Why the sudden change in attitude? What could be their motives for becoming so different, something is wrong, and I've got to know what's going on, I've got to be very careful because there are so many chameleons out there. Have you ever been in that situation where things just change suddenly and you know beyond a doubt that something is wrong. Humans can be very sneaky and selfish, as long as something is going to be favorable to us, we wouldn't mind faking our feelings and attitudes., overtime we have learnt that it's better to understand how people are, so when there is anything noticeable difference, you'll know something is wrong.
The story of young men has a bit of this tale in their life cycle, the moment they can't see things for the way they truly are then they may lose. Many times this young men are not being attended to, they have been shunned, embarrassed, even spat on just cause they tried getting a girls attention, a girl who claims to be out of his league, come on go find someone your type outside. Once comes a financial upgrade, or reputation position in life, you'll see many of those ladies swimming in very convincingly. What could they want? Are they truly in love now or just another chameleon?
You'd think family is excluded, and you wouldn't need to be all sensitive when it comes to family. Like you mean after the years we've spent together, I should still be guarded against people I grew up with. Well you wouldn't need to be guarded so much because you are already familiar with who they truly are. You know the sibling not to trust, you know the one to trust more, you know what one can handle best and what the other can also, all this helps, however a family betrayal are mostly the unexpected and painful cause you wouldn't want to do anything about it, even when you have no choice but to take action.
Friends, friends should always be taken with caution. A larger percentage of betrayals and back stabbing has emanated from friendship, most of us trust so much and you easily accept anyone and try to be the best and nicest people we can be. Just when they are done and we've been finally betrayed, we'd say to ourselves, I'll trust anyone so much again, but soon we forget and open up freely to another, we are just naturally good people, that why it's necessary we know that reading people's action isn't wrong nor is it an act of insecurity, rather it's an act of security which is very beneficial to us.
For most of the hurt, you've got to deal with it for ourselves all by ourselves, so it's best we take precautionary measures to prevent it next time. Assessing everyone who comes in contact with you is good, taking it one step at a time is best, enjoy each other company yet be careful so the person doesn't you hurt you., give people chances to come close, to be theirselves, to be their true self, so when we are finally sure and confident the guards can start going down causally.
Some people are not for keep, keeping them would be as risky as a self inflicted pain, so cunny and so deceptive, around for the benefits, never around during the waiting time. Having so much parasitic energy around can break someone emotionally and psychologically, imagine having doing so much, just when you need to hang on to someone, you'd realize that most of the people who were your beneficiaries are no where to be found, infact they were never into you, just their survival instincts playing out, drawing near to you until they can be independent enough and not care anymore where they were hosted previously.
Reading inbetween the lines, spot the chameleons around you, seeing people for who they truly are and not what you wish they were is the first step to preventing hurt for oneself. It doesn't always mean you'll let go of them, now you can work with them better cause you've understood their kind of person, thereby you know what to do with them and what not, you know where you can go with them and where not to. Understanding our people would help us relate more with them, remember even the most notorious of criminals would still have close friends who connect with him.
Take care of yourself, it's your job to do so, if you choose to be careful about who you relate with and how you relate with people then it's not a bad idea at all, no one should come crying that we dont trust them, trust is a big word, someone trusted must earn the trust, trust isn't something to throw around so easily, especially with the escalating rate of betrayals and deceits. Stay careful, try to read inbetween the lines. Thank You For Reading Today.