The greatest fear of humans

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We made look dreadful when they’re not!

For healthy and young people, thinking about health do not matter to them much. But at old age; when we get sick often, that’s when we start to worry more and more. Did you know that health is the biggest fear for most people in this life?

A friend said that he used to be very afraid of his health then as a banker in the city. He said and I quote; “I used to be much afraid when I want leave banking, I’ve worked as a banker for several years”. According to him, he thinks the city is not fit for humans, city is a place for robots 🤖 that doesn’t care about anything; they just care about money.

He made up his mind not to live in the city anymore, so he started making plans to quit his job to go back to his hometown and start a new life again. According to him, he had a lots of good dream on how he can make his life better than in the city. But his biggest fear was that if he quit his job, he’ll not have any health insurance anymore, and what if he gets sick after quitting his job?

He became very confused at that time. His health became his biggest challenge and fear. So he started asking questions on his decision to quit his job and go back to his hometown. He was stocked on the uncertainty of his health with a job and without insurance. My friend kept thinking about this issue for many days.

Why do we feel afraid of sickness and death?

Why are humans worry so much over health issues and death? The truth is that both two are inevitable events that will occur at their time. Sickness and death is part of the circle of our existence. If sickness/weakness and death are normal and part of our existence, why should I be worried about them so much? It only shows that I not normal. It’s not normal to be worried about getting sick and eventually die.

Take for instance, someone afraid of darkness so that anytime the sun is about to set, he/she becomes more afraid because of darkness. It’s not normal to be afraid of the of darkness and night knowing fully well that darkness and night are normal things that happens and must happen day by day. Darkness comes every 12 hours, therefore if I should be afraid of darkness that comes every 12 hours, it means I’m not normal.

Sickness and death is just as normal as the illustration above. This understanding will now make in to think about the good side of sickness knowing that we can not push it away, it’s here with us. Everything in this world has positive and negative side if you prefer putting it that way, but my point is that it takes both negative and positive side to have a meaning!

We also see the negative side of sickness without giving a dam on the positive side of sickness.

What is the positive side of sickness?

It is an investigation that should be carried out in the mind. Many people have given deep though on this issue and became astonishing on their findings. This is journey that will change you totally from seeing things like ordinary people.

Sickness isn’t absolutely bad as we tagged it, there’re numerous good side of sickness:

  • Sickness a unique part of our lives that comes anytime want to come or is triggered by events and our lifestyle.

  • Sickness is a signal from our body that tells us that we’re not getting it right, that we’ not at the right place or doing the right thing.

  • Sickness is a language of the body that we can easily pick up and utilize for our betterment; it tells us that something is not right and that we need to change something.

So whenever we gets sick, it calls for an immediate pause to ongoing activities, and pay close attention to the signals from the body, listen to the message from the body to know what it’s saying to us. Message of the body is always urgent and critical which needs immediate attention. The attention should start from queries;

  • What did I do wrong, am I at the wrong place, did I eat bad food, what type of food have I been taking, are there chemicals in it, are they nutritious enough, are they enough in quantity, are they much in quantity, am I taking them at the right time.

  • What is the type of activities that I’m into, am I being stressed up, am I exercising my body well.

If we consider these things, we may recall where we missed it, maybe through what we eat, where we are, and what we do that led to sickness.

Food is the first area to consider thoroughly, if we cannot connect the dots on what we eat, then we now come back to what we did wrong; we have to investigate our activities; our work, are we dealing with chemicals or close to radio activities. We have to investigate if we’re taking risks in our jobs; out climate exposures; are they too hot or too cold. Do we work too much or too hard.

These things helps us to retreat and contemplate more on your work. If we couldn’t find any problem from our work, then we come back to our thoughts.

What are we thinking about, are they right or wrong? Do you know that many times we engage our mind wrong thinking. Wrong thought are those things that are against the nature, against the truth and normal things. These thought pattern can cause problems.

Example of these bad thinking is when we have broken heart which leads to sadness, and you know that sadness and anger is a heavy emotional stress. Sometimes we loss appetite from anger, we lose sleep. All these causes a lot of unrest and tension in the brain. Lack of food in the stomach, lack of sleep, before you it, it develops into health problems.

In conclusion

If we experience rejection, betrayal, disappointment, failures etc. when such things happen, remember that there’re billions of people in the world. Instead of hurting yourself at a spot of relationship, business, beliefs that causes you pain, why not let go and try again, try other people.

Well, this is where I’ll stop on this part of our discussion on our fear, sickness and our health. I hope you enjoyed it and are willing to apply things discussed.

Yours Max

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Most people experience a degree of natural fear when exposed to heights, especially if there is little or no protection. Everyone has experienced a case of vertigo now and then, but only those who suffer from a legitimate fear of heights can truly understand exactly how unsettling it can be. Interestingly, there is no set limit for how high is too high – a person with a fear of heights could have an equally intense reaction from the top of a mountain, the top of an escalator, or the top of a ladder.

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Thanks for your contribution. I’ve been opportune to be on top of tall mountains 🏔 to see how fearful I could be lol 😂

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There's a line from jojo rabbit movie - let everything happen to you beauty and terror just keep going because no feeling is final .. I hope you get what I'm about to say.. Btw thanks for sharing such a wonderful post..

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There’s so much wisdom in your comment dear Neloy00

Thanks for reading through. Hope to have someone special like you again and again

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Thank you so much for your wise opinion

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You’re welcome friend

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All humans have one thing or thought that scares them the most, some fear death, failure, hell, while some dread commitment, success etc. However, personally, the thought of loosing a member of a team, (because I have never experienced such) scares the hell out of me. I love them so much that i don't want to loose any of them even in a thousand years to come.

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Haha 😆 I love your comment so much dear @matico, the bond between team members is as strong as biological family bond. I can understand how you mean.

Which sports 🥎 are you into?

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Volleyball

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very informative 😍

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I’m glad it helped. Hope seeing again @lukalaban1981

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Being afraid to something is the proof that you are alive.

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I agree with you, just that we must try as much as possible to conquer our fears and put to stop the unnecessary fears. Thanks a lot @Aa01

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You are very much welcome

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No matter where we live we need to have a health insurance even if it is not paying out and we are not receiving medical help because doctors and hospitals refuse us. A good reason to fear since not getting ill or hoping for friends with meds left is the only option.

By the way: many young people are ill. Getting ill is not something only older people get. The average age is about 45 years old which means many die young.

The main problem we humans have is we try to ignore being sick and the death. If it would be open for discussion it all would be not as scary. I doubt the biggest fear is dying. Perhaps it's getting seriously ill or more not getting health care if needed. Unfortunately this scare is based on reality.

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Thanks for throwing such illumination to the article. I appreciate your insight @wakeupkitty

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Wonderful article .. Keep it up....

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Okay, I will. Thanks for reading through my friend @kawser199

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Food is the first area to consider thoroughly, if we cannot connect the dots on what we eat, then we now come back to what we did wrong

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Thanks for picking up that point! We’re what we eat. Olivia10 have a lovely day.

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Some trials and errors in life must be done to improve 😊

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Life is built on learning, and learning involved tests, failures and improvements.

Thanks dear Valryan14 and happy Sunday.

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Happy Sunday and good evening from Philippines, Max 😊

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