@Moyjador 22 January 2022

THE SON WHO COST MORE When you are a mother of more than one child, there is one that costs more. He is the one who answers you, the one who challenges you, the one who "turns you on", the one who makes you read all the help books, why you take therapy sessions, why you listen to podcasts, videos, audios. That is the son that costs more. And it costs more because it is the one that most resembles us, it is the one that projects what we have not yet seen in ourselves, it is the one that reminds us of who we are, it is the one that reflects to us that we are not yet the best version of ourselves. . This son needs more love and more attention than you can imagine, he is the one who needs more control even though he begs you with his attitude that he needs to be alone, he is the one who needs a mother present because he still cannot control himself . So even if you sometimes feel like you can't handle him, hold him tight, you'll see that he won't move. Even if you feel like you want to explode at something he says to you, turn around and say, "I love you the way you are," and you'll notice his face relax. Even if you want to yell at him that it's not there, that's not the way, for the better he takes his hand and guides him to where you think is most convenient. Even if you want to lose your patience, don't do it because every act of rebellion is a desperate cry from your son for you to turn around to see him, teach him that he doesn't have to do it that way, that it's enough for him to tell you what he needs, always tell him " I'm here”, “I'm still here”, “I listen to you”, “tell me what you need”, “I'm always here”. And even if you don't know how, take it for granted that everything will turn out well, because the only thing your child needs is your presence, your time and your gaze. That son who costs more, is the least strong and the one who needs you the most, is the one who does not know where, he is the one who chose you as a mother because he knew from before birth, that you could always guide his steps. .