The World Is a Pyramid

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2 years ago
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Professor Cha is an attorney, an educator, a disciplinarian and a father. He is ambitious and his expectations for his children are just insurmountable. He believes that the world is a PYRAMID, and that you have to strive harder to succeed in a society where people at the top enjoy more luxury in life than the ones at the bottom.

This is how he conditions the mind of his children, to study hard and their best to get accepted at prestigious universities and graduate no less than a doctor or a lawyer. The children are controlled by a mindset that they have to be great, minding their selves worth alone, pushing further and smacking any competition that hinders their way. Moreover, inculcating a vision of a PYRAMID, that they have to strive to reach the very top.

Wow! That’s just so amazing, right? He must be a great father to be thinking only the best for his children and working all possible means for them to achieve their dreams… or his dream.

Sigh. I don’t want to spoil his fatherly figure. But, this man can also be obnoxious to his children. 

Well, hello and good evening everyone! I have to disturb you again with another perplexing drama. I was watching this Korean Drama Series “Sky Castle” and the inspiration popped into writing when one of Professor Cha’s children destroyed the pyramid out of so much pressure and anger, quickly blurted out, “Why would the world be a pyramid, when the earth is round!!!”

Okay, that really makes sense too!

I’m not against strict parenting, and I always believe that children should be disciplined first in the home. Much more, it is also the responsibility of the parents to guide their children with their studies, and hone them to become a better version of themselves in the future.

However, how can we stop parents when they become over possessive and more ambitious,  when the environment at home becomes suffocating, and when life becomes miserable because the children no longer enjoy the time of their lives?

Yah, it’s sad. 

When I started watching the series, I thought how lucky for these kids to be living such luxury and minding nothing else than to study. A lot of students have been working at night and attend school during the day time to support themselves. 

However, as I kept watching I can’t imagine the plight of the children from the families in Sky Castle. The pressure they have to go through and the grueling projections from their families. Indeed, the world can never give us perfection, we might be born rich, but burdened with expectations, or be born in poverty yet enjoy the simplicity of life.

Oh! I have to pass the burden to you. What do you think? Is the world round or a pyramid?

Anyway, whatever it is. I think it is very important that we need to balance everything in life- dream more, love more and care more.


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04/05/2022

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The world is maybe pyramid inside and it just have a round camouflage ...But what really dominant inside earth is that pyramid .in terms of the society...

I've been suffocated by my mother who always wants me to be at top but she don't even ask me if I'm doing ok or not. A lot of students now suffering from that ..that's why sometimes the explore things that are our of their comfort zones..

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2 years ago

beautiful story

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2 years ago

Yung time na nanuod ka ng series tapos ma imagine mo rin, na sana ganyan din ako kayaman, whahaha, minsan ganyan ako mag isip ehh, sa tuwing nanuod ako ng mga kdrama,haha.

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2 years ago

Whatever your child become is a product of how you nurture them. As a parent, I may not be as strict as some other parents but I will still try my best to support him to the best I can with discipline also

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2 years ago

We may dreamed of having the life like the rich people have but we don't know the pressure they are feeling.

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2 years ago

tendencies are, the children have struggled to be always on top of their games.. i am just glad that my parents didn't push me to be that way, although they are not rich, just the right balance of work and study... i am grateful and I still believe that we are here on earth to enjoy and rest upon the thought that we don't need much to be happy.

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I'm really happy that even though we grew up in an average Household, our parents never pressured us in our education. They really let us chose our passion and that its a lot better as it is additional cost if you want to change courses when are enrolled to a program that you don't love at all.

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2 years ago

Indeed! Average households have more sense of balance and emotional security for the children... My parents too gave us freedom to choose what to pursue for that very same reason, and of course with a twist, graduate in 5 years if you pick a 5 yr course, or graduate in 4 years for a 4-yr lol! ganun or else stop na haha!

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2 years ago

haha same, then may additional rule pa. if you wanna get married but not finished with your studies, go ahead but don't bother us when you go through hardships because we were reminded of our situation. and that it's very crucial to finish our studies first. awa ng Diyos isa lang ung nag graduate na married na 🤣

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2 years ago

Korek! Dapat din ganyan talaga..

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2 years ago

What if let's combine ung dalawa. ?Instilling children to be competitive at the same time filled or full of love, patience, and care not only with their profession (to be) but w/ their surroundings and community?

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2 years ago

Amazing sis! Ideal talaga. Sa series kc grabe ung tatay ka strict mapagmahal nmn sya kaso it's conditional..

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2 years ago

It might not be the best arrangement, but it's what has been built over time and it's quite sad.

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2 years ago

I think that it might not be so bad training our children like that. We just need to exercise patience and be more accommodating. We all want them to be someone in life.

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2 years ago

Yah nothing's wrong actually, but children needs patience too and love to balance the pressure.

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2 years ago

Huy doc... Been seing you less and less ahmm busy much??

The world is round..agreed. Also a pyramid... In a sense. Now Bamboo's tatsulok is playing in my head.

There is a hint of reality to the dad's wisdom but I find it not helpful for the children's well-being. It lacks something...

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2 years ago

I can't visit noise anymore, a bit busy few days back but I guess I'll try to get back there..

Btw, I love bamboo's tatsulok, eto pinakinggan ko na nga hahah! Uu nga may sense nmn ung tatay kaso over lang talaga sya, wala ng balance.

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2 years ago

Usually ganun no? Pag na achieve ng parent yung top, they'd want to see that their children maintain it. Pero i have observed that that pressure robs the next generation of the appreciation of life during their time.
Guidance is key. Pero support is the best thing. Nagiging obsessed ang parents dun sa methods na nagamit nila dati, they forget na pwedeng sa ibang paraan ma maintain or maka achieve more ang kids.

Ay hala ang haba...

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