They say to make your needs priorities are most important rather than your wants, but maybe it is not cruel to have a present to yourself for having hard work and dedication to the family's necessities right?

Hello, friendships good day. I wake up in the middle of the night and cannot go back to sleep, why oh why. So I tried to compose an article about his new phone that turns to be mine but I'm not happy with it.

A little recapitulation, I write an article about The Responsible Father and his Pastime, and I mentioned there that my partner kept on bugging me to buy him a new phone for his joystick remote control thingy for his game, and since it's Christmas and I'm tired of his repeated requests so I purchased him in one of the tested stores here in our town cause they allow costumers to pay installments if you are qualified. It happened that the agent there is a friend of a friend so he tries his remote control to his phone cause the agent got that phone too, and he told me it's okay and it's fitting for his games so we purchased it with the half payments and the other half would be installment.

He got Realme 8 because the one that he likes is out of stocks that Realme 8 Pro and it contains a snapdragon gaming processor and this realme8 is only Helio G95 but he told me it's okay and it is still a gaming processor.

When we arrived home he got to work so he doesn't yet try his phone in games, he needs to impress me cause I grant his wish so he needs to work and our agreement is at the moment he got a new one I'm the new owner of his last phone which is the Vivo, and before he goes to his work he told me to pack my things at my old phone and transfer it to his, but I didn't do a single move cause even my phone is senior and has a short ram and rom, it is dear to me that I don't want it to dispose of, but not disposed it to junk cause I want to give it to my mom.

The night has come and his pastime comes, of course, he doesn't do anything but his focussing only on his new phone that even I am talking to him he seems not to hear it, yay! 😂 and he started gaming and I go to sleep early. When morning comes he seems to have a hangover and I tease him that because of his phone and yet he doesn't speak a single word, I then ignore him. Later he approached me if I am using his old phone already, and I told him not yet and why?

That's the time he told me that I am the one to use the new phone cause his games and gamepad do not suit it. Like what? Of course, I got angry 😡 cause he forced me to have it, and my little amount of savings intended for the health of my babies are diminished because of it, and yet he doesn't like it, after all, it's his choice?

I felt so mad yet, so sad not just I don't like the phone but it's a waste of money, my old one is bearable and even it disappoints me sometimes but I still treasured it cause it is still usable.

So now I am using my new phone, it's so smooth and good things I learned my lesson to jot down the phrase so I imported my wallet right away.

Closing opinions

Every one of us has different likes, as for me in choosing gadgets like cellphones I don't know how to pick for myself, I'm only depending on my partner cause he knows about it.

But we should also be observant and aware of our family needs for we are the one who suffers from whatever problems that come our way, the amount that is intended for that particular thing should not be diverted into another not so important stuff for we are the one who sustains and recovers it.

Thank you for reading guys I know I have many flaws in the writing, but I'm trying my very best.

Hi @Bloghound and @MizLhaine

Advance happy new year.☺😘