@Moina59 6 June 2021 more from that month

The person you can hug and cry without hesitation is actually the person closest to you. You rely on the person who can keep an eye on you and tell you all the things that are going on in your chest without any inertia. Sometimes you will notice that there is a huge mountain of pain inside the chest, but not a single drop of water is coming to the eyes, the inside is getting agitated, but there is centuries-old silence all over the face. Why is that? A faithful chest to cry on and a pair of simple eyes to speak with an open mind can be found in nothing. Because we can't find such a person, day after day we keep large stones of misery in our chests and swear around. As those stones accumulate, they gradually form a hill. I can be seen, but the inner mountain, much higher than me, can no longer be seen. Because we cannot see, we do not know who is dead and who is alive. There is no need to hold back or keep the pain in check. The more these two things are pressed, the more terrible the pain inside. If you can get away with arguing with someone, it is better to do so. Yes, in this life there is a person on whom all the anger and sorrow of the mind can be thrown away. If you have a loving person with whom you cannot happily quarrel, I would say, it seems you are doing something wrong; That man doesn't like you on the bus! Life needs a chest that can be filled with tears at will. There are two eyes in this life that can lighten oneself by looking into the eyes and saying everything. The one with whom you do not have to act, the one with whom you can match yourself without hesitation, is called a loved one; The rest is just necessary or unnecessary. Sometimes, we ourselves do not understand exactly who is the closest person to us, which book is the book of our absolute dependence. then begins to feel helpless and failed. Who has everything, but there is not a single person who cries loudly, he has nothing. He is the poorest man in the world! If you've ever found someone close to you who can hug and cry, suppose you've found the closest person to your life. From that day on, there is a man in your life who can be trusted, who can put the burden of your life on his shoulders and rely on himself like a shepherd. Don't let that person lose in exchange for anything. Never! Whether he is a friend, boyfriend or girlfriend, mother-father, brother-sister, --- keep him close. So if you have to deal with something, do it. If you have to have a relationship to keep yourself well, that relationship is undefined or nameless, that's fine too! Recovery is more important than recognition. Those who can't keep you well don't care what they say. The most valuable asset in the world is one's well-being. You can live well with someone who can't or won't keep you well, but it's best not to decide to stay with him or her for the rest of your life. It is happier and more comfortable to be with people you love than to be with people you love.