@MarSou 3 August 2021 more from that month

I went by the cemetery before coming Home... My uncle & aunt's grave is finally ready and in place... I don't like coming here, this is just an empty place with no energy at all... But it's traditions... And I keep it clean and with fresh flowers.... Sometimes... I've learned a lot with these 2.... My sweet loving uncle taught me that even with Alzheimer, a kind soul will always be kind. He did so much mess, he was a lot of trouble... But like a lil naughty child, his blue eyes were always sweet, never ever a violent gesture or a bad word. He will be forever missed by all of us, we talk about him and we always smile 😊🥰 She taught me a Big lesson on "How NOT to be". She was always mean, but after my uncle got sick with Alzheimer, she became ever worse. I had to bring him to my house cz she was always beating him. Her mouth would only open to beat someone down, to trash everything, there wasn't anyone in the world good ... I couldn't Love her, she was UnLoveble, even her sisters, brothers, nieces... No one shed a tear... With both I have a very clean conscience, I did much more than my Best, I did Everything I could. He died in my harms. She died at the hospital, I couldn't even visit her because of Covid. I only hope I can do as much to my own parents when the time comes... Hopefully many many years from now...