Getting rid of Toxic People

Wonderful to way to start your day is to think positive and get rid of all negative energy surrounding you.

• RELATIVES

  I know........ Not all of them. But I know based on my experrience, some of my relatives are way out of my expectation. I'm only close to few of them, the ones that are cool, nice and caring. Other, i don't know.. till now I still can't believe they do that with their own family. Since I was in highschool, I joined some pageants, not because I liked it, but because of school academics. But still I always gave my best shot to win. Somehow I won but not all of them and I'm still happy I got the chance to win. And since that, they always talked behind my back that I can't do it. But i proved them wrong.

  Not everyone I know supports me, I know exactly who talks behind my back but i just ignore them. Acually even though they disrespects me, i didn't do anything bad back to them. I still continue to respect them even with all the insults. That's the always scenario with some of my relatives.

• FRIENDS

  YEP. FRIENDS at some point you treat them like your own brothers and sister. I only have few when in college, 5 girls and 1 boy. We're a team back then, never thought that I could be friends with them and they are the best. We know all the happiness and pains that everyone is going through, but not any longer. We're on our last year in college, i hate to admit but I wasn't able to finish it since I got pregnant. But at that point, I knew who are my real friends and Not. Not all of them supported me, while pregnant, i was so depressed and all alone with all the insults and back stabbing friends, I just thank God that He made me realized that not everyone is worth it. He made me see who are my real friends and not. Until now I have no regrets setting aside from my friends before. I guess that's whay you call Maturity also.

It may sound cliche, but as day passes by.. No one knows what will happen, and when some good or worst things happens, that's the only time you can see who are the true and wrong people for you.

Regardless off the situation..When you know it's not right, be brave to get rid of them. When you feel like not doing it, then don't do it. You don't have to please everyone, and always just be you. I know somehow you feel you're all alone, thats all right. Right people will always be there for you.