The Firm Part of Detaching
Devotion is far easier than partition, why does rupturing ones bond is times much faster than creating one, it's ironic isn't it? Too fast attachment with people is easy yet ruining it is so fast, being devoted by someone is easy but detachments are so effin difficult to handle.
So I was just wondering why does it feels like it's easy to ruined something significant that you are always taking care of, some bonds that you most guarding off just to make it sure that it will not be ruined and it will last as long as you want to, why does being attached is easier that to be detached?
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As for me, detachments are one who can makes me frailty, it is one of my weaknesses to some other point of life,
Yes it's easy to be attached to someone specially when that person is perfectly fits to you likings, like meeting this human being gives you a lot of positivity, change, enjoyments, and be the one to plays the important role in your life, but being disengage to this someone makes it hard for you to start and continue your life again,
Like there's a huge part of yourself has taken away from you, like ut feels like your life has been parted in pieces, like the one piece of your life went missing, and it's hard to be in a situation like this, trying to try any coping mechanism you have will not always be easy,
It's quite easy to say cutting people of your life, even closes ones right?, it's easy to say that you already erase them in your life, you already let go of them and stay away yourself from thembut the thing is, come to think of it, for sure those people once been part of your life and we can't change that one,
But even we say that we already cutting them off there's still those bonds that's so hard to let go, the strong bond why once you have them in your life, those memories you shared, the laughters and also the positive and negative one,
It's hard to detach ourselves to those people even they cause a lot of us, easy to say that you don't want them to be part of your life bit at the same time there's this tiny bit one that you also wanted them to stay but yeah that's life
Detachments is hard but what's growth without detaching and letting go, when there's a gain there's a loss, life is more on losing and gaining one, we can't help but to be in this process, it's hard yet we need to learn how to deal with it.
That's it for now everyone haha, would probably have my sleep a little more earlier because I'm trying to be in my healthy routine again of sleeping but seems like it's really a challenged haha because of being used to sleeping late at night and somtimes sun is already up that's when my slepy self will show up haha but yeah I'm still trying, also I really need it because it seems my not so good routine is not helping me anymore,
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https://www.yourquote.in/tags/detach/quotes
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https://movieidioms.com/e/easier-said-than-done/
https://stevekeating.me/2019/08/01/easier-said-than-done/amp/
https://www.idlehearts.com/293427/strong-attachment-difficult-makes-one-mad-kills
https://www.pinterest.com/ajurne/attachment-quotes/
https://www.blissquote.com/2018/07/24-friendship-quotes-and-sayings-short.html
Anyways have a great night everyone, hope you all spend your Wednesday so well, have a good night sleep you all, stay safe and stay hydrated, goodnight☺️
This is why we need to be mindful and intentional of who we let in our circle