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Since its @carisdaneym2 21st birthday days ago, I'm not gonna missed the fun contest she is hosting for her celebration!

If you aren't aware caris turned 21 this year, and still has a cute face of 12 years old *. She is currently, having a $50 worth of contest, which you can check here on her article;

https://read.cash/@carisdaneym2/sharing-50-and-10-nfts-for-my-21st-birthday-celebration-36b29cb5

The mechanics is just easy, you just have to answer the three questions inside her article submit it to the google forms and tag a friend to her post.

See mine below!

What do you see as your best character?

Actually this was a tough question. Coz I think I really have all the worst. 😆

But thinking about it, Its maybe the eldest instinct that lives within me the passion to help my family or a friend, even though sometimes, I think its like I'm being a martyr in disguise. 😆

If you asked for a help (not financial), when I think it won't be harmful to me, or my family I'd be willing to help.

Also, some say I'm a secret keeper. 😆 But I don't promise I am. ✌ But you wouldn't know if you won't try. 😝

What mistake you did learn the most from?

Mistakes? Hmmn.

Gusto kong sagutin to ng tagalog kase, parang mas maipapahitawig ko siya ng maayos.

Hindi siya maituturing na pagkakamali, pero siguro ang naging mali ko lang dito ay naging mabait ako to the point na oo lang ako ng oo.

May mga pagkakataon kase na, parang sobrang hirap tumangi sa kaibigan, sa pamilya sa katrabaho. Pero narealize ko isang gabi, parang feeling ko, I was already behind everything.

Isang gabi, umiiyak ako para sa sarili ko kase parang ang hina ko naman. 😄 Ang hina ko kase parang, may gusto akong gawin, pero yung isip ko kinonsider muna lahat ng nakasa alang alang, bago gawin yung isang bagay. Parang limitado ang lahat ng galaw kase nakaset na, ay baka ganito, ay baka ganyan.

Ang maipapaiyo ko lang kapag naramdaman niyo yung ganitong set up, pede kang umiyak, pede kang maingit sa iba kase parang ang free naman nila, pero pagkatapos nun pede ka na ulit mangarap.

Utay utay alamin mo yung core, bakit naging ganoon ang set-up? Unti-unti matutunan mong, iacknowledge na hindi dapat ganun lagi, na nasasanay na sila na okay lang sayo. Kase pinapakita mo na okay lang. Kaya paulit ulit nilang ipapakiusuyo sayo.

In the end, mas mabuting maging mabuti. Pero wag mawalan ng respeto sa sarili. 😄 Ang desisyon mo ay hindi dapat nakasa alang alang sa iba. ;)

At isang reminder lang, pag mabait ang isang tao, wag abusuhin, kase baka mamaya, hindi lang marunong tumanggi. Bukas, bukas hindi na sayo magparamdam. Haha xD

What is the most important thing in a relationship?

I never had a romantic encounter with anyone. But I believe, there are five most important thing that should be present from a relationship.

1. Faith

2. Respect

3. Compromise

4. Communication

5. Trust

Of course, communication is the first thing every relationship should have! Kase baka mamaya kaya pala hindi na kayo naguusap eh wala ng kayo. Haha xD When you have all the communication you have, you both have to be open.

You have to talk out what is comfortable and what is not. You will know each other more. Once you both know, whats your likes and dislikes, you learn to understand and respect, that despite your differences, you still both want each other.

And this leads to compromising, you give on the things she/ he wants, and vice versa. If you are both comfortable with it, you start to trust each other and your faith to each other are being established.

Relationship nowadays failed because they don't have faith and respect for each other. They don't know how to compromise. They refused to communicate.

I think people these days they like to overthink. Assuming, and they are paranoid. They question a lot about things. They claimed to know their partner more and they believe they were capable of committing mistakes.

And that alone is a red flag. If you know your partner is capable of such thing why would choose him/her?

I totally don't get it.

People are crazy. And pathetic.

Respect privacy. Respect both of your decision.

Talk about what is comfortable and what is not. Demand but also compromise. Its not always what you want.

Well anyway, happy valentines for all the lovers in the universe. 😜 Sana all may jowa. 😆😆 Stay safe lovers! xD.

I think I had it all mixed up. I missed the creative part. Haha xD

Thanks for reading ya'all. 😝 And join the contest ending on feb13!