@Moina59 31 August 2021 more from that month

Today I went to Jessore for a special reason. On the way, a scene of a child marriage caught my eye and which is still stuck in my eyes like an arrow. I saw a 14- or 15-year-old girl sitting in the car dressed as a new bride. Even though the car passed me at the moment, it could not pass my sight. As soon as I saw the scene, I remembered my own position in this superstitious society in the name of socialism. In that society, when the girl is a little older, the pot is seen for her. Since I live in a society like this, it could have been the same for me, but it didn't! If you ask why not? Then I will say, I have settled before my parents always wanted. I establish myself in the society and I wanted to give a fulfillment to the dreams that do not allow me to sleep at night. To create an identity of your own, to change yourself! "Be mine." .That "I" will be very different from the five, quite different from the others! That by his skill he will be able to change this social system. Of course I know that it is not possible for one person to change the whole social system. .For this, our daughters must be educated against all prejudices and stand with their heads held high. That is why you need to be educated in the right way first! So I will not call those who got married before settling down evil. I always respect them. But most of the marriages in our society take place due to the conspiracy of relatives and unreasonable inconsistency of parents. Alhamdulillah my parents are very supportive! They always inspire me. One thing to keep in mind, No matter how much your relatives pressure you to get married, you will always value your own and your parents' decisions. Remember, if parents are supportive, no one can stop you from achieving your goals except Allah alone. And when there is good will in oneself, with the blessings of parents, then Allah does not prevent anyone from achieving his goal! so keep smiling and growing like a pro! 3