Problems aren't always negative

A happy night Friday dreamers!! How are you today? I really hope that you can able to overcome all of the uncertainties and struggles you've encountered today. How big or small it is, I believe that you should be proud of yourself for overcoming. And don't forget to give yourself a rest that it deserve since you also did a great job form the whole week.

Who definitely wants a problems? I believe that none of us don't want to have a problem. As much as possible, we want to have a peaceful and a stress-free life right? If we have a problem, we can't stand still and we tend to overthink too much. It seems that you are being trapped in the basement and no one can hear you. If problem will be describe in other words, some will say that it depressing, stressful and they really want to vanished it. Sometimes because of it, we suddenly cried in silence because we don't know how to solve it. And worst we are asking Him, why did He gives such problems to us. Is it because we did something awful or is it a punishment for us? We can't avoid to be lonely when we have a problem. But even we don't want to, we actually encountered a lot of problems in our life. Sometimes it is a small problem and we are just the one who make it big. On the other, some circumstances will give us the hardest problem that even an expert don't know how to solve it in an instant. That's life, it is a roller coaster ride for everyone.

But actually, problems aren't always negative. Yeah it might affect to our emotions but we look at the other side, we can say that it is also an opportunity given for us. I'm not saying that you should be thankful because you have a problems now but what I want to imply is sometimes it allows us to be a brave person. Everything negative- challenges, problems, pressure turns into an opportunity for us to rise. It is called "problem" because we need to find a solution to it. Instead of staying and overthinking, we should allow ourselves to discovered what is the best way to eliminate this problem. Definitely, worry doesn't empty tomorrow's sorrow but rather it empties your capability today. There's a saying that you should not problem the problems, let the problems problem itself.

I had this classmate and everytime I saw her, I can radiate a happy and light mood. It seems that she doesn't experienced any problem at all. But when I talked to her, she said that only you can dictate how will you face the problems and being happy is her way to solve it. And I agree to her, it really depends on us whether we choose to be serious, overthinker or make an actions to solve it. It's our problem anyways, so we are the one who can control to it. Whether if you make it big deal or not. Aside from that, sometimes problems lead the right path where we should be. He will give us problems to redirect us on the better decision and to give us the lesson that we should learn in life. I believe that the strongest person is not those who run away in problems but rather those people who choose to face it despite on the doubts. You should not walk away to problems because nothing will solve by doing that.

If you think that you suffered from a lot of problems now and you only worries without doing anything, definitely you will be drowned to that. On the other hand, if you evaluate those little good things you have right now, you will be inspire to fix the problems. Remember that what you focus on only grows stronger. So don't always hang around with the problems. Don't stuck yourself on that black aura of struggles. There's actually a lot of good things that you should be thankful about. I will end this article by leaving this one, " If you focus on the problems, you will continue to suffer. If you focus on the lesson from that problem, you will grow even better".

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So that's all for tonight's dreamers. Have a great sleep ahead!