that rule or work according to that rule, translation is you. Becomes.
And if you try to find a way to translate, then your ability-skill-authority grows, the rules fall behind, it seems that the translation is not the rule, my intellect is the real reason by which I am doing this translation.
I mean, someone understands the rules - wants to do something according to the rules. Some people think that it is better to use their intellect than to follow the rules.
And the funny thing is, those who find and study the rules of being or whatever they do, stay ahead in life. They do not find any credit for their success in anything, they just think that it is due to God's infinite mercy, because that is what they feel.
And those who rely on acquiring the skills to do, they give credit to themselves for going to something, losing something, winning, blaming someone else or something else for losing. No role of God in this Harjit comes to their senses.
(And that is why the wise are humble and the foolish are arrogant.)
There is no point in discussing this here anymore, when you grow up and read the Gita, you will find a word there, the matter will become clearer to you -
Mother Faleshu rarely has the right to work. Sangohastvakarmani in mother karmaphalaheturbhurma. 2-47
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Talking about not being able to translate English.
As we have discussed before, we do not know the rule that leads to the translation of English. So we failed to do the translation in English.
So now it's our job to discover what that is and to bring it about.
Where do I get the rules?
Who do I go to to find the rules?
I will go inside myself, that is, to myself, to find those unknown rules.
Still, let's see if we can find it somewhere outside.
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I went to my father and told him, "Dad, I can't translate, don't tell me what to do."
Dad replied, read the English with a little more mind, then you can! (Dad didn't teach me what to do!)
To go to the mother, the mother said, do not sleep until 6 in the morning, get up in the morning and read a little more English!
Sir said, read the English text carefully. (No one talks about what it means to read carefully, what it means to read carefully!)
The tuition teacher said, "Now pass the pass by ratta, think about it after the annual examination."
My aunt's son, who is now studying engineering in Bangalore, said, "I've learned English after watching a Harry Potter movie!"
You idiot!
If you have heard so many! Tell me, did anyone hear you at all?
If you want water, because you are thirsty, did someone look for you in milk, someone gave you Pepsi, someone gave you whey?
Which will be your real job?
Which one will you listen to then?
How much will he obey?
The Himalayas of opinion may have been erected by gathering various opinions of Nana Muni, but.
Doesn't the mind then say that the ashes, leave these happy, will not be by me, these are not for me?
Can the mind really be blamed then?
So I was saying, there is no point in going out to Bhat, tell your mind - let's go, mind, let's jump inside and drown and find the solution from within ourselves, besides, this time there is no other way….
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I can't do the translation. There are a lot of opinions on what you need to learn or know if you want to be able to translate or to translate well.
So there is no need for God.
By myself now I see if there is a point in doing this translation?
There are only two things!
[1] English words should be substituted for Bengali words.
[2] In any sentence of Bengali, where the words of Bengali sit in that sentence, the sentences formed in the English translation of the same sentence do not sit in the same place in the same way.
So, the problem is that I don't know the English word for the Bengali word (one I don't know now, it's better not to say it for the sake of Google presence, but let's say I don't have the habit of finding the English word for the Bengali word), and two, the words I have not yet mastered when to sit somewhere in the English sentence.
In English - one, stock of words and two, placement of words.
And I don't have enough knowledge of these two, so it is not possible for me to translate so accurately!
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This is not a discussion of teaching English translation. So we will not go any further in the national way of the easy way of English translation.
This will be discussed in detail later in another question.
I raised the issue because I wanted to convey to you that no matter how stupid or useless someone thinks you are, you are not really that stupid or useless - what is the root cause of any of your problems, you can find out by yourself and think a little.
This task was a little difficult in our childhood, you have Google, in our time we did not have Google in our hands!
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As I said at the beginning, the joy of being able to do something motivates him to be able to do more, to push, to push forward a little further.
You can teach yourself by finding the cause of your problem, by knowing the way to solve it.
You are a student, when you are stuck in something, you are failing, you can teach yourself without crying, without losing enthusiasm, by becoming your own teacher.
It doesn't take much intelligence to be this teacher, you just have to know the techniques of using Google.
The joy of being your own teacher, of learning something by yourself, of doing or being able to do something on your own, that joy is the real strength, which makes a student study a lot, gives great results.
What you can't do today is not a big deal. If you start using this power, no one will ever be able to stop you.
Be a student, but make yourself a teacher of that student, and leave Google as the secretary of that teacher, then you will see the living answer to your question, in the palm of your hand.
I know you can study, you can do well. There is no but-but....