Signs that you are dealing with a Toxic people

Is there a toxic people in your life? A family member that always degrading you even you did nothing bad. Or that friend who backstabbed you and telling bad things when you are not with them. It could also be someone you didn't know but knows everything about you.

Once in our life, we encountered some of the most toxic people that we could ever met. They bring some poison to manipulate and break us apart. Toxic people will pollute your surroundings just to make sure that they can able to control you. Even they are aware that they are being a toxic one, they still continue to do it because they want to drag you down. I believe that at some point of our life, we also became a toxic one right? Maybe we hurt someone's feeling without noticing it or we spill something due of our madness. But the most painful part is when we became toxic to ourselves. We always criticize our own self because we feel like that it is the right thing to do and you just want to hear it from yourself so it is not so painful when you hear that kind of words to others. Toxic people is one of the reason why there's a lot who got depressed in life. So guard yourself always and try to remove those trash in our life. Even it is a close friend or relative, we should not afraid to cut them in our life , it's not selfishness but rather it is a self-care.

But how can you say that you are already dealing with a toxic people? Is there a standard of knowing it? So for today's, I'll gonna reveal some of the signs that we are dealing with a toxic people. Take note that it is only based on my personal experience and observation.

1.They never let you to give your opinion about a certain topic.

Toxic people will never give you a chance to speak out because for them ,they are always right and your opinion doesn't matter. Sometimes ,yes they will let you speak but you can see on them that they are not interested on your suggestions because they are already build a mindset whereas the decision that they made before she talks to you. I don't get an idea of them that they will talked to you and asked for some help but at the end they didn't listen to you. And another point , toxic people never admits their mistake even you already explain to them their action. They will just giving some alibi to that mistake and worst they will find another person to blame.

2.Toxic people will make me feel you to being manipulated into a thing that you don't want to do

They love to play being the victim and to manipulate other's feeling. At first, they seems to really care but when you realize, they actually make you under to them. They will manipulate you just to get what they desire. Most of time, toxic people is really fond of making story, they can be also a great liar just to convince you that they saying the truth. And if they find a chance, they will used your weakness just to take advantage in you.

3.Toxic people will badmouthing other people just to prove that they are better than them

Those kind of people also loves pointing out person's small mistake to the point that they didn't noticed their own mistakes. For me, it is already a red flag if you badmouthing others without understanding their situation. What's funny is they are so nice in front of you but when you are not around, they will stab you with hurtful words. They will say bad things about you and worst they will tell it to the whole world. They are so good in criticizing others without a validity of it.

4.You are so uncomfortable being with them

Being surrounded with toxic people make you feel that you are suffocated and uncomfortable because it seems that they are physically there but deep inside , there presence seems nothing. When you are dealing with them, you are so nervous because you feel like they didn't accept you. Aside from that, they will make you feel that you are in fault ; that you need to be sorry to them. You feel unsecure with them, they will leave you exhausted and they make you feel to overthink everything about you and your decision in life.

A little Reminder to Everyone;

Cutting out those toxic people is not a sign of being coward instead it is a representation that you allow yourself to have a more peaceful life. Don't allow yourself to create a room for those people who can able to wreck you. You should not put a place for those people who could hurt you mentally and emotionally. Life is too short, so don't let your life be surrounded by toxic one. Remember that it is okay to be alone rather than to be on the relationship with a toxic and inconsiderate one. Now, be ready to say goodbye to that kind of people. Goodbye drama and toxic one, hello happiness and peace.

Greetings!!

Heya dreamers, I hope that everyone is doing well today. Just want to remind you that " You are loved. You are worth it". Anyways, just wanna say Thank you to those dreamers who never leaves me since the beginning. Your support is a big thing to me , may all of us will be showered a lot of blessings in life. Keep safe , Mahal ko kayo 💚🥰