Womens Fellowship
Dili jod ko mosogot nga manglabay ang mga adlaw nga dili nako ma post ni nga event. Kada tuig ang matigsalog circuit General Baptist Church gapahigayon og womens fellowship panagtapok kini sa kababaihan matag simbahan sa General Baptist church para sa mga kababaihan usa diapon kini sa pamaagi nga ang mga kababaihan dili maluya diha sa pagpangalagad sa Ginoo. Sa duha ka tuig ang nanglabay nga wala naka himo og ingon ani nga event kay tungod sa pandemya nga nahitabo sa atong nasod usa ka mga protocol nga dili pweyde ang panagtapok.
Nabati gayod nako ang kalipay aning mga adlawa february 19,2022. Dili nako masabot ang mao nga kalipay. Ang tinood gayod nga kalipay diha lamang kana makita kang Kristo Hesus. Bisan paman sa panahon kagahapon nga kusog kaayo ang ulan og walay motor nga sakyan padulong sa maong venue kung di-in ipahigayon ang event. Pero dili gayod mapugngan ang gahom sa Ginoo nga iya gayod akong paadtoon sa event.
Ang scripture reading diha makita sa libro sa Efeso 6:11 Isul-ob ninyo ang tanang kahimanan sa gubat nga gihatag sa Dios kaninyo aron makasukol kamo batok sa mga pagpanglimbong sa yawa.
Og gitimahan kini og "ang mga hinagiban sa Espirituhanon"
Naka relate kaayo ko sa maong wali kay tungod dili tuyoon sa mag wawali nga ig-og ko pero nganong maigo man jod.
Isip usa ka kristohanon daghan Kaayo mga babag sa pagpangalad, daghan mga pagsulay ,daghan og pamaagi ang kaaway aron lang mabitik ang mga kristohanon apan kon isul-ob natu ang mga hinagiban walay imposible makasukol kita sa mga kaaway.
Kana lang sa siguro sa pagkakaron!
Salamat sa maong panahon sa pagbasa!
January 20,2022
In Order To Make A Living
In today's difficult times, it is not only for a man or a husband to find work.and make a living, in the old days the wife was only at home, taking care of the children, taking care of the house then taking care of the husband, and it is our tradition that being a wife, the salary of the husband were given to the wife because the wives are the one doing budgeting and buying all the needs in one house. But nowadays wives are more making a living than husbands,many wives are now open minded to find business or what we called sidelines or extra jobs so that they also can give and support the family, in fact especially those who are not having their degree in college.
It's hard to do budgeting on a small amount of money because it cannot provide enough for our daily needs, and we really cannot get what we want.
There are some husbands who don't agree to let their wives go to work because what they have in mind, they do everything for the family. Why does the wife have to work? Even though it is true that the husband's income is not really enough, the wife's way of doing things is to borrow to make ends meet.
There is also a type of a husband that is more insecure with his wife because the wife has a larger amount of income than him, I can say this because this is what I can observe through our neighborhood.
I want to share my life strategies on how to help the family, because sometimes I am getting tired of the always short salary, but I am just grateful to my husband because even though I know that sometimes he felt discouragement because of the low income every week, but he never makes me feel that I am a burden to him, but sometimes I get to the point that I asked myself " What else can I do for my husband? "
For a month, I was not holding some money to budget, I let him have it and made the budgeting and let him buy what we needed in the house.
With my current approach, I'm still thinking about what kind of business we need in our area, since it has a lot of sari sari stores,and also I don't have enough capital for it, our house is just next to the road and it's a good spot since it has a lot of peoples around.
It's cold here in our area sometimes, others joke with it that the people here are having a lot of kids because of the cold breeze of airs, but I was not sure if they had their control haha, anyways it comes to the point that I searched for selected items to sell, and those are pranella's for babies, since there are a lot of pregnant here, and I am thankful to God because my small selected items were all sold.
Sometimes mothers are sensitive about their appearance, so sometimes I look at them and they are really trying their best to at least look beautiful.
I noticed some time that my two cousins , a girl and a boy were so beautiful and handsome,their faces were very smooth. I was asked by them what beauty product they are using ,and it came to my mind how I can sell this one, with the help of my cousin I let her ordered 6pcs at first and I tried hard to promote the product since the first model of a product that I am selling is me, myself, and I.
I was afraid at first if I could even sell 1 bottle since I am not using it and looking at my face, I am not beautiful, I have a lot of blackheads haha, but I was still thankful because I was sold them all.
Since I am selling a beauty product it has to be proven and tested, because it was so expensive, and I am thankful to my two cousins who gave me an idea in how to deal with it, this is just small business to start with but it really help us a lot, I can cope up with the small household items, I can give my husband for his gasoline for work, and I can provide our daily needs.
Final thought:
nothing is easy in today's time, if you want money to earn you have to work hard, and it's good to eat when it comes from your hard work, the most important of all is that no matter how small or big the business we start, let us not forget to thank our Lord God.
Date :February16 2022
Thank you:)
Because I Am so Blessed(saying thank you is just enough part2)
I would love to use this platform to express my thanks!
First I would like to thank our living God for the goodness of my life as he continues to bless me and my whole family and find me in better health.
Thank you for having this platform to express my gratitude as one of the Lord's instruments.
I'm so blessed to have you guys!
My dear cousin:
Thank you because you introduced me to read.cash and for being my mate here on this platform, then thank you for being so kind to me and my children, you gave them clothes hehe, then food for children, because of poverty I can't give them an appropriate food due to the low income of my husband because we need more money to pay off the debts.
But thank you for being able to eat this kind of food. They were really happy eating it since it was their first time. Many more to thank but I can't express it anymore. I just want to say thank you. Then thank you for assisting me in a small business, you were always the one who ordered it since I can't do it on my own because of the poor signal here, and I really felt sorry for bothering you always.
My Dear friend:
Since high school we are best friends, "friend" doesn't seem to be a good name because there is an "End" but for me it's not true anymore
According to ma'am nana, when you two went to my home, our friendship didn't seem to be broken, because they said best friend is the best enemy, hmm, it seems true.
And I also believe in "the more you hate the more you love" because as you know, I really hated you during our first and second year highschool, and I don't know why but I just really hated you.
But I am still thankful to you because when the time comes that I was so depressed, you are the first one that comforted me, understand me and never leaves me, thank you for the prayers, and to those people you bring just to pray me over, thank you so much because when I felt so burden, you are there for me.
And sorry for bothering you always because I am not an expert through cell phones and you were always there ready to assist me anytime, so thank you so much.
My Brother:
I am very much thankful for my brother despite the truth that we are only half brothers, but for me it does not matter if we are full.or half by blood, the most important thing is he is always there for us.
I am very much thankful for his love for us, I know comparing is not good because I also have a two older brother, but I can feel that his love is more than a full blood brother that is why I am thankful to you for being my brother, he really supported our family financially when we reached the point of hardships, he also takes care of my children and treats them like his own.
He also gave our mother a gift, wow it's a cellphone and it became a common cell phone for our whole family since we can't afford to have our own individually.
From my younger brothers who are playing mobile legends, to my children watching cocomelon, and to my husband who is watching NBA playoffs on youtube, and I am the one who benefited the most because I can write here on this platform (read.cash).
Concluding thought:
The kindness of a person is not measured by your blood only, because there are people who are kinder and more good even when you are not fully related.
Thank you for reading!
#:)Maishe
DATE :02,10,2022
My pains and sufferings
*The Photo is from the google*
The toothache was unbearable,and because it hurt so much, I seemed to lose consciousness. I can't Imagine when my tooth hurts and my brain loses its concentration because of how hurt my tooth was. It feels like the whole world is collapsing on me.
I've been suffering from a toothache for almost two weeks. Maybe we inherited these bad teeth. and I've also been suffering from toothache since I was little, I've just lost my teeth and pinched teeth.
When I was a child, my teeth had a lot of layers. My teeth were very ugly so I lost my confidence to take pictures. I didn't smile because my teeth looked like rabbits, they were big in front.
At first, I was just a little kid. My mother was the only one who pulled out my teeth, those layers on the top looked very different, that was why she pulled it only using a nylon. She was just counting 1,2,3 and then she pulled it out. I can also do it on my own but the shaky one only.
Time went fast and I am still suffering from toothache, because when one tooth was pulled out and the other teeth will hurt again, I was just crying so hard because It was really hurt while my father was working away at Cagayan De Oro City as a construction worker, and then my tooth hurts again, I was just ten (10) years old back then.
That was the time when I decided to go to the dentist for the very first time not only because it was free but because I just wanted to rest from my toothache.
I was so nervous at that time that even the doctor saw it, especially when I saw some needles and plies. I was so hesitant back then that I told my mother that I was not going to continue, but she said that If I was not going to continue not anyone else will suffer but only me.
And I was so amazed because I didn't notice the pain because of the anesthetic.
When I was 12 years old, my mother brought me to a quack dentist, and I didn't have a choice because my tooth was really hurt. Until wheN I became adolescents and I noticed that a lot of my teeth were damaged.
And I was thankful to God because there is a hospital nearby in our area and it was free during that time, And I was lucky enough because my mother never left me when it was my turn. I was so nervous, especially when I noticed that I was next in line.
When I gave birth to my eldest daughter, My toothache occurred and since It was just after giving birth I wasn't able to pull my tooth out as the doctor said.
My neighbors said that I was strong and brave enough because I have been enduring my toothache for a long time. They didn't know how I really felt, and How I felt so nervous during that time.
How can I say these hehe, here in our place I am a famous person, famous for having a toothache and every time that there was a medical mission I was also there even if my tooth has just a small decay.
Until the day that my youngest daughter was born, she was just 3 months back then, and since I cannot be able to pulled it out again, I tried home remedy which is the extract of the herbs and apply it on my face where my tooth hurts, and I can't believe it because there was something that's gross , it seems like a white and little insects coming out from my teeth, so I endured it because I just want the pain will washed away.
And It was effective haha , but on the other day the pain occurred again. So I started again to do the home remedy, I took medicines and pain killers but the pain just won't listen, and I suffered for two weeks and in those two weeks I almost gave up to endure the pain.
Yesterday, There was a visiting dentist nearby, and I had no choice because I really wanted to pull out my teeth. It was a bit pricey because every tooth that you want to pull out costs about 500.00 pesos, plus the prescription and there should be 10 of us for the dentist to start.
And I was nervous because It took 3 anesthetic said the dentist, and I just agreed on everything she does.It was bleeding but still I am so thankful because there is no pain at all, and since I can't still eat properly, I am just thankful because I can now drink a at least a glass of milk.
Thank you:))
#maishe
Saying Thank You is not Just enough
Thank You is what we always wanted to say when someone gave you something or someone is helping you with something. In my entire history on this platform, I Know I am not a veteran on this platform and I am still struggling to write, but since I wanted to say thank you , I am now writing this Blog.
Saying thank You is not just enough for @TheRandomRewarder for always giving me tips, I know my work was not enough for your standard of giving tips but still you gave me enough tips for me and encouraged me to write more and of course to enhance my writing.
Saying thank you is not just enough for @eybyoung, You are a very supportive cousin ever, you are one of the reasons that we solved our problems, thank you for introducing me to read.cash and meeting new people around this platform.
I was so happy when my $ increased of course hehe who wouldn't be happy right, I already planned it to not to withdraw because I want to save it from my wallet.
But unexpected things happened, our motorcycle broke down and we didn't have enough money to buy parts that were needed for our motor, and that's why I decided to withdraw it all.
Thank you is not just enough for read.cash, for this opportunity to write an opportunity to earn, because of this platform, not only parts of our motor that we bought.
As what you can see, I bought something for the kids
And of course we bought them for our consumption
I am so happy because of all the things that comes on our lives and thank you is not just.enough to express my gratitude with you all
#Thank you and Godbless!
@Maishe
Because of its sacrifices:)
I never thought that sacrificed is for human only, but also for things, and I never expected this thing to sacrifice a lot for the benifits of our family.
I have been absent writing here in read.cash after I published my first post " Hatred Turns into Love"
I really find it over reacting, that's why I am struggling on how to write and what to write.
I noticed that someone tipped my work, it is the reason why I am more motivated to write, that is why I am now writing about a thing that is very important to our family, and also a part of our family.
Each and everyone of us has a favorite, it may be a things an animal or a person, Back then because our life is so much difficult I was like finding a partner who is able to buy us a motorcycle, because we work at a farm, it was difficult for us to not have our own motorcycle, so that even at a small harvest we can load it even on a small amount.
Because when We don't have a motorcycle, the fair of every sack of our harvest was high enough plus another fair for the person who rides.
Motorcycles now are a bit pricey,I used to dream of having the XRM FI 125 brand of motor because I know it has a good quality, but it occurred to me that we can't afford anything that is pricey, so we were going to stick at the local brand.
One day, I prayed to God to at least have one motor, and he granted my prayers because we had one, it is a local brand but we really need it, in terms of many things that we can work out.
But this local brand motorcycle is really meant to us,
There was one time when we went to our farm, which is very far to harvest some upland rice. This motor was our only service, our whole family rode it, and some sacks of upland rice were harvested .
It came to the point that it was loaded with so many things, from the rice, to the woods that are used for building our house and many more.
I can really say that this motor made all the sacrifices in terms of fulfilling our goals.
one day, my husband said that as if our motor had a mind of its own because it didn't break down there in a secluded and uncrowded place, it was really waiting for us to get to where we were going.
Not only do we use this motor but a lot of us, our neighbors borrow, as well as my nephews and siblings when they walk it is what they use, our motor.
That's why today, our SkyGo Wizard is up to the mark because of its great service.I went ahead and looked at our motorbike as if my chest was crumbling because our motorbike had already been harvested, because it was very valuable to us, and also because of the difficulty that we could not provide enough maintenance to it.
Concluding Thoughts:
All things are important to us, that is why we are doing our best now to find the best solution on making our motorcycle run again, and with prayers ..
Hopefully it will happen soon.
:)Thank you !!!
@maishe
#: have a bless sunday:)
PRAYER:
Father in heaven im so glad that I can come before You confidently.
Thank you for sending Jesus so that through Him I would be able to approach You. You have given me great things,so let me live boldly. I have no one to fear but you, Lord. You are the only one who needs to be pleased with me. Make me confident as live out my days for you not for men. You are good. You are beautiful. I truly serve the God of all things who created all things. There is no evil in you I come to you, Father, in Jesus name .Amen.
):We will win!!
#: have a bless sunday
Nag trouble:)
Sa kadugay dugay na nga panahon nga nag serbisyo cya sa amoa gikapoy najod intawon cya !!!astang looya !!
Naka points naman ko gamay sa read cash ,unya dli ko kabalo unsaon pag withdraw ani. Kong kaloy an maka withdraw palitan jod nako neg carborador Hehehe)(
SALAMAT SA READCASH:))
WALA KO NAG DAHUM NGA NAAY ENGON ANI
MY DAILY LIFE; insecurites and Discipline is caring
Since highschool, I wasn’t really inclined to write stories and I don’t think being a writer is in my blood, and I don’t really have it in my mind especially now that I am married and have children.
but, I still want to share my everyday life experience., not new to most, especially to me who is married and has children to live everyday with no salary, or even daily small income Sometimes, I just stare and think especially when I see the other wives or my acquaintances before, that has extra income,sometimes I felt so insecure because I am just a plain housewife with no salary, and sometimes it was one of the reason why I cannot approach them first.
As a housewife, it is my duty to takes care of my family, from preparing my husband's foods and things when he's going to work and to take care the kids in terms of their food, cleanliness, and of course my daily routine to clean the house, and take care of the children the whole day and night, specially when they sick, I cannot even look after myself.
Being the housewife is the most tiring, well I know that some of us here in read.cash are a mother and a housewife, and I know some of us can relate, anyways let's continue.
Some other say that I am so lucky because my husband never let me go to work, but did you know that being a mother and a wife can be tiring too?, specially when my youngest child never let me go, all she wanted was to be with me, sometimes I can't handle things in our house, and I really felt sorry for my husband because I really wanted to help him out in terms of finances.
And Being a mother, it is my duty to discipline and train my children in terms of helping me out everytime I need them.
It was one morning when my seven years old daughter told me to rest, and I was at the water doing laundry, maybe because she saw me being busy doing multiple tasks, I told her that it's okay, but she never let me do my job and I never expected her to be that responsible.
I was shocked because instead of playing she starts to do the laundry, I am so very proud of her, I started to train her at the very young age because I don't want her to become a spoiled, we are not rich, we can't afford to buy washing machine that's why we do our laundry by handwashing, and we can't afford to pay when we are going to hire someone to do our laundry ,but suddenly her playmates came and called her, but she refused to play instead she told them to help her at the laundry and after that they were going to play.
As I am observing, they are starting to enjoy the laundry in which they help each other. I never saw her playmates doing the laundry before and I am so happy because my daughter influences them, to help out each other in order for them to play after the hard work.
Training your kids will help you in no time, because I have a 1 year old kid to take care of and at least I have a seven years old daughter to rely on.
MY POINT OF VIEW;
As I get insecurities through my neighbors, my acquaintances, and even pity myself for being just a housewife, I never realized that has not been easy, I will just think that I was lucky and I had a husband and I was not abandoned and I had children that I can lean on over time,and one more thing I don't know that if I envy them they will envy me even more, we don't know haha
Concluding Remarks;
Being a housewife is not easy, it.is unavoidable that we feel insecurities towards the other wives but at the very least we did our job to organized our family matter, and in terms of disciplining our kids, it is our obligation so that they cannot over power their parents and it is not the obligation of other mothers.
I may not have a salary but I think I did my very best to support my family not in terms of money but with love.
HATRED turns into LOVE
***Introduction***;
Many people in our generation have developed a fondness for animals, particularly dogs; some have never had children, while others are newlyweds; even youngsters have developed a fondness for dogs.
Someone I know who loves dogs, they are newlyweds, and when I went to see them to get the rent for my house, I saw them treating their dog as if it were their real baby, and I was completely amazed because I saw their dog with a nice bed and has its own light, I'm truly amazed to those people who love dogs.
Me? I despise dogs, especially those that are flirtatious.
It was all about my dog, "Lebron." She's a girl, and I hated her because she doesn't nurture her children, which is why she can't have puppies, and she's also aggressive, eating all of our dishes at the table.
My hatred for the dog was triggered when my husband and eldest daughter were bitten by a street dog during a pandemic, and there was no hospital near our area, and they needed medical attention.
But there was a time when we had a miscommunication with my nephew because we shared a house and he was very stubborn and always drunk, and I was afraid for the safety of my 4 month old baby, so I decided to move out to our small bunggalo atleast I couldn't be with my stubborn nephew, and I covered only the door with a blanket because my husband was working away from us.
Surprisingly, "Lebron," our dog, guarded us and never left us as she lay outside the door, defending us the entire night and barking when a drunk person passes by.
From then on, I felt sorry for LeBron because I had been so harsh with her; I never said I loved her, but at least now I know that I am fond of her.
***Concluding Thoughts.***
Lastly, I'd like to express my gratitude for everything you've done for me
Dogs are amazing because they love humans even when they are bad, and I realized this because of Lebron. I may not have been the best to her, but she made me see her value. What I've learnt the most is to value not just people but also animals, particularly dogs, because we will need their assistance at some oint.
***After so many thoughts of what should I published it came right to my mind that I should share this experience not for hatred but sharing a lesson of what I learned.***
@Maishe
