This always gets into my nerves. Whenever I hear comments regarding body types, I always roll my eyes and glare at the person who's talking negatively about somebody's body type. I do hope we educate enough the younger generations to stop doing this and explain to them the reason why we need to stop it. Sadly, that attitude was passed people to people, generations to generations. But there's hope with today's generation though, I can see it with my younger students.

That's our society now, getting worse, the behavior of everyone much different than before as for today's generation they don't know the word respect to everyone they are not ashamed of what there doing, they want to say whatever they want even if might hurt for someone. They don't know if someone would hear or that person heard what your friend saying to that lady may it took her self-confidence as she might always think with her body. Salute to you as you give him the words of wisdom and that he listened to you.

Personally, I believe that we are all created uniquely. Let us not body shame someone just because they don't have the body that this society stated as the standard body. Everyone is beatiful and shouldn't be define through their body shapes.

The more we spread awareness about body-shaming, the more people try to shame other people about their body. We are in a modern world and we must all grow up and accept things the way they are. We don'g know how much effort chubby or thing girls exert in order for them to achieve their desired body goals.

Sadly, this had happened to alot of Young people. Infact, some people are been laughed at and mocked on a daily basis just because of their the of physique. I have always find this very wrong as I see no reason why one should make jest of someone else just because they appear a little different... Thank you for the slap on the head 😂

Body shaming is something i hate so much. I have a friend that will always see a problem in someone's body.

It is very sad but unfortunately it happens. People focus on the appearance of other people but do not see themselves. I have been told all my life that I'm too thin. 😀Now I’m not so thin anymore so now they tell me I’ve gained a little weight. The world cannot be pleased. We will never learn to accept people as they are.

Because of what media projects and society dictates, sadly we are influenced by that. We should learn by now to love ourselves more and for who we really are. Do you. Do what makes you happy. Never judge but be kind always.

The physical difficulty or ease experienced by someone is related only to himself. How she will shape her physique is as simple as growing or shortening her hair!

Mehn! This is really disgusting the way people bash on fellow humans because they didn't someone is not 'fine' to thejrt standard. I encounter this everyday from my co-workers(all ladies, they keep checking and finding error in a lady that comes to patronize us). It's always annoying, so I practically tell them that those they are saying ugly words to concerning their stature are more beautiful than them she they would keep shut

Body shaming is not good and we shouldn’t do that though I’ve did it sometimes back when I was in junior secondary school I do run and laugh on fat girls but I’ve gain my sense that it’s something very bad.

Agree with you man. Karma never sleeps!

I hate it when people being judgmental to different body types. Body shaming is such a ridiculous thing, comeone people can you please grow up, every body is beautiful, may it be fat, or skinny or whatever. Glad you called out your friend, people must be aware of their actions and words.

Everything nice and I totally agree with you this one point body shaming and you really bring a great and rare topic everyday in you're article

Sirrr. I used to be bullied because of being chubby. I also lost my self confidence because of it, it makes me feel that it was my wrong being born in this world.

Why they will be judge where in fact they were human too.

I really hate body shaming, especially when it comes to man; saying useless judgement to a woman. Like, hey you don't deserve any woman in your life, really.

That is a cogent point you raised by you sir, dear friend, if we should be judging by our body shape, we should not be judging or abusing anyone because of how they look

It's really nice the way you called out your friend for body shaming. A lot of people will join in and laugh or just keep quiet instead of saying anything. What you did was awesome and I agree with all you've said

I was not just once a victim of body shaming but many times. It really saddened me to hear those hateful words that affected my self confidence but when I dig deeper, I tried to see things clearer that my choice is my choice , I don't need the credit from others to validate who I am. I hope those people who used to do this kind of action will see and realize it's effect to someone and the rest of the society.

You also need a chubby girl as wife, dear bro! now please don't hit my head too 😂

People don't know the damage they can cause with a comment like that. No one is perfect, we all have flaws.

First of all, I want to commend you for this write-up. I appreciate all the words written here. As a plus-size woman, I have experienced being ridiculed in a public place because of my size. I was even called ugly for being fat. What impact made it to me was very negative, I lost my confidence, and I was attacked by my anxiety because I cannot do something instantly that can make me look like a normal person in the society that is not being called fat instead of my name. Every time, I hear people calling me a pig, it first me a lot because they think that I was fat because I eat a lot but they do not know I had a condition that increases weight. There are times I starve myself to death but it only worsens my condition.

Now that I have lost some weight because finally my condition gets better and with the supplements I intake, people are saying things again that I am just trying to fit in. I don't know where should I place myself in this world. It's too cruel anywhere.

Dear Lucifer, you raised a very good topic. Some of the physical characteristics of people are God-given, and we should not ridicule them for their characteristics. The principle of ridicule is disgusting. Maybe people who have shortcomings in themselves, want to cover up their shortcomings by making fun of others.

In the Philippines, food is life so you can see a lot of chubby ones like me lols especially when the pandemic started. Body shaming isn't nice.

True beauty doesn't depend on the size and look... It's in the heart and mind of people who show kindness despite of imperfection.

Body shaming, ruins people...it ruins their self-esteem,and it damages there personality and future... They are being judge by others because of being free and its like controlling your life, and putting away your freedom...

Btw brother I like chubby girls. They look so cute.

Everyone is unique in his own way, and we haven't any right to humiliate or disrespect them for any reason. I am glad the way you make your friend understand this fact.

Body shaming is a very offensive act. It can lead to depression for the person and make he/she overthink. Why bodyshame who we can't create.?

We appreciate everyones beauty.

I encourage people to be healthy always and to achieve that, they don't have to rigorously go to gym or something.. just regular walking for 30 mins everyday is enough.. I do not expect people to do anything else.. At the same time, just because somebody is a little over weight does not mean one can make fun of them... it is nobody's bloody damn business to talk about other's appearence.. They have a heart for fk's sake.. Just do not hurt others and be nice... that's all humans need to do.. I do not understand why is it so hard to people to just being nice

We are made in our own way,let's try to appreciate others and not mock them for their body shape.

I once experienced body shaming because of body figure ,I am a girl but I look like a man because of some muscles in my arms and legs and because of it some one called me a gay and I was hurt and I was thinking who are they to say that on me ,they don't have the right to tell me that ,for me I am beautiful and I don't need their opinion hahaha. We are beautifully unique in our own way and in the eyes of GOD we are equally beautiful.

You did the right thing, I mean when you scolded and lecturing your friends is truly a good act uncle. I salute you for that! Body shaming isn't good, we shouldn't criticized other by their look afterall we're not perfect .

I'm gonna pissed off also that kind of person Luci. Body shaming is not good and be thankful of what you have now. I'm chubby but I don't care hahaha.

It is never right to body shame people. Never.

We don't need to body shame others just to feel good about ourselves.

Hi brother. Thats a nice writting

Body shaming is not a good thing. God created everyone with different abilities ir structure. Who knows he or she is gking to be fat like that. What if they are trying hard to control it. So without knowing why should we talk about body. I know that fat persons try hard to lose tgeir weight they sometimes eat just a one meal per day but that does not works because the body is a goft from our God and it bocomes as the will of God. So we should not criticize anyone like that for being fat.

Oh really that's so quite. I love it.