In case you have forgotten this promise: "No weapon formed against you shall prosper.." (Isaiah 54:17) In case you have been too scared that this would destroy you. In case you have been so focused on the pains that it caused. In case it doesn't make any sense to you anymore. Remember that promise. This, whatever trials that you are currently facing, it wasn't mean to destroy you but to refine you. It wasn't for your destruction but for your growth. You are, day by day, becoming the man or woman that He created you to be. And this is part of the process.