Chelle is Pregnant: The Father runaway

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3 months ago, I wrote the article A time to let go and I shared about letting go of Chelle as our working student because she said that her uncle will be helping her to finish her studies. I let her go with high hopes that her life will be better there in General Santos.

Before she went to General Santos, she stayed in their place for 1 month and half. I also mentioned in my previous article that she has a boyfriend and within those days they were always together as some of their neighbors say. Last August 14, she travelled to General Santos, she enrolled herself for senior highschool too. By the end of the month, she became sick, she was vomiting and was ill. When they had check-up, the doctor said it was ulcer. In the middle September, I had known that she was escorted and sent back home to their place.

I chatted her that if she would like to continue her studies I am very willing to let her continue her schooling here in our place. She said, she was not yet ok.

Just yesterday, we went to Cabuaya, rumors from the many "Marites" there that Chelle was actually pregnant and the father runaway 2 months ago. She was left into shame and there is somebody who is willing to marry her despite her situation. And her parents agreed about it.

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I went to their house to visit her, I did not ask questions about her pregnancy but ask her instead if she will be getting married - she did not gave me an exact reply. I can see in her face that she is sad, so pale. So different with the Chelle that lived with us for 1 year and 7 months ago.

I was so heavy hearted, I was not able to talk to her for a long time because I am with my kids and they would like to go home. I was sad, if only I know that this will happen I did not allow her to go home last June 30, 2022.

I communicated with her earlier and she said that she is the one to blamed, because she did not listed to some advices. Before this happened, I was really reminding her not to engage in such an act because she was still young, she's only 17. Yes, she maybe wrong but I am also considering the guy, the guy is older than her who might take advantage of her vulnerability. Her parents too who became so complaisant with her who always have company with the guy. Now, her parents is allowing another guy to take the responsibility.

Now, she's posting suicidal thoughts. I chatted her that whatever happens do not resort to doing bad thing to oneself. This will come to pass. What makes it more difficult to move on is that she is the talk of their barrio. Everybody knows her story. Many said, if only she was not pulled out from our house, this could not happen. But, we could not longer do anything about it now, what I feared happened and all I can do is pray for her and encourage her to continue life.

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11.1.2022

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Halaaa! Basing on what you've shared, maybe she's having a depression, Ate. She badly needed some serious talks din like sa mga tao na alam n'yang tutulunga talaga s'ya lalo na in mental & emotional aspects. Hopefully, she could get through with this situation anytime soon. Hirap pa naman ng situation n'ya ~ then here comes pa 'yung mga tao na puro chismis at judgements lang ang ambag. :'(

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1 year ago

Yes agree, she really need someone to talk na makakabigay sa kanya ng support. Sana may kaibigan talaga na tunay at pamilya na totoong makikiramay.

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1 year ago

And maybe, they could report those Marites din, Ate. Like what Ate Ruffa had said, isa sila sa factor na mas nakakapag-palala ng situation. If it continues, kawawa sila 'nung bata. Huhu

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1 year ago

Ouch, so much thing for sure was in her head. I actually don't know how to comfort people having the same issues, so I give it to you ladies. This is sad, knowing she was so young, but doesn't mean it will be like that forever, suicidal thoughts on Facebook are over in shared posts, I also hate to see some people do that. I prayed for her emotional healing, also the baby unborn could also be pale as she was so sad.

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1 year ago

Thanks for the concern and I am very happy na you were able to share some of your thoughts. I agree her baby must also be sad because she is sad. I am praying that she will really be ok and not to be drowned in her depression.

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1 year ago

Ang nagpapalala siguro ng sitwasyon is those Marites out there. Nagkaka anxiety na siguro ang bata kaya may suicide thoughts na. Sana naman ee may isang tao na gumagabaynsa kanya. Mali ang nagawa nya yes pero set aside na muna siguro yan and support here. Moral support ba ganon, kahit sana yung mga fam na nakapaligid sa kanya. Mahirap na at baka talaga maisipan nya na gawain, aigoooo, buhay. I hope magpaka tatag sya, wag na muna mag iisip ng kung ano ano.

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1 year ago

Yes yong mga Marites talaga, she is the talk of the barrio. Sa tulong ng Diyos malalampasan nya to. Thanks for your thoughts, until now bothered ako sa kanya.

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1 year ago

Sana naman kasi no nilalagay sa lugar ang pagiging marites. Hindi yang, ganyan, napaka insensitive pa naman nong iba.

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1 year ago

Nalungkot ako habang binabasa mizlhaine. Naalala ko pa yung mga articles mo noon tungkol sa kanya mizlhaine. Need niya ng kausap mizlhaine para ma divert yung mind niya sa ibang bagay. Dapat may mag comfort at mag guide sa kanya mizlhaine.

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1 year ago

Yes I have high hopes talaga kay Chelle pero yon nga may mga events na nangyari kaya hindi na nya yon magagawa, maliban nalng kung susuportahan sya to go back to schooling. Sana nga maalalayan sya ng family nya at mga tunay na kaibigan.

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1 year ago

Aw, hugs for her. Buti anjan k para makausap sya.

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1 year ago

Thanks, yes, kailangan talaga nya ng kausap!

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1 year ago

She need someone to talk to. Baka pwede mong kausapin parents niya sis Para mabantayan siya kasi my thoughts na siya of taking her own life. I know it's not easy for her pinagdaanan ko rin yan 17 din ako nabuntis at di rin pinagutan yung pinagbubuntis ko worst pa gusto pang ipa abort ng ama ng anak ko yung baby namin Anyway I am makakayanan niya yan if mgtiwala Lang siya sa plan ni God. I hope her family will always be there to support her emotionally. Ngayon talaga niya need ng support system.

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1 year ago

Thanks sa advice mo Sis. I agree, she needs her family and friends to talk to her in a right manner. Kaya pla relate ka kasi napag daanan mo din, sana nga she will be stronger and she will choose what's right.

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1 year ago

Walang anuman sis. Di rin madali for her Lalo sa panahon natin ngayon na marites is everywhere and madaling ikalat ang chicka through social media. Sa kapanahonan ko kasi wala pang uso ang social media at malayo din kami sa ibang bahay Kaya wala akong naririnig na chismis about me pero kahit na my marinig man ako wala akong paki. Wala naman silang ambag sa buhay ko.

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1 year ago

Yon nga eh, halos lahat na alam, tapos yon nga, her father allowed na iba ang umako sa responsibility.

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1 year ago

Sana bukal sa loob ni girl ang pagpapakasal

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1 year ago

Nagulat ako sa title haha kala ko ako😅 Anyway ,I felt sad about shat happened to chelle ,ganyan talaga ang buhay ,we comit mistakes but whats important is we learned from it. Acceptance lang talaga ,anjan na yan eh and praying that she will never tried to do bad things for her and for her baby. She needed someone na maka gabay at makapag motivates to continue her life.

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1 year ago

Natawa ako sayo. Gusto mo? Hehe. Yes, agree ako sayo, acceptance is the key. I hope she has somebody na makakausap din palagi sa kanila na magbibigay sa kanya ng gabay.

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1 year ago

Ayaw ko na haha ,tama na tong dalawa😂 Biro lang ,hihi kung merong darating e go parin ,blessing yan eh hihi

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