you don't have to look good for people , you don't have to be perfect just, because other people want you to be if your soul is perfect from within, that's all right this is all what you this is all what you need to be our society has made, very weird very weird kind of norms to look perfect and great for men it's different for women it's different ,we think too much about what people say we listen to ourselves too little you know what makes you perfect when you make someone smile you know what makes you perfect when you try to do something good for the people around you you know what makes you perfect when you feel someone's pain and how beautiful pain is that it connects you with people no other medium can connect you with others but pain that's why i always say that i'm in pain and that's the blessing in disguise for me if you think that your life is hard and you're giving up on that because you think your life is unfair think again because when you think that way you are being unfair to your own self when you share your story and it doesn't make you cry that means you have healed the real happiness doesn't lie in success money fame it lies within real happiness lies in gratitude ♥️