Many of us already saw some post, actual or heard in social media about cheating while in a relationship.
But sometimes those cheaters didn't accept the fact of word "CHEAT". We always remember once you are still in a relationship, don't ever cheat your wife/husband or gilfriend/boyfriend.
But their is a case why many man/men cheating on thier wife/girlfriend because of this reasons:
One of that is, they cannot contented of what they had, they want more or want more, more than what their partner had. So of course their going to find ways to satisfy their wants. Sometimes they become selfish in that situation, they only think about their self than thinking about what would be their partner's reaction if he caught.
Next option is, maybe their partner is having a bad attitude, or over demanding, over reacting or too much jealous on many things. Sometimes we need to minimize our attitude, jealousy, demands and etc. Because you know if we are already too much, then it isn't good at all. So you'll expect that one day your partner find another woman/man to make them happy or satisfy with without arguing or hitting in emotion or physically.
Too much negativity on their mind or for short they don't have any trust on their partner when it alone. Especially when they know that the day they meet it's a womanizer or something many men likes her. So with that situation its not only jealous but also no trust on his/her partner.
What we should be do to avoid cheating?
First of all talk with your partner, and if in case you are no longer happy with him/her then talk to her straight, than cheating on your partners back. Sometimes there is a situation that can fix or can still handle but they choose to broke up without proper discussion or counselling. Especially when you had kids, make your relationship work, challenge, contented and happy. Some issues in every couple or family is minor, but they make it big issues and trouble they ni bkk let it broke apart. So the ending their child is the one who suffer of what they did. If you felt unloved to your partner then cheating is not a choice, just think your son or daughter. Having a happy family/complete family is the best gift we had on earth. Although there is a broken family but happy, it still depends on the situation. But if you think you can fix that minor issues then stay and talk with it. Don't choose to cheat just you to be happy.
Be happy in a way that you are no longer has a pending problems. Coz you know its good in our heart and mind that we are FREE from anything. That's why its important to separate or broke up with good terms between you and your partner&children. So the peace well within you, right?
Okay, so now lets talk about those broken family. Though i knew many people near me that broken family is also a choice, the top one of many reasons why many parents now are single mom/single father because of abusing physically and emotionally. There is a partner whether its man or woman hitting their partner in physical, they abuse them especially the children, they beat their partner so hard like punching, kicking, slapping, tie them or lock them in corridor, lock in the house and so on. Once you're partner having that attitude or manners then you should leave it, and report it to the authorize personnel that can help you with that situation. To also give them a lesson and get them in rehab. Too much hitting in physical or emotional is not good at all especially when they do it to you many times or every single Day. So we rather choose a broken family or being single, than having a partner that makes you slave or poor.
But if you had a good partner, a very kind, lovable, faithful, loyal, trustworthy and pretty/handsome then be contented, nobody's perfect guys, so lets be contented on what we had. Your already blessed, so embrace that gift of yours. You have a thing/person that doesn't have on others. And also before you proposed to him/her, make sure that you loved him/her so much. And if you are not sure then don't propose to her. Many couples now they got married but after few years of being together they broke up. So whats the main reason?
-they are not contented, or having a minor issues but they didn't fix it. So please prevent that. Fix your problems guys. Always remember that God give yoi challenges and trials because God knows you can make it and solve it. Don't follow what satan said on your mind.because satan hate happiness. So once that happiness of yours taking by satan then you are already weak in God's prescenes.
~~~~~~~CLOSING THOUGHTS~~~~~~~
At this pandemic times, all you need is family. Because money can't satisfy you, even how rich you are now. If you had no family to bonding of,you cannot had that happiness. As you observed this time of pandemic our treasure is our loved ones. All lust and richness in this world is no longer a treasure. Because God already taken our family one by one until on his SECOND COMING on this earth. So loved your family more because you wouldn't know by next minute, hour or day they are no longer with you.
