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I have recently read some topics about online love, or let us say those couples having Long Distance Relationship in which the online world set as a bridge for their communication. To wrap up those insight, all agreed that there is a big possibility that online love can turns to a marriage, but still it is up for the couples, on how they want to work their relationship.

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Have you tried to fall in love to someone whom you haven't met or seen even the pictures of him/her?

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I think I was in first year highschool when I enter the world of texting, Facebook that time is not so common, as we only have keypad phones and it's rear for it to access Facebook's site. I've observed that some of my friends are having fun of texting to strangers. They said that they only do GM(Group Message) and by one click they can have chatmates. I stated in my previous article, Tyl, Text You Later, the common reason why I like the system to texting before, specifically about GM

Why I came up with the GM? Because it was was the time when there's no judgement at all. You are going to talk to someone by texting; to listen his/her opinion anonymously, that you are talking to an unknown friend. Asking for your picture or meet up is not in vocabulary, as the only intention is to have someone to talk heartedly.

- (Ling, 2021)

It is common for a group of friends, especially with the same gender to ask, "who is your crush?", and to my surprise some of my friends stated name which is not familiar to some of us, then we found out that those names that they are sharing are their textmates. They don't know how it looks like; it says where they live, but since we're having no knowledge about places we only conclude that it's far; they stated some information about themselves without a proof if they said the truth or not. But these, possible reason for them not to like a person is not on my friend's concern, what they focus is the happiness that a particular textmate give to them.


If you're fun watching videos online, you might have seen a lot of couples having different nationalities end up with marriage and having their own family. Most of them started at online, maybe in Facebook while some tried their luck in online dating.

While there are people who don't believe in online love, they said that it's just wasting of time, nothings will work out if the couples are in Long Distance Relationship, but we can't judge then, because in most cases temptation occurs more when the couples are far with each other, or maybe these people who don't believe in online love came into being broken hearted having a Long Distance Relationship in the past.

On the other hand, there are also people who don't like to enter LDR. It doesn't mean that they don't believe in love starting online, but within themselves they can't take to be far to whom they love. Those persons is when they know that their relationship will turns for separation physically then don't go for it.


We can't deny that the use of internet in today's situation really gives a good impact not only about our economy, different job sectors, studies, this pandemic and many more but also in terms of love. But then, still we must be careful as in online, there are scams, cyberbullying, fakenews, and other pages/apps/site that can bring negativity to our life. As what a saying is "Think Before you Click".

What are your side about online love? Are you agree about it?

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There are indeed interesting and tedious things in relationships through online media because they will not meet face-to-face. but I also often have logical thoughts about this because it could be that a mate is a friend or a boyfriend when meeting with online media. But everything is arranged by God.

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2 years ago

You got the right point. If it is God's will then no matter online or not, still end with marriage.

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2 years ago

In every relationship whether online or meeting them in person, we have to know them more deeply. We have to know within ourselves if we are ready and willing to commit and how far can we go so keep the relationship.

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2 years ago

That's true, it's also not good to enter in a relationship which you didn't know yet the real identity of your partner.

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2 years ago

Seen doing this by my friends lots of time, but there's isn't a single relationship succeed. I guess youths in my place are less matured, lol. It seems good to me. Sure a person can fake in online love and the possibility of scaming is more. But still there's a lot of informations in internet to get to know that person better and if that doesn't work, meet them personally. So overall a good option to me.

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2 years ago

Yes especially when it's in online dating, then less probability that it will turn out good but then if a persons are meant for each other then will will end together.

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2 years ago

And what do you think about it is it good or bad? Come on give a simple yes or no.

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2 years ago

"Yes" for me

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2 years ago

But, it's so rare to find someone like that, true?

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2 years ago

Way back, I experienced this kind of thing but it was on a different level. Then, one telecommunication company opened up a number to be dialed and connect to anyone online....free phone call to anonymous members. It was fun then because we made alot of friends

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2 years ago

Oh this thing doesn't only be for romantic relationship but gaining friends too. That's good:)

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2 years ago

Alot of folks have truly found love through long distance relationship. It works for some but it never works for others

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2 years ago

True Sis, still it's God's Will:)

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2 years ago

I heard an incident where a man was planting a fruit cart in one place So a woman used to go to him for a solution. They fell in love with each other and they got married And most people succeed in online love and get married and most people can't get married just pass the time.

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2 years ago

Yes, if they are meant for each other then nothing can hinder they will end up together online or not

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2 years ago

Nowadays its not uncommon to fall in love in online. Here is lot of people who fall in love online and broke up and here is lot of people who they married with online lover and happily leading their life. All is depend on the couples no matter its online or offline or long distance. Stay positive ling❤️

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2 years ago

Seems like you're really sure about it huh ahaha

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2 years ago

relate with that textmate thing way back in high school That was supposed my topic today kaso hindi ko natapos

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2 years ago

I will read it Sis haha current issue kasi:D

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2 years ago

Yup in this era due to all time useage of the Mobile social media love and then breakup is getting common but lol I have no experience of it😿

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2 years ago

Stay single until your mind and heart cooperates together Sis haha

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