What attracts me the most?
Just yesterday, I was reading a few articles while waiting for a bus ride when I read @Lara888 article "What is my type of men? This or That challenge". I have read several articles about this but I haven't written my own version . Yet I had mentioned it to dear Lara, I will be writing mine, so here it is.
I forgot who owned this prompt so please pardon me.
Everyone has their own standards when it comes to a person we want to be in a relationship with. Some might get someone based on their standards and others did not. Well that happened sometimes when Cupid hit you, UNEXPECTEDLY.
Taller or Shorter?
I don't like big guys and as I matter of fact I had written an article about it; here. I prefer just a few inches taller than me and with a lean body. I don't like muscular types but of course I admire those who have abs. Hehehe who wouldn't?
Talkative or Quiet?
I am moody . Hehe my mood changes in an instant. There are times I am quiet and there are times I am talkative. Or let's say I am only talkative to people that I like. If not, you won't hear a word from me.
So I would go to a quiet one as for sure I will do a lot of talking, haha. Well most of the time my husband just listened. He is a man of few words. One word from him either will stop me from ranting or make me smile widely because of " kilig".
Opposite or Same sex?
I don't have an issue for those who are in relationship with their same sex but as for me I would go for opposite sex.
I admire a lot of beautiful and gorgeous ladies rather than men. Yes my attention would be caught first by my same gender. I remember way back in high school I got a crush on someone. Yes she is SHE. I just find her pretty and I always smile every time I see her angelic face. She knows about it and I used to call her " crush" instead of her name.
Hehe, I am sure I am straight . It never crossed my mind to be in a relationship with the same gender. I got a boyfriend as young as fourteen. Oh I was not serious about it. I just say YES just to be "IN" in a group. You know high school life.
Western or Asian?
When I was still a teenager I really wanted to marry someone from Western. Why? It is simply because I want to have a " blue eyed baby with that aristocratic nose". Me and my silly thoughts. I had that typical Asian nose, like a soldier as what my husband says, " kasi lagi nakadapa" ( always on their belly, usual position when firing). Sometimes I am wondering why I didn't get my Father's nose, I blamed my Mom. Her genes were indeed stronger!
However I forgot that thought when I fell in love, char. Well let say if I am still single by now I would go and marry someone from Western.
Older or Younger?
Naaa! I don't like babysitting as women grow mature faster than men, either in physics or emotionally. Correct me if I am wrong. I have never dated anyone who is younger than me. I prefer to be older than me from three up to ten years. Because I know they had a lot of more experienced in life than me.
Oh, when I was still seventeen I dated someone who is 13years older than me. I like him actually, maybe puppy love. Yet we didn't end up as boyfriend and girlfriend why? Well, "I maybe young but not naive".
Flirt or be Flirted?
Hahaha I am not confident if I can flirt. hehe, maybe through chat? In reality, I am shy. So it's always my husband who flirts with me . Hmmm maybe I will try if he goes home or If I can visit him if Taiwan will now accept tourists. Who is good at flirting here? Tips please.
Drink or Not?
I drink occasionally and I drink in the past. I have so many drunk tales but those were the days. So having a bottle with my partner is also okay while talking some random thoughts. Who knows I might discover something!
Hugs or Kisses?
Getting a hug from the love of my life is comforting. I always find peace no matter how bad the day is. Yet having a kisses, yes kisses a lot of it would also be great! It can take me into the other dimension of the world.
Now I remember and it's been 756 days I haven't gotten a hugs and kisses from my sweetheart!
This pandemic is really frustrating and I badly missed him.
Before I ended this article I wanna thank this generous lady @GarrethGrey07 for the renewal of sponsorship. More BCH to come to you sis.
How about you? What attracts you the most? I would gladly read your comment in my comment section.
If you feel bored and want someone to talk with you can contact me here. I would surely reply as long as it's not my office hours.
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Have a great day.
03/20/2022
08:05 PM_Manila Philippines.
Hahaha, fun reading this. And your nose is nice naman, grabe sabi mister mo, laging nakadapa hehehe.