Secret Chat: An Affair in the Making

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Can we consider chatting as a cheating? If you'll add the word 'secret' to chatting, then you're one way step forward to cheating.

What is cheating?

In general, cheating is an act of doing something illegal. Anything that is against the rule to gain an advantage on your part. A violation. It can be at school, work, household chores, relationships.

There is numerous definition of cheating depending on the topic involved. For today, I will be focusing on the most debated subject, cheating in school LOL cheating in a relationship, infidelity.

Infidelity

Do you remember when was the last time you cheat on your partner? Can't recall anything? How about the last time you've been a victim of cheating?

Cheating in a relationship or infidelity is being unfaithful to your partner whether it is emotional, physical, or mental. If you think that having a third party is the only means of infidelity then you are wrong. To be honest, there are more than one way you can consider that your partner is cheating on you.

Types of Affair

Physical Cheating. The most obvious form of cheating. It involves kissing, holding hands, hugging, having sex with someone who is not your partner. Going intimate with anyone that is not your partner. The key words are, "not your partner".

Material Affair. Are you always holding your phones, tablets, or PSP? You might wanna consider putting them down even for a short time especially if you are with your partner. A third party is not always a human, sometimes it can be your cellphone, favorite gadget, book, or even your work.

Flirting. You can always have a crush on anyone but when you start doing things so he/she recognizes you then you are already cheating. Also, fantasizing someone who is not your partner is a no-no.

Emotional Cheating. Arguments are always present in any kind of relationship. But if you choose to start narrating your story to just one exclusive person and you keep on venting your frustrations and even happy moments with that person and not to your partner, then that's it! Learn to know the boundaries of being a friend and a too close friend.

Anything Secret. If you are starting to hide some text messages or delete some chats and call history, then you are already cheating. Keeping secrets from your partner is sometimes healthy if you are wanting to give him or her a good surprise. But if you are keeping secrets to hide a thing or someone, then that is not a healthy secret.

Each relationship is consists of not only love but with more respect and trust with each other. If things seem not okay, it is good to take a pause and reflect. Before you seek answers outside, calm down and talk with your partner. Anything can be resolved thru a nice and peaceful talk.

Misunderstandings are inevitable but they should not become a reason for a broken relationship. Keep the communication open and make time to have quality time with your partner.

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My Thoughts

For whatever reason you may have, cheating is cheating. If you are not happy with your partner, please do the effort to talk with him or her. I know it is hard but it is always better to hurt anyone with the truth than pretend happy and lie.

Disclaimer: I am not a professional just sharing my insights about the topic stated above.


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I didn't chest with my past flirtationships before. The last one felt that I did even if I was very much open to my whereabouts. But still he felt that I was cheating on a lawyer. Turns out that he was just afraid of his own ghosts. I already know that he was a playboy but ayun sabi ni heart mahal niya kaya inaway si brain. Hahaha.

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2 years ago

Sometimes people reason out why they cheat, but it is just absurd to do so when you are in a relationship :)

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2 years ago

Totoo sis. Walang sapat na dahilan para manloko ka ng tao.

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2 years ago

Not related to your article but I'm glad to find that you are a writer here Mrs. Pepper ❤️

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2 years ago

Hello, Sydney2! Nice to see you here!

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2 years ago

Being in a long-distance relationship there are some instances, that I admit when we have some misunderstanding with my partner I need someone to comfort me but then I realized that it is not a good idea of what's in my mind since we both agreed on this situation better we face the consequences that whatever misunderstanding we have cheating is not an option, because I strongly believe that in a relationship if one of you cheated it would never be same again if the trust is broken.

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2 years ago

I admire those lovers in a LDR. I know it's hard. I admire you for your honesty, Cleophia2. Glad that you realize it soon. Hoping for the success of your relationship!

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