Why is it good to be nice?
What is the use of sympathizing?
You may be wondering what it is for? Yes, surely you are a closed person like me who has a hard time opening up and being a nice and sweet person with whom you do not know.
But let me tell you, why it is important to be nice.
Throughout our adulthood, we are growing in society, we are creating links in society, whether we are expanding our family, our classmates, classmates, our co-workers, you have an entrepreneurship among other things.
As we grow, our contact with the world grows, regardless of your personality, you know that it is necessary to strengthen some ties to reach certain points in your life.
You have a new job, you can't come in a hostile way, avoid talking to others, treat them in a rude way, have problems with others among other things.
If you have a business, where the source of income is through third parties, apart from offering a good service or product, you need to create links, trust and win people who will compare you.
So, learning to sympathize and be more charismatic with people, of course, will help us with some goals.
Stay and read me that I will give you some tips that I learned in a body language book, which will help you seem like a more charismatic and likeable person even if you are the opposite.
Move your hands!!!
Yes, I make that mistake very often since I am not very expressive, but nothing more polite and that inspires confidence both from your security towards the person to whom you are transmitting a message than to move your hands.
But wait, don't do any movement, your hands need to be in sync with what you're saying and the context has to do with the movement of the hands.
By making these gestures, you will be giving security and certainty of what you say, automatically creating a bond based on trust, even if you have a few minutes getting to know the person.
Try to practice in the mirror, look at yourself as if you were in an exhibition and you want to say something or get a message across, practice your movements in your hands, that way you give it your essence, which is very important, it is not the idea that you look like a robot , the idea is that you soften your essence a little.
Grade your voice!!!
The right tone of voice is so important that it may be the most important factor.
No matter what your voice is, the important thing is to find the right tone.
A very high tone of voice, it may sound somewhat aggressive to the other person, they will feel threatened or they will not like the way you speak, so you will not send any message, only that they will not want to talk to you again.
On the contrary, a very low tone of voice will make you see yourself as a very insecure person, and unfortunately if you do not see yourself safe with what you are offering or sending, you will not make it reach that person either, everything comes from within, you have to see you totally sure of what you speak, without buts.
You have to find a middle ground, practice with your friends or family, ask them to help you graduate your voice, try to use a tone of voice and tell you if it is very soft or very strong and thus you are looking for the balance point.
Believe me that it is an important point, that you must add to the movement of the hands, you will already be one step away from being a person who is automatically qualified as pleasant.
The easiest of all, but hardly anyone does it when talking to others.
For different reasons, you are an introverted, closed person, you have a bad day or a host of reasons that prevent you from smiling.
But a good smile will always be received as a good gesture for other people.
You will be cataloged as someone sweet and pleasant, especially happy, today it is so difficult to smile that seeing someone smiling draws attention thanks to the various situations in the world that have stolen smiles.
You do not have to do it every time, but at least once in the conversation it is necessary, I recommend that it be at the end of the conversation or at the end of the deal, so you add a gesture of thanks.
Smiling fills the soul, both of the one who smiles, and of the spectator and if you make him smile you already added 1000 points.
As you can see, they are completely simple steps that anyone can do, but not everyone is used to doing it.
Be careful, with this article I do not want to say that you have to lose your essence, but if you are in the world of entrepreneurship, classes, work, it is very good that you have a pleasant image that helps to increase your circle of acquaintances and in the future brings rewards. .
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Everything you mentioned is very essential. Sometimes having a wide circle of acquaintances is difficult for me because I am introverted person but I am trying my best to socialize.