@Moyjador 7 May 2021 more from that month

It is something very true. AND ... FOR WHAT DO YOU WANT A PARTNER ..? "An older man ... like me, like you, with his life in the final stretch ... Why-why-does he want a partner ..? Well, this reminds me of a man who used to frequent a bar, being he a teetotaler. So he asked for mineral water with ice. Why do you come to the Cantina, if you don't drink alcohol? - they asked him. - A Bar has much more to offer than just alcohol. Alcohol is just a social lubricant.- - -he answered. And all this, because sexual life between older people does not have the same importance as between a young couple. What if. Thinking that sex is the only reason to get married is the same as thinking that going to the bar is just to get drunk. In fact, even in young couples divorce occurs, despite having daily sex. And it is that only a few minutes of the day are dedicated to that pleasure. And ... The rest of the day is spent in "being a couple" ... And if as a couple they do not get on, sex is not enough to keep them together. And despite being married, "they feel lonely." And those who do not have a partner, feel lonely also when in truth they are not: They have children and grandchildren who adore them. The feeling of loneliness is bad company ... It accompanies you, but it does not help you. Seeking in another the solution to the feeling of loneliness is a false way out, because loneliness is a very, very bad counselor. It is very ugly to feel alone because there is no one by your side ... But it is scary that being someone by your side ... And still you feel alone. So ... Why find a partner ..? Because a life partner is not only a sexual complement. Our need goes beyond the visible and the sensible. It's finding someone to go for a walk with at a new pace. Learn to walk at the rhythm of the other. Getting used to a new hand, and the warmth and moisture of other lips ... See the sunrise with the light of feminine eyes ... Enjoy an inconsequential talk tailored to you. Someone to slowly sip Morning Tea with. Someone with whom to sit and contemplate the sunset of each day, whom to understand between the lines ... That lateral and complicit language that we lovers have, and that nobody understands, even being among the people: That when he tells me "I'm cold" ... I understand. "_hug me ". And when I say to her, "Here, cover yourself," she knows that in reality, I say "I love you." And if we decide to be quiet ... Even in silence, we can hear the same melody ... "