My Early Morning Realization

If you constantly help a person every time he made a mistake, how can he learn? As what the Bible says "Open rebuke is better than secret love." Helping a person get back on his feet after he made a mistake is definitely a godly thing to do. But what if that person made it a habit to ignore warnings and advices? Is it therefore your fault now if you no longer wish to extend a hand? Are you to be blamed for that person's misfortune? It is always good to helps others. This is concrete. However, asking for help should not be a demand but a humble plea.