Maturity
When I was younger, I believed that maturity was linked to age. The passage of time, on the other hand, does not indicate how much inward effort a person has done. As a result, we frequently discover more maturity in children than in many adults.
Maturity is sometimes misunderstood. Someone who, for example, prefers to stay at home rather than go out, or who takes their work aspirations more seriously than most, can be termed mature. However, if they lack some of the following, they may appear reactive rather than responsive in difficult situations, resulting in immaturity in the eyes of some:
Self-awareness
Responsibility & accountability
Patience
Kindness
Discipline
Commitment
Integrity
Empathy & compassion
Clear communication
Social skills
A lack of emotional response means you'll lose control and make harmful decisions that aren't in line with your innermost beliefs and goals for the world. We mishandle people and situations when we can't control our emotional reactions. With that said, self-control is essential.
Learning new reactions and unlearning patterns, habits, and behaviors that are harmful to yourself and others can help you mature. Self-awareness is at the center of this pedagogical revolution. Things you haven't actively observed and acknowledged as problematic can't be changed. Meditation and journaling have been quite beneficial to me.
The fact that you've reached adulthood does not imply that you've reached maturity. Regardless of emotional outbursts, if you have prioritized and dedicated to your serenity and happiness, you are probably more mature than you believe. We often mistake adulthood for the polar opposite of a child's attitude and lifestyle, but nourishing and fueling your inner child is an essential component of emotional healing in order to maintain serenity and pleasure.
Signs that maturity already hits you.
On a Friday night, you'd prefer sleep than attend to a party. You already have a need for sleep. Gone are the days when you didn't get enough rest.
You've figured out how to deal with your issues. You feel this guilt about not ranting or talking about your problems on social media.
Your bills are now your responsibility. You don't expect your parents to foot the bill for your purchases. Adulthood hits you like a ton of bricks.
You are no longer willing to settle for a short-term connection. In love, you take your time. If you're going to fall in love again, you want it to last. There will be no more games!
You give individuals the option to leave your life if they so desire. Relationships and friendships are no longer forced. You have a knack for doing things your own way!
You don't make comparisons with other people's lives. You recognize that you have challenges and must embark on a different path.
You've gotten more guarded in your speech. You've become more aware of other people's emotions.
Your life's challenges are well-known to you. You are not prone to overreacting to situations. You understand that there are some things that aren't worth wasting your time on.
You don't give a damn what other people think of you. You are aware that some individuals will dislike you at some point in the future. You don't let other people's opinions define who you are. You are the only one who truly understands yourself.
You have a strong sense of self-love. You take care of yourself. You put yourself first. You take care of yourself because you realize no one else would. Self-acceptance has been long overdue.
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Nararamdaman ko na nagmatured ako kasi nabanggit sa mga nilist mo kung matured kana. Pero share ko lang, I have a friend na super matured na kahit 16 years old palang kaya wala talaga sa edad yan, nasa perspective ng buhay natin o kung paano tayo humarap ng situation.