Pardon me if I will use the pronoun "she" in this article because in my life, I never heard a man mocking against other man's personality. I'm referring to my own personal experience and not in online world okay, because in social media almost all gender are guilty about cyber bullying.

"She is just beautiful because of make-up"

I cannot understand why other girls don't understand that the reason of using make-up is to enhance someone's physical beauty, and that those girls are just using it for it's common purpose. I know that other girls are using too much make-up that it hide her real beauty. But we don't know the reason behind it, maybe she was once a victim of bullying that she used to use the make-up as her shield from ignorant people. Or maybe, make-up give her more confidence that helped her to get out from her shell.

We should try to understand other people's way of making themselves happy, as long as it's not bad, that no one felt aggrieved. Actually the funny thing is that, those who keeps on saying that "they are just beautiful because of make-up", are those who are jealous with others beauty, can't afford to buy makeup and those you use beauty products but still no enhancement.

I don't use make-up because the last time I use it is seems like someone punch me. Lol but I salute to those who can wear make-up so good, and there's nothing wrong with it.

"She dress like a rich but in reality they are poor"

Just my question is that, do we really need to wear clothes according to our social classes? Like if you're poor, you don't have the right to be fashionable to yourself? It is really a toxic trait, just to be honest.

There are some teenagers who always notice others clothes and when they saw the house, they was like, "ehh. Her dress looks so expensive but look at her house so small". Like what? So that person don't have the right to be beautiful just because he/she can't afford to renovate their house?. Another thing is that we can buy nice clothes with a good quality in a thrifted and/or pre-loved stores.

Remember, fashion is an art that everyone have the right to have.

"She is only beautiful in profile picture but not in personal"

This makes me laugh, really. Why is it, that a person keeps on spying other's profile and saying that they only look good in picture? First, it is their account and they have the right to choose what to post. My moms co-worker once said, "They said that I only look good in picture, then why should I stop myself in giving that opportunity to be beautiful. Are they the one who feed me?" And I do love her answer, this shows self-love and bravery to reject negative comments. Second, is the filter. What's wrong if people will use filter? They just embrace the use of it which is for entertainment, art and to enhance once beauty. They might say, "She is only beautiful because of filter". Are you okay? That's the point, to make herself beautiful.

My point here is for us not to be one sided, to think deeply and understand the feelings of others. Maybe we are too confident to think that we are perfect, and that we look down other people. It it our right, and a must, to enhance ourselves; to be beautiful and confident.

On the other hand, if you're a person who are surrounded with negative people. They try to correct them, we should not tolerate, but once you did and they still ignore, then just let them be the dust of our world.

To everyone, let's support each other by avoiding negativity, spread love and understanding.

Disclaimer: The views and opinions stated in this article are based on the author's experience and observation. All the photos above are personally made unless it was stated.

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October 16, 2022

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