Even Life is Stressful, Don't Choose to End it

Good evening dreamers!! How's your life? I know that most of us battling with a lot at this moment but I hope that you still face it with a positive outlook. It must be tiring but it is worth it once we overcome all of it. So don't be hopeless and always put God on the center of everything.

I was happy earlier but it suddenly change when I heard a news. The whole class covered with a sad aura when our professor shared something. There is another student in our University who is passed away a few days ago. He said that there immediately held an urgent meeting with the officials. They are alarming because since the start of the semester, a lot of students mostly graduating students died. And what worst most of them are coming from our course. We don't know the real reason behind it but we pray for their souls to rest at peace. It is so sad that we are decreasing in numbers because of that. So earlier we don't have a class but rather our professor asked us how's are life recently.

While listening to my classmates, I realize that we are on the same situation right now. We are demotivated but we still choose to hold on. Mahirap pero kinakaya. I believe that our prof did a good act earlier. To asked how are we because I know that not everyone have someone to share their problems. Sometimes they even get shy to share it to their parents. Sometimes they choose to not tell their problems because they don't want be a burden to their family. But knowing that our professor listen to us is such a big thing. At least, we know that there is someone who is willing to listen to us. There is one student who suddenly cried when he asked "How are you?" That student said that it is his first time that someone asking him how he is because most of the time he just pretend to be okay. He is the breadwinner on the family so he don't have time to vent out his problems. His family didn't bother to asked him that question, as long as he can give financial support to them. But behind that, he is broken, we are all emotionally broken. So in the end, he is not only the one who cried but most of us cried because of what he shared.

I realize that sometimes we tend to forget to asked those people in our surroundings if how they are. I know that it is just a simple question but I also believe that sometimes it feels comfort to that person. But what's worst, we tend to forget to check ourselves if we really okay. We literally see our problems but we forget to evaluate how's our emotional and mental status at the moment. It is really okay to admit that you are not okay. If no one are willing to listen to you, be the one who can listen to yourself. If no one cares for you, at least gives comfort and care to yourself. At the end of the day, yourself is the one who can help you. So if yourself asking a break, have it. If it asking for rest, get an opportunity to have it.

Nowadays, I know that life is stressful in different angle but please don't think that it should be the end of your life. Don't let the negativities makes you to think twice if your life is still worth it to live. It is just a challenge for us and once we overcome it, another new opportunities will be open for us. That problems that you have right now could be the reason why you become successful in the next day. Just think that it is a lesson that we should learn through a hardest time. It's not the end of our life story but rather it is the beginning of our new chapters in life. May everyone who have doubt on themselves will find peace within. May everyone who struggling right now receive the greatest blessing tomorrow. May each of us be courageous enough to face every struggles we've encountered. Malayo ka pa pero malayo kana kaya kapit lang.

Closing Thoughts!!

Sending hugs to those who are in the darkest point of their life right now. Never let the problems controlled you, let you control the problem. Alam kong kaya mo at makakaya mo pa sa mga susunod na araw. Fighting. And if you have the means to be someone's safest place, don't hesitate to be the one. Let them feel that they have you when their life got blurry. Let them feel that they have someone like you who can they lean on.