April 27, 2022

I was thinking today what's the best thing to do since I don't have anything to do. I found out that I neglect to check ✔️ my own status. Hey, what's up self. Hope you're okay right now. This is not pertaining to myself but also to everyone. It seems that we didn't give enough leisure time to ourselves due to so many works. But let me emphasis this statement "never neglect yourself". Can you promise that?

Self care / parents

I don't know but my time wasn't enough to cope with things that can make myself happy. Do you still have time to take glance on mirror and ask what is my shortcomings to myself? I know many parents are performing in this platform. Probably, you are busy in life. Taking care of your little infant and siblings.

You are getting fatso due to lack of conscious about diet. Well, for you physical figure doesn't matter at all. You give prioritize to your son and daughter. You give outmost love. I think didn't have enough sleep time. It's because you watch your baby. That's the parent's duty. It's hard as I observed many parents neglected their self. There are some individuals who can manage their time. Well, it just happened when parents still have one sibling.

Still hoping

I'm still hoping that I can find a decent job cause that is the thing that can help me and my family. Infact when we have a job we tend to care for ourselves cause we have something to buy. You know what if we have monthly wages we seems to buy our favorite food and other stuff that will maintain our beauty. We can buy lipstick, beauty products, and food we want. I think we are confident enough when we have something to receive.

Things to remember

Don't blame yourself if ever you've ceased to obtain your goals. Anyways life isn't a race. There is a perfect time for a perfect moment. And that's the thing that I'm gripping of. Don't forget you goals in life. One day you'll reach you goal.

Write you goals in you mind. It is effective way to remember all our goals. Sacrifices and endeavor are must cause you can't reach a certain goal without sacrifices and endeavor. Let me emphasis you. You sacrifices time, instead of making leisure time with friends you choose not to engage with pleasure. You choose to do steps towards you goal.

Pray for yourself, company and family. If you believe there's a supreme being that holds our fate, you'll probably pray for everybody's goodness. It is us who dictate our fate because we are given freedom to choose what we do. I'm that case we need to strive for a perfection of ourselves. I'm not saying you need to be a perfectionist instead try our best to do a certain things. Don't pressure yourself cause we are human beings. We commit mistakes and failures.

Final thoughts

Take care of yourself. Don't blame if you've failures. It is just part of life. We shouldn't indulge such negative thoughts towards ourselves. Sometimes I always observed that since people want to punish there selves. Check your status if it's getting worst probably you need to take actions for that. In my case I have learned that neglecting ourselves isn't good. It's because it is ourself who can help. We are the own driver of our journey in life. Take time to relax for yourself. It's part also of life, that is why the concept of vacation exist. Hehe, learn to be happy and make fun with other people. Learn to balance our life. We engage pleasure and we endure pain. That's life, it's inevitable.