An Ice Cream a Day keeps a hotheaded Away

Good evening dreamers!! How are you today? Keep hustling in hectic day? Nevertheless, I hope that you still find some time to pause for a while and take a deep breathe. Taking a break would be a great help for us to re-think and to make ourselves calm.

Tension there, tension here, tension everywhere. The house filled with tension earlier because of my two cousins. We can't really avoid to have a small fights among the members. Actually, I don't know what is the cause of their fights. I just heard that they shouting at each other and the other one have already a red face, indicates that she wants to burst out of anger. Both of them are girls and you can feel that they are hotheaded today. My head got tired to turn to both of them and I don't know where to look because they are throwing words to each other and I can't understand what's the point of saying that. Okay I am Marites for that scene haha. But what is good thing about their fight is they are not hurting each other physically and they didn't forget to respect each other. Our youngest cousin still know how to respect her Ate( cousin) even she is mad. She explain with a lot of conviction but because they are hotheaded, the tension became presence. Even my Auntie tried to stop them from such thing but they still did that.

At last, my Auntie find out what is the cause of their small fight. Both of their phones are already low battery and they fight over the charger. One said that the charger is here while the other claims that she owns it. And because of that thing, they fight like a kid. My Auntie tried to calm down them first and asked them to check carefully if who's charger it is. They both know that they have a charger and it look the same, maybe that is the reason why they thought that they are the rightful owners of it. When they double check it, they was surprise because the charger is not them. They found out that the charger they fighting over is mine. Yes, it is mine and they are not aware of it. They saw that " M. D." which is my initials. They don't know how to react after finding out. They look to each other but they can't help but still, they not talking each other. Maybe they are shy because of wrong presumption they did earlier.

On the other while my Auntie talked to them, I go outside to buy some ice cream. I am aware that they can't resist to eat their favorite ice cream. And guess what, I am right because the moment they saw me bringing an ice cream, they immediately went to me like a kid and grab some. They can never say no to the sweetness of an ice cream. They are grateful to me and happily eat their respective ice cream. While my Auntie said that the exact reason and I'm laughing out loud because they fight just because of charger. When I feel like their head already cools down, I jokingly said to them " Ohh my, how precious my charger is. You fight over such thing? And you almost broke that one because of mistakenly thought that this belongs to you. If this one got broken, I will use both of you as an alternative charger haha". Besides my older sister, I am the eldest among the cousins here in our house. They suddenly laughed because of my jokes. And after that, they apologize to each other. The thing that they should be done. I knew it, ice cream is the only solution to keep their hotheaded away.

We can't really avoid fighting over small things like what happened to them. But at the end of the day, what is the most important thing is that we should know how to apologize and humble ourselves. We should not let our hotheaded be on top. We should also talked the other party when we are not angry, try to calm ourselves first before explaining your side in a nice and respective way. Keep clam and eat ice cream so that you hot head turns to be cold one hihi.

Appreciation!!

It's another day to be grateful about. Thank you dreamers for all of the love and support to me. Your presence is a big part of my journey on this platform. I hope that we can still read each other's article on the next years. Keep on hustling while enjoying staying here. Have a great night ahead!