How can we find our passion?
We have all heard at some point that what really makes us meet our goals, beyond effort and perseverance, is passion, and it is totally true.
Passion will be the gasoline with which you will drive and motivate yourself to meet your goals.
Some find their passion from a very young age, but others we have to go through a lot first before finding it.
Many know what their passion is, but they cannot execute it for things in life, whether in the economic or family sphere, but every human being should be very clear about what their passion is, to spend the rest of their life doing what they want. It really motivates you.
Keep reading me to find some steps that can help you find it.
Do not stress!:
I know that it probably frustrates you to go through life without having something that you are passionate about, I know that there are many people in society who already have their passion very clear, but do not compare yourself, do not compare your efforts with those of others, you are different, therefore you move in a different way and it is not bad to be or do things in another way.
What is wrong is that you measure your effort and abilities by the level of others.
Stressing, complaining and getting frustrated won't make any difference if you don't move productively, it will just give you more of the same problems.
What you should do is relax, enjoy the process while that love for something appears, there must be something that you do with all the love and enthusiasm in the world, you just don't realize it or you're looking for exactly something you want to be good at, and things are not like that, passion is born, not made.
Answer these two questions:
1) What would you do with all the love in the world, even if they didn't pay you?
A great way to find passion is by analyzing the things we do with motivation, desire and enthusiasm and we do not necessarily obtain a material or external benefit beyond enjoying the process we are doing.
In this way, I discovered that my true vocation is psychology, since I can spend hours listening to others tell their problems and I don't get bored, on the contrary, I feel a great responsibility to help them, which makes me feel very good.
I discovered that it was not trading, even though I like it and I love it, because if I do trading for money, I was about to leave it when it did not give me good results, but trading will be the bridge to achieve my goal of studying psychology, and to be able to pay for my degree, which is only given at a private university.
2) What are your fears?:
Overcoming fears will be a key point for you to achieve your goals, so make a list of your biggest fears that you consider are hindering the way to achieve your passion.
After you have them clear, propose to overcome them, I promise you that the greatest fear is to take the step of overcoming fear, then everything is easier, everything is more direct, after taking the step, you only have to move forward, there is no more option, do everything possible to overcome that fear and never immobilize you again.
My biggest fear, which prevented me from studying psychology, is not knowing how to start studying if I had no money, so I refused to give up my passion, I just put it on pause to first make money and then be able to pay for my degree, I still It sucks not being able to achieve my goal, but I don't stop, here I am and I know I can, and you can too.
You have the right to change your passion:
You may no longer feel the same interest in the things you liked to do years ago, don't feel bad, don't get frustrated, you have the right to find another passion or let go of that passion.
Sometimes, we believe that our passion is what will define us for the rest of our lives, but the human being is so evolutionary, that he lives acquiring new skills, new habits and new passions as he grows, it is not bad, on the contrary, everything that makes you move forward and take steps forward is benefits.
Ask the previous two questions again and overcome your fears again, if you think that because you have already come over that fear that tormented you for years you will never be afraid of anything, you are totally wrong, you may be a little braver, but always fears will come to our lives, to our minds, and it is part of life, it is what makes it exciting, it is what makes each Victory worthwhile, use your fear to grow and transform yourself, do not let them stop you.
Don't limit yourself:
A serious error for our dreams is that we limit them, and what we do not know is that scientifically, we only achieve 10% of what we are capable of doing, the other 90% is stuck there waiting for you to get down to work to achieve them.
You really do not know how capable you are of achieving things and it is for the simple reason that you do not believe in yourself, there are no limits, the only limit is you and your mind, the only limit is you, that you cannot become capable of doing it .
Dream so big, that your dream seems unattainable, but work hard for it, and you will see that hard and disciplined work with a purpose will always give results, maybe not what you expect but something will give you all that effort.
Do not be one of the crowd, who gives up their dreams, their aspirations, out of fear, frustration or lack of patience.
After the storm comes the calm, and many stay in the storm just because they don't move on.
Success is probabilities, do not feel bad about failure, the more you fail at something, the more likely you are to succeed on the second try, do not stop and stay to see your good results.
You owe yourself all the good at you want, do not disappoint yourself, that a little flame in your heart shines brightly knowing that you want to be the protagonist of your dreams.
Happy Friday everyone, I love you a lot and I want to see you full of blessings fulfilling your dreams.
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