#ThrowBackThursday This was my "Aunt" I call her aunt, but she wasn't blood related with me. She was married with my husband's great-grandfather-uncle. Because they had no children and their house was connected to ours by our backyards, I took care of them both for 22 years. They had more family, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, cousins... But "Aunt" was so ... Challenging... They ended up alone. No one dared to visit them because she was so obnoxious When she was diagnosed with cancer and he began to show the first Alzheimer signs I was forced to stop working to stay home with them. That's when they gave me their house and backyard, where I'm now rebuilding and making houses for my sons Uncle was the nicest man alive, even with the horrible things he did because of Alzheimer - he broke all the lockers, steal our stuff, always trying to run away, taking the clothes off - he was a big kind naughty child, his eyes always smiling. We'll miss him forever ❤️❤️ Aunt was "darkness" itself The things this woman did are beyond words. All her words were hateful and mean, so selfish, so unkind. It was so hard for me to be with her every day. It's hard to think about her because she caused so much pain, she loved to take my peace away Today I Know why we had to meet. This woman taught me Big Giant lessons on "How NOT to be" She was so dark that I had to protect myself and my Energy when i was with her. That made me look for the Light Why a person becomes so dark??? I don't know. She had a loving husband, he was the best husband anyone could have, she was luckyer than me. Her life was calm and safe. Still she could only see darkness She died 1 y ago. I can only hope she's somewhere feeling happy, learning about Love and Light In this photo she's 17 y old, still looking so nice. I'll always wonder what happened to make her so bitter #OldCaveWoman
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We met someone on our lives that challenges us, kind to us, mean to us but still teach us a lesson. Those experience you have is a great I must say. I hope she's at peace.
You didn't understand why she was always bitter? I will tell You. Reason is simple - she didn't have children.
It's true my sister, even the not-so-good people make us learn life lessons from them. How wonderful you are, Marisa