The Pain Lasts a Lifetime.

Parents have different kinds of discipline. There are parents who discipline their child(ren) violently and there are also parents who discipline their child(ren) in a calm way, which refers talking to the child. I know that there are some writer's here who are a mother or a father to their child(ren). I didn't questioned you on how you disciplined your child, instead I admired you on how you care to them and disciplined them in a well mannered. But, in this article I just want to give some poin of views of mine. This js just only my own perceptions and I know we all have different perceptions. I do respect yours and I hope you will also reciprocate my respect.

Here is a list of things you need to teach your Child(ren) at early age:

1. Warn your child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including uncles.

Even our families, relatives and friendships can abuse your child in a way that you didn't knew. I have read so many documentaries on children that has been molested by their own family. Always remember that temptation is everywhere. Always check your child and teach them to open up things on you. Remember you are the parents and you're the only one who can teach and check them.

1. Avoid Getting Dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2 years old. Learn to excuse them or yourself.

Teach your child to have a good manner, specially if they are only babies. They should be teach what is good and what is right, most of all what is proper. Don't let your child ignorant on the things that he is discovering, instead teach him/her on how to be proper.

1. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband.

Always be watchful on your child, teach them not to talk to strangers. Inform them that who is their parents, mother and father.

1. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

Always be mindful to your child's friends, especially we are in a modern world right now. Where watching porn and unproper videos is normal. Don't let your child engaged in that kind of sinful manner. Always teach them what is right and slowly make them open minded.

1. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

You are the parents of your own child and you are the one oblige to know who are the people that has been with to your child.

1. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

Parents, Don't be so busy with your works and jobs. Always find time to check your own child.

1. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values of sex. If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values.

Your the one to teach and discipline your child on sexual things. Don't let the society teach them, especially they are child they surely have curiousity.

1. It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.

2. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often.

1. Teach your 3 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that includes you.

1. Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

1. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd.

1. Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it.

1. Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, we are either parents or parents-to-be. ‏and remember "THE PAIN LASTS A LIFETIME". And possible forward to all friends who have or will have children.

Thank You For Reading!

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