Did You Still Have To Hold On?
As humans, we struggle for things that are vital to us, but there are some things we don't need to fight for it hold on to, because the more we hold on, the more it pained. You have to dismiss your grip on whatsoever that is holding you back if you want to want to be free. Think about a sinking boat, it is a result of the heavy load inside it, though there times those things will give you joy and it will make you feel relaxed, there's no way your boat will get to the land unless if you do away with those things. You don't have to hold on when your knuckles are thinking white.
Letting go is part of our journey in life, we have to learn it, if we are not happy with the situation we find ourselves why not let it and start a new phase instead of sticking to the things that will keep on hurting you? when you let go of all those things that are holding you back, it will bring your path closer to good things to come your way. Though it might look bumpy from the start, but it's a decision that you'll take and it will make you feel happy in the end. Letting go doesn't mean that those who hurt you are right. There's a great difference between letting go and giving up.
Giving up means you are tired and you don't have the power to continue with what you're doing, Due to some failed attempt.
letting go doesn't mean you are weak, you make the decision to cut things that are holding you back, and you fight hard to put things right, it might be in your relationship or any life affairs but you have to know when to resist. Letting go comes from a stance of strength.
At the moment of letting you, you might be asking yourself if what you are about to do is right or wrong, take a moment to ask yourself, did I feel bad more than I feel good? , if yes, you don't have to hang on to things that are hurting you, you have to look for your happiness, You're trying not to hurt other people's feelings, but you're bleeding inside, stop it, it does not worth it. Even when people are telling you to hold tighter. If you're thinking of what people will say or do, you'll not let go, some people are having problems with you moving on, maybe because you are about to do what they are afraid of doing. They'll give you thousands of reasons why you can't move on, but you don't have to think about them, give yourself thousands of reasons why you need to move.
letting go might not be very easy, but in the end, you'll get to realize how good your brave move was. There's no need of fighting for what is not fighting to keep you, new possibilities are waiting for you if you're ready you make yourself open to them. having to let go of things is very important in life, might be painful, but the result is always sweet and you'll never regret what you did. So feeling the pain in the process is normal, it's good to cry, just turn on your music and let it go.
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Letting go is the one of the painful part, because memories and past are the difficult thing to walk away to, time heals but surely the healing process take so long and agonizing but for what it's worth, one day you found yourself not affected anymore and just live your life again without hurting.