Charm is Deceitful, Beauty is Vain

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Indeed, we may have different definitions of beauty, but we can't deny that beauty can be someone's power. Beauty is an advantage although we know that personality matters.

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I have a boy bestfriend, he is kind, popular, sporty and intelligent in terms of politics. What I don't like about him is he is a kind of a boy who can't live without girlfriend. I have mentioned before that I transfer in private school when I was in fourth year Highschool. I also said that it is not so hard for me to cope up with the new environment, since many of my friends also transferred there, and one of the "friends" that I am talking to is him.

In our former school he have a girlfriend, but when we transfered there I found out that they already broke up. It is not so sad for him, as after a month he already have a new girlfriend. He is lucky in his new girlfriend, a very kind, feminine and shy, I think the girl give a positive change to him, he became loyal.

When we turn into college; guess what, I'm surprise that we are still schoolmates, and what's more surprising is that we take the same course and classmate again. We was like meant to be together in school life(lol). So we are enjoying our first semester in college, until we met this beautiful girl named Jezzel(not her real name), she became our classmate, and our group of friends became close to her squad. My boy bestfriend keeps on talking at her, until we observe that they became close and sweet to each other.

There was a time when we are sitting in a bench, when her squad approach us, asking;

"Is there something between your bestfriend and Jezzel?"

"Oh I thought it's only us who observed it. But none, you don't need to worry about the boy, Jay(my bestfriend) already have girlfriend in other school"

"That's good, because Jezzel's boyfriend told us that he is suspecting Jezzel cheating at him. We think that he is refering to Jay"

After that, me and my other friends talk to Jay, we frankly tell him that what he is doing is not right. Both of them have a partner, and they must stop what they are doing. Weeks had passed, we thought that everything is fine, until Jay told us that they are already in a relationship with Jezzel, both of them broke up their own partners and decided to be together.


What's the point of this story?

Jezzel is almost 5 years in relationship with her boyfriend, but since my bestfriend is more popular and handsome, it catch her attention so easily.

I also had a conversation with my boy bestfriend and he said "I also want to have a girlfriend who has a good personality, like a simple one. Yet, you know what world I have(modeling), If I go in different occasions, I must bring a girl with a beauty"


I don't know why most people keeps on looking a life partner yet blind with beauty of the outside. While there are some who are born with physical beauty yet took advantage on it to get what they want. This may not be the world's major problem, but when we talk about love which is the greatest of all then this is one of the reason why relationship turns out broken.

Beauty is art, and beauty in the inside is the most important. Let us remember that beauty fades; it's the true love and personally that will last.

Have you also hear some stories and have your own experiences where beauty wins over personality?

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Beauty indeed catches our attention, but what makes us stay is the beauty of the person from within. Beauty fades in no time, but the kindness in one's heart will stay forever

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2 years ago

Beauty is like a book, you can't be judged by its cover alone. You have to know how to look beyond appearance

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2 years ago

I would not comment a single word.

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2 years ago

It's relate now a days mostly na talaga ngayon de find beauty as thier partner even don't have a good character. I will not look at the pyhsical appearance I will always look the character who can I go with and interact with.

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2 years ago

Naalala ko ung memes na bat daw di pa dumadatinf yong tamang lalaki for them . Tas bong dumatinf biglang, bakit di pa dumarating yong good looking na tang lalaki for us. Lile seriously hahahaha.

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2 years ago

Outside beautification fades dear. Inner beauty & pure soul remain bright forever.

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2 years ago

Beauty fades. We all know that. Your friend will never be content if he is just finding someone based on beauty alone.

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2 years ago

a man's view of a woman lies in her general appearance on her main face because of the tendency of men to desire the desire for relationships this impact results in frequent infidelity because men always see every advantage possessed by other women.

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2 years ago

Nowadays, it's so sad that there some people who falls inlove with the beauty outside without considering their personalities anymore, but love is more worth it and meaningful if they fall in love with the beauty inside.

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2 years ago

who see that, these days

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2 years ago

Nowadays lalo na yong teenage outsidw beauty na yung standard. Nakakabanas lang yung thinking na kailangan maganda para may maibandera.

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2 years ago

Yup I have seen 90% of cases winning beauty over personality, ah later they cry and regret but what's done is done. But some even after knowing the truth go for beauty. I think the generation hasn't understood that beauty ain't enough to have a future together. The reason you will see many people's relationships and even marriages fail nowadays.

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2 years ago

Most immature men like beautiful girls as a display, a trophy of their masculinity but those mature like girls who have great personality or character.

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2 years ago

With this little story you’ve narrated about jay ( your best boyfriend ) mean he maybe even more than handsome but I loves girls. I hope it doesn’t cause bro with jazzel’s boyfriend at college.

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2 years ago

They had a fight actually, yet Jezzel defend my boy bestfriend than her first love.

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2 years ago

love puts forward intimacy, arouses men's passion when they see a woman with beautiful looks as if external beauty overpowers internal morality. leave a guy like this because it only ruins the relationship when together.

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2 years ago

Yes, better not to take a fake relationship that long.

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2 years ago

Yes sis. I will choose the personality than beauty kasi based sa experience ko. Kahit gaano pa yan kagwapo kung yung personality di mo gusto darating ang panahon na mapapagod ka unlike pag lamang ang personality. Mas masaya ka. Feeling mo walang mga worries. Yung beauty tatalunin talaga ng personality.

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2 years ago

Yun nakakalungkot Sis pag natatalo ng beauty ang personality, yet karma na din sa huli kasi marerealize na ugali mas better

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2 years ago

Totoo sis. Sa huli talaga ma realize na mas mahalaga parin ang ugali kaysa sa face.

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2 years ago

Most of those who wanna have a partner attract more on the outside appearance though the inside beauty should be the most to consider. I think your boy best friend was not yet serious in his relationship or maybe he is a womanizer though.

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2 years ago

Tingin ko din Sis, but if he found the real woman for him, then everything will change.

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2 years ago

I would also prefer personality over beauty, but if we can have both, why not? Hahaha! But I feel sad to what happened to the story, akala ko sa wattpad lang to nangyayari.

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2 years ago

Tama Sis, and uso ito in real-life kawawa mga naiiwan dahil lang sa mas may itsura ang isa haha

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2 years ago

Beauty from the inside always lives in and never fades

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2 years ago

Yes Sis, it's forever :)

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2 years ago

That's exactly what is says about your headline. Beauty is vain willy-nilly its just how deceiver starts. Be careful with those mellow words it may deceive you.

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2 years ago

Yes, this should be a reminder especially for those who prefer to look with the physical beauty.

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2 years ago

Personality remains untouched. If you have them both, that's a jackpot! 🙂

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2 years ago

Love it! Tama Sis, is you have the both blessings na talaga.

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2 years ago

Maganda na, mabait pa. San ka pa, sis? hehe.

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